1. Ancient Chinese poems about choosing friends carefully. Ancient Chinese poems about choosing friends carefully.
Friendship idioms: Eight worships, eight bows, and the same return. Friendships of morality and justice. High friendship. Hate to meet each other late. Hateful knowing each other until late, we have never turned against each other, we are still deeply affectionate, deep friendship, life and death, we will never change in life and death, we will look at each other and laugh at each other, we will never go against each other. ** We share the joys and sorrows, care for each other with great hospitality, sit down and talk, the mood is as deep as a sword at altitude, help each other, and pledge our hearts to each other. Poems about friendship. When it comes to friendship, as the saying goes, "A knife is inserted for a friend's two sides", "Blessings are shared, and hardships are shared"; The literati also said, "If Bo Ya dies without making a bell, people will say that the harp is broken through the ages."
All has passed, and now we have to say that these verses are no longer the essence of contemporary friendship. The most perfect thing to write about friendship is "There are close friends in the sea, and we are like neighbors across the world."
What a pity is that they are both "official travelers", and the same "official" ruins the scenery. "I urge you to drink another glass of wine. There will be no old friends when you leave Yangguan in the west." Giving each other a glass of wine gives a feeling of acquaintance at the wine table.
"When it is late and the sky is snowing, I can drink a glass of nothing." When I saw Du Fu's poem, I thought that Lao Du and Wei Ba were close friends. In fact, they only met occasionally, and their friendship became strong because of the poem. . Speaking of Lao Du, we have to lament that Li Bai is not enough of a buddy.
In 763 AD, the second year after Li Bai's death, Du Fu left Chengdu and came to Zizhou. Since he had not heard from Li Bai for a long time, he wrote the poem "Missing" on the Mid-Autumn Festival in August as a nostalgic poem. Friend Li Bai, "A thousand quick poems, a glass of wine", which shows Lao Du's deep affection. But Li Shixian was much more indifferent, "A pot of wine among the flowers, drinking alone without any intimacy.
Raise your glass to the bright moon, and look at each other to become three people", enjoying yourself; The birds are flying high, and the lonely clouds are alone. I never tire of looking at each other, only Jingting Mountain."
Take nature as your friend; "I will go away when I am drunk, and I will come tomorrow with love." Just blow people away. On the other hand, our Mr. Wang Lun from southern Anhui was moved by his simplicity and simplicity, "The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as Wang Lun's love for me."
There are many descriptions of friendship in ancient poems, but what I have never understood is that in "A Dream of Red Mansions", which is the "Bible" of Chinese national literature, there seems to be no decent friendship between Jia Yucun and Zhen Shiyin. It is a typical utilitarian relationship, and the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Jiang Yuhan is even more subtle. Life is unpredictable, and friendship can bring a lot of warmth and warmth.
Mr. Lu Xun said, "It is enough to have a confidant in life!" Only when you really have a confidant can you appreciate more of the touching beauty of the world. Famous quotes about friendship talk about things like fame, honor, happiness, and wealth. If compared with friendship, they are all dust... ------Darwin Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special praise, but also Deserving of eternal praise.
It is the wisest mother of generosity and honor, the sister of gratitude and kindness, the sworn enemy of hatred and greed; it is always ready to sacrifice itself for others, and it is entirely voluntary, without the need of others. plead. ------Boccaccio Friendship! How many people in the world, when they say this word, mean pleasant conversations over tea and drinks and tolerance of each other's weaknesses! But what does this have to do with friendship? ------Fadeyev True friends don't talk about friendship. They don't ask each other for anything for friendship, but do everything they can for each other.
-----Belinsky Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is to say, there must be such a relationship: neither exaggerate nor underestimate anything. If you don't deceive each other, if you respect yourself and others, then no matter what kind of relationship you maintain - friendship, love, etc. - it will be a healthy relationship.
------Makarenko We should not tarnish a friendship by trying to maintain it at any cost. If friendship must be sacrificed for the greater love, there is no way around it; but if it can be maintained, then it can truly reach perfection.
