success that requires crazy self-discipline will definitely make indulgence more and more out of control.

If you can attract the headlines, you will more or less have some good habits of self-discipline, such as getting up early, 2 kilometers, reading 5 pages a day, going to bed early and so on. Let's not discuss the good or bad of these self-discipline habits for the time being. Let's review our unforgettable time without self-discipline. When we first fell in love with each other, did we miss that moment because of self-discipline? We stayed up all night on the eve of our wedding, so do we need an alarm clock to get up early? Every time I go home to see it, which time is it written in the self-discipline form? Will you chuckle with satisfaction when you think back to the above pure beauty?

The success of self-discipline has nothing to do with the above pure beauty. If self-discipline has nothing to do with the above beauty, can the antonym' indulgence' of self-discipline have a little connection with it? A person who indulges himself without restraint needs self-discipline in missing his first love? Do you need to set an early alarm clock on the morning of your wedding day? Missing home needs memory to remind you? At this point, we all have a positive answer in our hearts. The beauty that blooms in the pure land deep in my heart will not be influenced by self-discipline and indulgence.

self-discipline or indulgence. Will not have a direct relationship with real success. If you succeed through self-discipline, you will be successful and return home, and then what? Is your brain buzzing? Don't pretend to tell yourself to make persistent efforts and go forward bravely. In fact, you are entering an unprecedented period of indulgence, leaving only self-discipline that has no fighting spirit every day. For a period of time after your success, take a rest and slow down. A comfortable life makes you no longer high-spirited and accustomed to being immersed in trivial things in the market. Will be enlightened once in life, stumble once, rally and set sail. Cycle after cycle. This proposition does not exist in the premise that grapes are sour or not. I just want to verify the above conclusion. Self-discipline has nothing to do with real success. Everything that is really beautiful is also incompatible with self-discipline. I gained a love through self-discipline, I made my family happy through self-discipline, and I got along better with people around me through self-discipline. The influence of self-discipline can't reach this height. The magnetic field brought by self-discipline can't make things around more harmonious.

as Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching, there is often no such thing, so I want to see its wonders. I often want to watch it. The general idea is that we should be in a state of no desire and no demand before we can have a correct outlook and seek truth. In the state of being quiet, selfless and detached, and with a certain degree of cognition, the direction given from the bottom of your heart will surely make you spare no effort to pursue it all your life. In the near future, we will meet the sense of calmness and return to the original place after the real success. It is a sacred state, not a simple joy. Any truly successful person or thing must be based on an extraordinary vision. The starting point of running a country, running a business and engaging in work must be a transcendental vision. Then this transcendental vision conception is the state of nothing mentioned in Laozi's Tao Te Ching. It is impossible to succeed if you are immersed in concrete things and ignore the transcendental thinking about the general direction and fundamental interests. Zhuge Liang is a young man, but he knows three points in the world. The news is blocked and the specialty is not strong. According to the current recruitment evaluation criteria, it is estimated that the probability of not passing is too great. However, it is the premise that this kind of information is blocked and the profession is not strong, so that a generation of great men can be free from fetters and achieve a brilliant life. He didn't graduate from the North of Qing Dynasty, and his family was not well-off. It was in this state of indifference that he integrated all kinds of information and took care of the essence and root of things in order to gain insight into the wonders of everything. From the biographies of some great thinkers and great scientists, we can easily find that it is also a point that is often overlooked. Being able to observe the essence of things and the inevitability of development direction through no desire is a prerequisite for success. Only in this way can we avoid futility and indulgence after success. What degree of achievement you can achieve depends on your high level of knowledge, that is, qualifications. Through reading and learning, practice turns knowledge into one's own qualifications and cognition. The higher your cognitive level, the higher your achievement level.

Of course, it's not enough to have direction and cognition. In fact, at this level, success is a matter of time, so there is often nothing, and we want to see the wonders. I often want to watch it. It says that there is no morality, so I want to see its wonders. After this sentence, if you want to watch it, read it, saving you Baidu, to the effect that the previous sentence reflects each other. The last sentence said that if you want to understand the mystery, you should return to the essence of things from nothing, and understand the original mystery of things through the detached state of virtual silence and selflessness. Understand the development law of things from scratch, own cognition and practice, proficiency and application. Or take Zhuge Liang as an example, let him master all kinds of art of war through the state of no desire, and only by combining the two with the desire to see the development law of people and things can he strategize. Win a thousand miles. It is this transcendental thinking and deep understanding of the bone marrow that conforms to the teachings of Laozi. Only in the true sense can it be considered a wonderful door, not to mention that Sima Yi is unworthy.

