For each of us who lives in this noisy world of mortals, life is only once. Moreover, for each of us, we also hope that our only life can be wonderful and happy. In this way, even if I didn't come to this world for nothing, I didn't become a "person" for nothing.
Hope is always beautiful, it always gives us unlimited hope and full imagination. However, in contrast, reality is so heartless that it always forms a torn contrast between spirit and body with our hopes-hope is too full and reality is too skinny.
In the world of mortals where we are alive, if someone really feels that he is happy, then this person must be one of two kinds of people: first, people who live in a "muddled life" don't take everything seriously, don't get to the bottom of it, and look down on everything; The second is the person who has got a rare true love in this world. Love is nothingness and reality. Love is nothing, because it is invisible and intangible. The reality of love is that all those who get true love return a warmth to the world. Because there is love in my heart, I am warm and happy. Therefore, for a person who wants to live a happy life: life is hard to be confused! People who see too deeply and live too clearly will become a truly complete loner and an unhappy person. Why do you say that? Let's analyze it.
As far as emotion is concerned, whether it is affection, friendship or even love and marriage, there is no happiness if you look too deeply.
First of all, our family. "Toyama has distant relatives, but the poor mountains don't know each other." This sentence should tell the emotional truth of the world under the influence of economy-even brothers and sisters and even their own biological parents will leave you when you are hungry and cold, when you can't help others, and when your life is not as good as others.
I remember a pair of brothers who lived together since childhood. When they grow up, they both have their own families. My brother married a wife who was a civil servant and lived a carefree life. My brother married a woman who had no professional mediocrity. So the lives of the two families were opened. Since then, the feelings between the two brothers have become weaker and weaker. My brother doesn't want to let him go to his door because he is afraid that his poor brother will borrow money from him.
Coincidentally, the poorer my brother is, the more things he has. That year, my brother's wife was pregnant. Because of the great economic pressure, my brother couldn't have this child, so he borrowed money from his brother to have an abortion. When my brother heard that he borrowed money from himself, his tone was full of irony and ridicule, saying that his brother was not as good as a beggar in the street, so don't mention borrowing money. And said a sentence that my brother will never forgive: I have no money, even if I have money, I won't give it to you even if I feed the dog!
Such a sentence completely broke my brother's heart, and since then, the two have no contact and no brotherhood.
Second, our love. As far as each of us is concerned, I'm afraid there is no one who doesn't long for a beautiful love and needs a happy marriage. We all hope that our life will be happy, because we have found the company of our loved ones. Moreover, we hope that the lover who is with us can be loyal to us all his life, can tide over the difficulties with us when we are poor or sick, can shelter us from the wind and rain in life and hold an umbrella for us when it is stormy.
However, what is the state of husband and wife in our real life? In our real life, the real relationship between husband and wife is that few people can be loyal to you all their lives, and both men and women have more or less extramarital affairs. Even if some people don't have physical betrayal, their spirit is already out of their lover's body, but the conditions are immature or there is no chance of betrayal, or because external betrayal is not attractive enough.
Furthermore, in our real life, how many couples can really share the joys and sorrows? Often, we can share happiness, but we can't share difficulties.
As for the friendship between us modern people, I don't think I need to spend more ink. As we all know, we can eat, drink and be merry when we are free. However, when there is really a big event that needs the help of friends, none of us can rely on it. Even if you can do a small favor effortlessly and conveniently, you have to ask for some benefits before you are willing to help.
For life, for our generation and even generations who live in the present, "rare confusion" may be the wisdom of our happiness, because if we look too clearly and thoroughly, there will be no happiness and we will become lonely in front of our families; We will become a person who may be betrayed and abandoned at any time in marriage; As far as friends are concerned, we no longer have any interest in getting to know anyone-friends who can only add icing on the cake, but can't give timely help-what's the use of such friends!
Life is hard to be confused: the more confused, the happier.