Excerpt from Yi'an's "All the hardships in life are just gifts from fate": Don't be easily defeated by the words "I can't"

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< p>Recently, many people around me seem a little depressed. Failure to perform well in a certain activity, failing in a certain exam, or failing to complete a certain task will all make people feel like "Why am I so bad?"

A friend who is about to graduate came to me and told me that his life was a mess. She didn't like the major she was studying, had no direction after graduation, and was worried about the social relationships she was about to face.

Finally, she said to me: "I found that I knew nothing about the future, and I didn't even have the courage to step into society and accept the scrutiny of life. I was too ordinary, I knew nothing, and I didn't know anything. No."

"If you don't know how to study, try your best if you think it won't work. There is no difficulty that you can't solve, it's just that you don't want to solve it." This is the advice I gave her.

I suddenly remembered that there was such a post on the Internet that aroused a strong uproar from everyone. The title of the post is, What do you hate most when people ask you?

The respondent said: I hate it when people ask me what school I am in and what my major is. After hearing this, I will remind you that the school is not good or the major is not good.

Don’t let anyone who says you can’t do it succeed. If you think you can't do it, don't let yourself succeed.

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In the past, I always felt that I was a very bad person. I always felt that I knew nothing, could do nothing, and was particularly confused and helpless about the future.

When I was in high school, my head teacher asked me to work hard to solve the problem of partial subjects and strive to get into a good university. I replied helplessly: "Those subjects are so difficult, I can't do it."

My friends invited me to learn dance together. I shook my head in embarrassment and said: "I have no talent for dancing, let alone any dance foundation, I can't do it." "

My classmates recommended me to participate in the essay competition. I lowered my head shyly and refused quickly: "I definitely can't do it. Let's give the opportunity to other students."

< p>At that time, words like "I can't" and "I can't" occupied a large part of my life. I always feel that I am not good-looking, have poor grades, have poor communication skills, and generally speaking, I am not good at everything.

Until one time, I participated in an essay contest. I carefully prepared an article, but I didn’t expect to win the second prize in the country.