He no longer needs self-discipline and rules to guide him, and you will find that he will be driven and urged from the inside out. It will make you crazy about one thing. Self-discipline becomes meaningless in the face of this madness. What wakes us up every day will no longer be an alarm clock, which is similar to the instinct of being hungry. What we need to do is to stimulate this instinct through cognition and direction. Instinct is the source of our motivation. With this nourishment, we will no longer need gas stations or even rest. Forgetting to eat and sleep is always a height of self-discipline, and it is also an efficiency that self-discipline cannot achieve.

when we come into contact with all kinds of beauty in life, we often sit in our ideal state and blindly pursue it. As a result, I found that I didn't work hard for a long time, so I needed external help, and some even felt that the direction was wrong and gave up. People who haven't given up have established a circle to cheer each other up. Every morning, there is a bowl of beautiful chicken soup, and it feels full of energy. Is it a feeling to talk about you? Actually, I'll talk about my own personal experience. Will you realize that self-discipline is a good friend who pushes and pulls? Our relationship is just that. The reason that forces us to stagnate and be inefficient is not that the friend of self-discipline didn't help us, but that the pace of our progress is not so firm. Some friends feel that they are doing something wrong when they walk because of their low level of cognition, some give up in time, and some go astray. Some friends have a high degree of cognition, but because of their strong purpose, their life after success is getting narrower and narrower, or even they can't get to the successful step. I'm not complaining or alarmist. Billions of people are working hard, and successful cases abound. How many cases really make us envy from the beginning to the end from the inside out? Less than 1%? Even some people have just heard about success and have never had specific contact, have they? That is the reality.

This is also a reflection of myself, the confession of a middle-aged man in his thirties. A few years ago, I was lucky enough to be blown high into the air by the tuyere to get a glimpse of the edges and corners of the lives of successful people. Once, food, clothing, housing and transportation, rice, oil and salt seemed to be unworthy of their feelings. The change of material concept is not so exaggerated. What I can't let go of for a long time is that self-confidence and heartfelt superiority. Wearing this mask of superiority, even today I haven't completely let go. It will always clear up and the wind will always stop. The process of falling left me at a loss. I indulged myself without fighting spirit. Compared with the sense of superiority that came from every pore, this evil consequence buried deep in my heart made me more confused. I knew I was wrong and I wanted to start over. I hope that I can rally myself without fighting spirit, but that hypocritical sense of superiority keeps reminding me that being a contented miser is much better than the average peer anyway. Maybe there are several brilliant milestones interspersed in our life, and they end in nothing. Old people can generally talk about their various glories when they were young, some with higher achievements, some with legendary colors, and some with plain moderation. There are always a few things I can't help but want to share with others. When you are asked to talk about your glory in general, will you regret knowing that the glorious height will be the height you can't surpass in your life, and will you clear your mind and get back on your feet and set sail again? The answer is yes, it won't. Your eyes are full of water. Before this glass of water is emptied, you will be as demoralized as if you were enchanted.

self-discipline? Don't be harmed by him again. Several of my female classmates are very proud of their children's self-discipline and hard work at home, and they are ready to do something again. After a detailed understanding, is it really for a housewife to get a certificate in order to find a better job and have a better skill in the future? The result is not, just to be able to attach the certificate and earn the attachment fee. A group of unprofessional people hold the certificate tested by a group of professional housewives, regardless of the risk. This is a morbid value. The link where self-discipline is located has played the role of an accomplice. Through the above inference, what self-discipline leads us to is not success, and the real success does not need self-discipline to guide ourselves. The sincere correct values from the inside out will lead us beyond the efficiency brought by self-discipline. The joy of reaching the other side to discover the new world and the desire for new knowledge are places where self-discipline can't take you.

Don't worry about not finding the sacred new world in your heart. As long as you are eager for new knowledge, one day, you will jump out of the well and have a panoramic view. That joy will make you too excited to sleep, and it will also make you get up without an alarm clock and be fascinated by it all the time when you miss your first love.

