Putting emotions on the scale, no more, no less, no more, may be an attitude of men and women in modern cities. In fact, we are not afraid of being hurt. Being hurt at least means that you are in love, but we have lost the ability to love. Being hurt has become a luxury.

Boys often pursue girls, but they fail and break up. The man took out a pile of invoices, all of which were paid to the girl. He asked the girl to compensate him for his economic losses. Some also put forward the youth loss fee when breaking up, that is, the breakup fee. One is a material loss, and the other is a spiritual loss. No matter what kind of loss, I want to make up.

Can you make it up?

In Zhang Ailing's famous saying, it is a very strict test to love someone enough to ask him for pocket money. Because the story is not over yet, the tree is gone, depending on whether he admits his bad luck or gets it back. How to measure true feelings can only be proved from material contributions. But until the end, we still can't see clearly what the word "true" is.

The economic AA system can gradually rise to the emotional AA system. A neighbor in the building, family finances are irrelevant. The division of labor between rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea is clear. Children go to primary school, one is responsible for tuition and miscellaneous fees, and the other is responsible for pocket money. Even if they go out for a walk to buy popsicles, they will pay for it themselves, not to mention paying for their personal expenses. Even if they buy gifts for their parents or go out to eat, they will settle accounts with invoices: you give me back the money you spent on your mother's birthday last night. Such couples are more like comrades than husband and wife, and such families are more like groups than families. A woman with such endurance often needs a lot of confidence to do it. People with this habit ...

Women get married as soon as they are not confident, and most married women have economic strength. When birds throw themselves into the forest, it is far more comforting to be a sad person with money than to be a sad person with nothing.

It is not unusual to notarize property before marriage now. A few years ago, there was a notarization called loyalty agreement. The couple signed an agreement and were loyal to each other. The derailed party bears all the losses and is at a disadvantage in the division of property after marriage. Even if sad people are frustrated, getting financial compensation is not necessarily a balanced method.

But loyalty can also be agreed, which is also a puzzling thing in the end. Just as we insist on weighing our feelings on the scales, the result of measurement is that the weight of love is getting smaller and smaller.