? The feeling behind our words and actions is more important than what we do or say. What you do is never as important as how you do it. The feelings and attitudes behind our actions determine what we do. The tone of voice often best expresses the feelings behind our words and actions.
? 1. Children are social beings
? 2. Behaviors are goal-oriented
? 3. Children’s primary purpose is to pursue a sense of belonging and value
? 4. A child who behaves inappropriately is a child who has lost confidence
? 5. Sense of social responsibility or community
? 6. Equality
p>? 7. Making mistakes is a good opportunity to learn
? Three R’s to correct mistakes
? A. Recognize - "Aha! I Made a mistake!"
? B. Reconcile - "I apologize to you" ? C. Resolve - "Let's do it. Get up and solve the problem."
? 8. Make sure to pass on the message of love to your children
When we adults grow up, if we make mistakes, we will be punished and beaten, so when we grow up In the end, we are resistant to making mistakes and do not want to accept ourselves and our children who have made mistakes. This book proposes that "making mistakes is a good time to learn." Cognitively, parents themselves have to learn and teach their children to change their understanding of making mistakes.
After reading the last part, I realized more and more how crucial my own behavior is to my children. I also thought of Heather Coster's famous saying, "To the world, you are one person, but to someone, you may be the whole world." When our children are young, our parents' attitude towards them is the whole world. attitude towards him. For my two children, my deeper understanding is that for them, I am their only mother, but they are not my only children. How to love and teach children is actually to be yourself first, nothing more.
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