1. "Heaven knows the earth, you know me".
According to the Biography of Yang Zhenchuan in the Later Han Dynasty, on one occasion, Yang Zhen passed by Changyi. Wang Mi, a local official, was recommended by Yang Zhen and has always been grateful to him. Late at night, Wang Mi went to visit with ten catties of gold.
Yang Zhen refused. Wang Mi said eagerly, "Nobody knows at dusk." Yang Zhen said: "Heaven knows, earth knows, you know, I know, what is the unknown?"
What you do during the day, you will tell your little granddaughter at night.
Jia Dashan, a contemporary writer, wants to emulate the ancients and capture his heart by doing things during the day and telling stories at night. But don't tell me anything every day, don't tell me anything. Tell your wife that husband and wife love each other deeply and it is inevitable to protect each other's weaknesses.
When I hesitated, I saw my little granddaughter's lively and innocent appearance, so I thought of a way: I must tell my little granddaughter what I did during the day, and I won't do what I dare not say. In this way, Jia Dashan is strict with himself. He is truly cautious and independent.
From The Book of Rites The Doctrine of the Mean: "Destiny is nature, frankness is Tao, and cultivation is teaching. If you are a Taoist, you can't leave for a moment; You can stay, but you can't.
So a gentleman is wary of what he can't see, and fear is almost unheard of. Don't be invisible, don't be subtle, so a gentleman is cautious. "
Chapter 7 of The Book of Rites University: "The so-called sincere people don't deceive themselves. If it stinks, if it's lewd, it's called modesty. Therefore, a gentleman must be cautious and independent.
Villains are not good at fooling around and can do anything. When you meet a gentleman, he will be disgusted, cover up his bad and focus on his good. It is no good for a person to see himself if he sees his lungs and liver. This is called sincerity in the middle and tangible outside, and a gentleman must be cautious and independent. "