There are two aspects to choosing: one is to control your desires. Not all good things can be obtained at the same time. You have to give up when you need to give up. You should get used to fighting for what you want or deserve the most. It is not necessary to have both. The choice is not only about behavior, but also about letting go in your heart. Only when you are able to make choices can you return with a full load and move forward easily. Second, try to have a clear value. Not everything can be measured by public standards. You must be clear about the value and significance of choices to yourself, and then cherish what you take, and let go of what you give up. Only those who know how to make choices can truly move forward, because there will always be many choices in life, and hesitation is a taboo for success