------Tagore Friendship is as valuable to the human heart as alchemy often says that their gems are to the human body. ------Bacon Friendship is as valuable to the human heart as alchemy often says that their gems are to the human body.
------Bacon Be careful when choosing friends! The pure selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but also set up traps to trap you. ------ Krylov Friendship is like pottery, it can be repaired if it is broken; love is like a mirror, once it is broken it is difficult to put it back together.
------Billings Friendship has many names, but once youth and beauty intervene, friendship is called love and is deified as the most beautiful angel---- --Christopher Friendship is a selfless exchange between two equals; love is a humble exchange between a tyrant and a slave------Oliver Goldsmith A large number of friendships make life strong , loving and being loved is the greatest happiness in life------Sidney Smith Since we are all mortals, it is better to keep friendship at a moderate level and not to interfere too deeply in each other's spiritual life--- ---Euripides. 2. I would like to ask for a few inspirational and rigorous ancient texts as mottos, mainly to express motivation, thank you
Peng Duanshu of the Qing Dynasty
For learning
Everything in the world is difficult and easy ? If you do it, what is difficult will become easy; if you don't do it, what is easy will also be difficult. Is it difficult or easy for people to learn? If you learn it, the difficult things will become easy; if you don't learn them, the easy things will also become difficult.
If my talents are weak, I will not catch others; if my talents are mediocre, I will not catch others. If I learn it day by day, I will not slack off for a long time, and even if I am successful, I will not know whether it is weak or mediocre. My talents are as smart as others; my talents are as sensitive as others; if I discard them without using them, I am no different from being dull and mediocre. The way of the sage was passed down to Lu when he died. However, how can stupidity and cleverness be used for a long time?
In Shu, there are two monks: one is poor and the other is rich. The poor said to the rich: "What do I want to do with the South China Sea?"
The rich said: "Why do you want to go there?"
He said: "I have a bottle of one. The bowl is enough. "
The rich man said: "I have been trying to buy a boat for several years, but I have not been able to do so. How can I go there alone? Return from the South China Sea to tell the rich. The rich are ashamed.
From Western Shu to the South China Sea, I don’t know how many thousands of miles there are. The rich monks can’t get there, but the poor ones can’t get there. How can people be as determined as the despicable monks of Shu? 3. Be careful when reading classical Chinese
Original text:
Confucius said: "After my death, business will increase day by day, and gifts will decrease day by day." Zengzi said, "What is it?" Said: "It is good for merchants to deal with those who are virtuous, and to give gifts to those who are not as good as themselves. If you don't know his son, you will treat him as his father; if you don't know his person, you will treat him as a friend; if you don't know his king, you will treat him as his servant; if you don't know his land, you will treat him as his servant. Consider the vegetation. Therefore, living with good people is like entering a house of orchids, and if you don't smell their fragrance for a long time, you will be transformed into them. Living with unkind people is like entering a house of abalones, and if you don't smell their smell for a long time, you will be with them. It is transformed. What is hidden in elixir is red, and what is hidden in lacquer is black. Therefore, a gentleman must be careful about where he is." --- "Confucius' Family Collection": "A gentleman is careful about where he is.
Translation:
Confucius said: After my death, Zixia will be more advanced than before, while Zigong will be worse than before. "Zengzi asked: Why? Confucius said: Zixia likes to be with people who are wiser than himself, (so his moral cultivation will improve day by day); Zigong likes to get along with people who are not as talented as himself, (so his moral cultivation will improve day by day) Loss). If you don’t know what a child is like, just look at the child’s father. If you don’t know yourself, just look at the friends around him. If you don’t know the master, just look at the messengers he sends. No. To understand the local situation, just look at the local vegetation. Therefore, staying with people of high moral character is like entering a house full of fragrance. After a long time, you will no longer smell the fragrance, but it is already full of fragrance; and When people of bad character are together, it's like going to a shop selling salted fish. After a long time, you no longer smell the smell, but you still have the fishy smell itself; the place where the elixir is hidden will turn red over time, and the place where the paint is hidden will turn red. Places will darken over time, so a true gentleman must choose his environment carefully.