There is a saying in The Analects of Confucius: "Don't blame others, don't treat others specially". This sentence was said by Confucius. After traveling around the world, Confucius was not used by the vassal countries, and returned to Shandong to teach and educate people in his later years. Although he was successful in politics, he failed to achieve his goal. However, he still maintains a mentality of not complaining about others and not complaining about others. This is a gentleman's noble personality, no matter what the environment, he maintains an open-minded feeling.

On the other hand, many people in society live in complaints every day, complaining about bad luck, bad work, bad system and bad system: complaining about social injustice; Even complain about her mother-in-law, people around her, and children. ...

Complaining is a sign of bad mentality and a magnetic field that emits negative energy. A person who loves to complain is actually a person who is distracted. He didn't work hard enough to put everything he had into it. When he finally disliked it, he began to complain.

Be a positive and optimistic person, treat all kinds of competition and try your best to fight for it, even if you can't succeed and get what you want. No regrets.

Believe in yourself, since God has given talents, let them find jobs! The east is not bright and the west is bright. If God wants to give responsibility to others, he must first suffer from the will and work hard for his bones and muscles ... treat setbacks and difficulties with such a mentality. You won't complain that there are so many unfairness and so many irrationalities.

Treat all kinds of interpersonal relationships, be polite and considerate, and look at problems from the perspective of others. Many problems have been solved.

A gentleman doesn't complain and criticize others. Because a gentleman saves three times a day; There are more gentlemen than villains. Gentlemen often reflect on themselves and find out their own shortcomings. And the villain, never wrong, all the mistakes are on others. So I often live in complaints.

Complaining and complaining can't solve any problems, but only make the relationship worse and worse, making people more and more annoying. Natural career and interpersonal relationship will get worse and worse.

Don't complain and don't be rude. Keep a positive and optimistic attitude. Always reflect on yourself, strive to improve your ability, and build positive and optimistic ideological quality with positive energy.

Optimism makes your heart stretch, stretching makes you comfortable and stretching makes you happy.