2. Love a person with your heart and hate a person with your feelings.
If you want to look at everything rationally, don't look at everything with begging eyes. Dignity is the most important thing at any time.
I don't like this one and I don't like that one. The end result is that you are not used to this era. It's okay to be versatile. In an unpredictable world, you can doubt everything, but you can't deny everything.
5. "Every man for himself, the devil takes the hindmost." Although the speech is extreme, you might as well listen to it and reflect on it, and you don't need to learn from it. Selfishness is human nature, which can be reformed, but it can never be eradicated. Even children over 2 years old know that sugar is their own and it is impossible for other children to eat it. This is nature, and it doesn't need to be taught by adults.
6. It's not necessarily a bad thing to be in cahoots, but it's worth hating. Sometimes, if you use it well, it's just a timely help, which is the icing on the cake.
7. To treat a wolf, we should look at it from different angles. As the saying goes, from this side of the forest, it becomes a mountain peak. Wolves have a cannibal side, but they also have a duplicity side. The wolf also wants to be a kind animal, but he also knows that his stomach can only digest meat, so the only thing the wolf can do is to eat every prey cleanly, while some animals who think they are kind always do things that are not "too kind" in hotels and restaurants.
8. "Live elsewhere" Please remember this sentence. It is not necessarily bad people who cheat, but may be forced by life; Noble people are not necessarily good people, but may be driven by interests. This is probably how people put on airs.
9. If you regard kindness as "pepper noodles" and spread it regardless of time, place and place, it is not others, but yourself.
10. Learn to say "no" at the right time and place. Don't say "no" at any time, it is your misfortune and sorrow; Saying "no" at any time is the misfortune and sorrow of others.
1 1. If you make a mistake, you should honestly admit it-nitpicking and shirking responsibility will only hurt yourself.
12. Keep a distance between friends-only in this way can friendship last.
13. Change the environment or change yourself-it is better to change yourself than to change the environment.
14. Don't fight an uncertain battle-life can't stand wasting again and again.
15. Make self-reflection your daily homework-because you are not perfect, you will say something wrong and do something wrong.
16. Encourage yourself when you keep a low profile-don't beg and don't expect others to encourage you.
17. rely on the intelligence of others to do things-a person's ability is limited.
18. Always have a sense of crisis-don't feel that your life is good and lucky.
19. The leading role and supporting role can be played, and they are comfortable on stage and off stage-in the face of life, we must practice flexible personality.
20. Learn to control your emotions-this is the most important sign of maturity.
2 1. Facing the sea, spring blossoms. "It's a state, a state that poets interpret with their own lives. Don't get rid of it easily.
22. If the function of the mouth exceeds that of the ear, it is the result of your ignorance; Don't delay your life with lies, and don't ruin your life with truth.
23. Good people are different from good people, and bad people are different from bad people, which is determined by human nature. Therefore, apart from the dead, there are no eternal bad people and no eternal good people in this world. Sometimes, you should listen to your friends and enemies, because there are no eternal friends and enemies in this world.
24. If you are deceived, you can forgive, but you can't forget; You can not find it, but you can't be indifferent.
25. If you see through a phenomenon and want to torture yourself in a boring way, it is your ignorance and stubbornness. People are different, and everyone is equal only in articles and slogans. If you advocate equality of personality, it can only be your wishful thinking and self-righteousness. If you don't discriminate against others, it's only a matter of time before others discriminate against you or you.
26. A person is far away from you. He must be a friend when you are brilliant. One kind of person is very close to you. When you are brilliant, you may be a villain.
27. It's nice to have someone who speaks well of you. Those who help you behind your back, that is the real help.
28. When you hear sweet words, you can be tempted, but you can't get carried away. If you are not tempted, it is fake. If you get carried away, it may come true.
29. Nothing in this world can last forever. You can try to believe everything except death, except the word "forever".
30. Never humiliate or spoil yourself. Don't make a mess of your life because of a slander or a blow from others, and you can only be really hurt. Life is empty and real, and there is real and empty. This is not true, you will regret it all your life; This is not empty, you will regret it all your life. This is a survival skill, and no one will teach you.
3 1. If you want to live well, stick your face into your crotch. You can despise it in your eyes, but you can't underestimate its gold content.
32. Don't believe it easily: good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. That is a proposition about desire, fate and coincidence, and whether to report it or not has nothing to do with good and evil.
33. Getting rid of temptation has nothing to do with your will. It is a lesson and an experience of life, including thoughts, spirits, wisdom, realm and soul. The most important thing is not to always put yourself in the position of superman, and not to think of yourself as so fragile. Resist it, and you will complete this kind of learning; If you can't stand it, you can continue to study. This is not a shameful thing, nor does it mean degeneration and indulgence, because we are all ordinary people.
34. Tolerance does not mean weakness. When you are bullied, you should know that courage is another kind of tolerance. You know, no one will appreciate a weak person. Being tough will make you more dignified and noble.
Don't let go of what belongs to you, and don't plunder what doesn't belong to you. People can "* * *" appropriately, but they can't * * * to the extent that they can plunder, although everyone likes to judge heroes by success or failure.
36. "There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people." This is a cliche that is universally applicable. It is not that the world is bad, but that people are not old. Don't hurt others, but prevent others from hurting you. People's greed and selfishness determine that it is normal for some people to harm others, but it is abnormal not to harm others.
37. Being humiliated is not an exaggeration occasionally, but if it becomes a habit, it is not fate, but an unforgivable fault.
38. Secular existence is the last word. You can only get used to it, but you can't change it No one can tell you why it exists, and no one can tell you that you can follow it or give it up, but you can't despise it. When you get used to it, you should back up your true colors, stay awake, learn to forgive the world and yourself.
39. I don't care if one thing is grace, and I don't care if it is for others every time. It's not fake or show. Similarly, tolerance is called tolerance for the first time, tolerance for the second time and weakness for the third time.
40. Gratitude is not a trivial matter, it can purify your life. Be kind, be honest, be honest, the premise is: follow the market.
4 1. No one can offend power; Sympathize with anyone, and don't sympathize with money.
42. Don't say what you think and don't do what you want. Suddenly reckless once is enough.
43. Self-esteem, self-improvement and self-reliance are the lessons you must learn well in this life. They are the fundamental and only reason why you can persist in living. If you want to improve the quality of life, it is necessary to make a living. If you don't want to be eaten by wolves, you must practice the skills of killing wolves. Wherever you go, wolves dare not eat you.
44. Believe in yourself, love and the world at all times, and believe in your ability to love and live a good life no matter what harm you encounter or what ugliness, filth and darkness you see.
45. Don't focus on others in a hurry. Try to focus on yourself for a while. After all, it is easier to reflect on yourself than dissect others.
46. Rushing out of the heart to see the world, there is a kind of calmness called calmness, and peace of mind is a kind of nobility and dignity.