Self-discipline can also take you out of the bottom of the well. From the day you reach the top, you will tell the people under the well by the edge of the well, and you will get lost in the superior gentle village. When you are tired, you will fall into the bottom of the well again. You will brag at the bottom of the well, day after day. When opportunities wave to you again and again, your sense of superiority, your satisfaction, and your dead fighting spirit. All kinds of sequelae make you willing to be mediocre and die without a disease. When I witnessed the scenes around me, from the frog at the bottom of the well to soaring in the sky like an eagle, I couldn't figure out my position. Where to go? Envy the strong with high morale? Envy! Are you worried about the mediocre people who waste their lives? Take your time! I have adapted to the mediocrity, and everyone who is willing to be ordinary is telling the same glorious past. Maybe I seized the opportunity again and reached a higher level. Then what? Will be a deeper sequela. Waiting for yourself will be a longer indulgence and emptiness. Speaking of this, it may cause a ripple in the heart. Everyone is working hard, fast or slow. We don't lack self-discipline and motivation. Parents, children, relatives, their daily necessities, food, clothing, housing and transportation conditions can all be the driving force for us to move forward. For them, we will selflessly sacrifice the best decades of our lives, then send the old people away and continue to pass on this selflessness. .

don't regret wasting your time, and don't be ashamed of being mediocre. In this way, when he was dying, he could say, "My whole life and all my energy have been dedicated to the most magnificent cause in the world. If this life answer sheet is a perfect score, I think most people will fail. There are not many roads for us to choose from, are there? Although rice, oil and salt are boring, they are busy for half a lifetime. We are all the same. If we can fly in the sky, who wants to be the frog under the well? Anyone can stand the ordinary, but they are not willing to be mediocre. I led us here through words, not to vent or to rehabilitate. Just to untie this knot. Then the answer is definitely not struggle! Come on! Similar slogans. Slogans are mostly brainwashed by the leadership to guide the grassroots to work harder? Chicken soup? Self-discipline is just a scientific learning tool. Lao Tzu said that looking at the essence through phenomena, the appearance of things may seem correct or distorted, and it is recognized through our perceptual thinking. No matter how high our cognitive level is, a thing has its own inner nature, and we can't change its essential attribute by knowing right and wrong. Therefore, we should look at things rationally, and wrong is right and wrong is right. No matter how perceptual influences the development trend of things, it can't change its essential attribute after all. Our life is the same, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how heavy the burden is. No one was sent to fight against the daily necessities of life. This is the ironclad essence, food, clothing, housing and transportation, which is the lowest requirement for everyone to face life. Only by winning this basic battle can we start a higher challenge without worries. Then there are only two problems we should pay attention to, how to quickly solve the basic needs of eating, drinking, housing and transportation, and then lay a good foundation for higher challenges in the future. This should be the essence that Lao Tzu said to find through phenomena, right? The specific answer is cognitive ability. This is also the core issue I want to talk about. To improve your cognitive ability, cognition is not simply to remember, but to become your own intuitive judgment through understanding and understanding. This is your cognitive ability.

cognitive ability, which sounds more general, simply means reading more and learning more. Laozi's Tao Te Ching, Confucius' Analects of Confucius, reading history, biographies and literary masterpieces. Books are not only the ladder of human progress, but also the shortcut of human qualitative change. Reading thousands of books's trip to Wan Li Road is not a famous saying, but a way to teach people to learn. Without theoretical knowledge to practice, no matter how far you go, you will not be able to apply what you have learned. Many bloggers advertise from the media that they can read 4 books 365 days a year, and can tell the wonderful contents in the books, which has won many people's self-discipline. In the Spring and Autumn Period, in a large family, the owner was reading the book of sages, and the illiterate long-term workers in the family were making wheels by hand. At this time, the long-term worker asked the owner, is the owner of the book you read still alive? The host replied that it had been dead for hundreds of years. The long-term worker sighed and said, the sages have been dead for so many years, and what you read is just the dross left by the sages, which is of little use. The owner of the house said angrily, how can an illiterate long-term worker make a comment? The long-term worker sighed while cutting the wooden wheel in his hand. I have only done one thing in my life for 4 years, that is, making wheels. If I move slowly, I save energy, but the wheels I make are not firm. If I move fast, I work hard, but the wheels I make are irregular. Only in a leisurely state can we make a strong and round wheel. I have also taught many people this fast and slow state. Even if my son has been teaching by example for so many years since he was a child, he can't get my experience from me. Now I am over 6, and I can only make my own wheels. I want to pass on this craft, but some things can only be realized. I am afraid that my own craft will be taken to the grave with me. The sage's book you read is the essence of the sage's life, and it is a great thing, but can the world pay attention to the mystery with just a few words? It is estimated that what can be handed down from generation to generation is something simple, right? that