The word "not suitable for children" can never be out of date, and it is influenced by the traditional values of our country. Implicit and conservative ideas have an influence on us to some extent. No matter what age, parents don't want their children to see some more adult content.

when we were young, we basically experienced the situation that when we were watching TV with our parents, we were suddenly blindfolded by our parents or suddenly changed the channel. At that time, most of us were ignorant and didn't know what happened.

The times are different now. Nowadays, with the rapid development of online media, science and technology make entertainment more and more convenient. Children aged 3 or 4 can hold their mobile phones for a day, and many parents have not managed their children's playing content well. Even a large number of parents regard their mobile phones as "baby-teasing artifacts", so it is inevitable that children will receive some inappropriate content from an early age. "Covering your eyes" is out of date. Although we are still doing the "popular" vulgar pattern renovation

"Covering your eyes" action, it can't stop children from being influenced by vulgar content. The "new world" that parents don't understand is very broad. As parents, do you know how many vulgar "hobbies" are guiding their children astray in their growth?

1. Vulgar paradise for children with "Secondary Two Diseases": Language C

Language C is a role-playing game that uses language and words. Children feel unsatisfied after watching cartoons or novels, and may choose to continue watching the works in this way.

Although the number of children playing this game is not very large, the degree of "poisoning" will be very deep, and it is difficult for ordinary children to give up spontaneously after they start playing this game.

On the surface, this kind of game doesn't seem to have any vulgar influence. In fact, children who really play know that most of this group (almost every "player") will choose to play the role of "driving" with others, and what's more, playing C is aimed at "driving".

There are also several special apps for this game on mobile phones, and a large number of people are building groups to "play" on some communication software. Users range from grade 3-4 to college students and work parties, and a group of "vulgar games" for minors are being staged every day, but parents are almost unaware of it.

2. The vulgar culture of "rice circle" encroaches on children's lexicon and thoughts

With idolize becoming more and more "industrialized" and fan economy prevailing, star brokerage companies are becoming more and more utilitarian, and professional "rice circle culture" has also invaded our traditional world of groupies.

At present, star companies push out packaged "small fresh meat" for fans to enjoy. In order to achieve good business results, many stars will choose to scratch the ball in lyrics and dances, and skillfully use "water army" and "professional fans" to drive public opinion to attract attention.

The "business" among them naturally shows children a lot of vulgar content, and some propaganda words are also written in a vulgar way, such as the famous "sitting on the ground ...", and the vulgarity of the words causes people's extreme disgust.

However, the age of people in idolize is constantly expanding, and many primary school students, junior high school students and senior high school students have become a member of the current "traffic stars", and their influence from vulgar culture is immeasurable.

3. Ruthless trampling on other people's personality: the development trend of "rotten culture"

Among the popular trendy cultures, the non-rotten culture has developed most vigorously in recent ten years, but it has to be said that this kind of "interest" is not as great as advocated by its audience.

People who once loved "rotten culture" excused their interests by opposing discrimination against homosexuality. However, with the so-called "tolerance" and "respect", these people who loved "rotten culture" became more and more rampant. They actually didn't really respect homosexuals from the heart, but just liked to see good-looking men together.

Especially when a large number of children can't distinguish right from wrong, they will have strange fantasies about others in their lives, and even make up some rumors, which will harm the interests of others, affect their normal interpersonal relationships and their normal lives, and make many innocent people suffer from "unprovoked disasters".

This is a kind of trampling on the personality of others, and it is also a vulgar behavior of treating others as "playthings".

Teach children to stay away from vulgarity, and treat them first.

Children will encounter all kinds of vulgar situations in the process of growing up. No matter what era, there will be "new tricks" that parents don't know. It is impossible to solve them one by one by means of "seeing the move and breaking the move".

Like the above example, most parents may not have heard of the novel words "language C" and "star business", and they don't know that their children may have been influenced by these vulgar contents, and those "unsuitable for children" seen on TV programs are nothing to their children.

in my opinion, educating children to stay away from the vulgar nature is actually teaching them the truth of being a man.

Seneca, an ancient Greek philosopher, famously said: We are suffering from a curable disease; We are born to be good. If we are willing to correct, we will get the help of nature.

No matter how old or young a person is, whether he is a sensible adult or an ignorant child, it is our own moral quality that can restrain our behavior. Self-discipline and introspection are the only ways to keep a person from doing evil things and making continuous progress.

In reality, many ignorant children are addicted to vulgar interests, entangled with other children by some entertainment methods, and their studies are in a mess, or they just "almost do it" and delay their studies without making progress. In fact, they just get inappropriate and immoral "happiness" from it.

As mentioned above, those special "hobbies" are actually fantasies about some special people. Children who indulge in this interest don't really respect others from the heart, but treat others as "playthings" and props to get happiness. This is trampling on the personality of others, not really "loving".

In fact, being able to get happiness from vulgar fun is the reason why a child's mind has a problem. Therefore, as the philosopher Seneca said, what parents need to do is to make their children "willing to correct" if they want to cure their children's "diseases".