"Things come in line, the future does not meet, and now they are not mixed, neither more nor less."
To put it simply, it is necessary to be safe when you come, and you don't have to be too entangled.
It is a truly mature performance not to struggle when encountering difficulties.
Life is long, and it is not terrible to be confused by setbacks. The terrible thing is that you waste all your time on entanglements and troubles.
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Road, impassability, flexible choice.
As the ancients said, if you are poor, you will change, if you change, you will pass, and the general rules will not be reached.
The road of life can't be all roads lead to Rome, there will always be impassable roads.
At this time, it is better to learn to be flexible than to hit the south wall and not look back.
Isinbayeva, known as the "Queen of Pole Vault", believes that everyone knows her.
But there should be many people who don't know that what she likes since she was a child is actually gymnastics, not pole vault.
Her dream is to become a gymnastics champion, and she has been working hard for it.
However, with the growth of age, Isinbayeva's height is getting higher and higher, reaching 1.7 meters, much higher than other players.
In the gymnastics team, this height has no advantage, but it is not conducive to doing difficult movements.
Therefore, she had to give up gymnastics for ten years and turn to pole vault.
However, no one expected that it was this change that enabled Isinbayeva to set a new world record for women's pole vault and become the queen of pole vault today.
When life, in the face of this road, is not feasible, choose flexibly, and maybe you will have a bright future.
As the saying goes: "There is no hurdle that can't be crossed, only a bend that can't be turned."
When Isinbayeva became a gymnastics champion, she decided to change and practice pole vault instead.
This change made her rediscover the value of life and realize her beautiful life.
In this world, there is no alley that you can't walk out of, only people who can't be flexible.
When the road is blocked, flexibility is the wisest choice.
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Heart, when unhappy, choose to bow.
People living in this world can't be satisfied with everything.
There will always be unpleasant people and things, and there will always be feelings affected by various things.
Life is only a few decades, so we should learn to live happily every day.
There is a young man who feels that life is very heavy and is always easily annoyed by some complicated things.
So he went to visit a wise man to find a solution.
The wise man heard his troubles and took him to a desert.
There are many beautiful stones in the desert. The wise man asked the young man to carry a bag and pick up his favorite stones while walking.
He picked up many beautiful stones along the way, making the bag heavier and heavier, and finally he collapsed.
In fact, the oasis is not far away, but he has no strength to walk there.
In fact, life is like this bag. The more things you put in, the heavier you feel.
Sometimes, if you underestimate the gains and losses, throw away those unnecessary things in time and leave room, you can gain more happiness.
Just like the sand in your hand, the harder you hold it, the faster it falls, and there is nothing left in the end.
But when you open your fist and palm, the sand will stay in your hand and won't run away.
There is a saying that is particularly good:
Happiness never depends on how much you have, but on how much you despise.
Life is so long. When you are unhappy, you might as well bow your head and relax.
Take a lot of things lightly and think from another angle, and everything may suddenly become clear.
When you underestimate those tedious things, you will find that there are still many beautiful things waiting for you in life.
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Love, when drifting away, chooses fate.
In this world, nothing is static.
As time goes by, the years change and grow up with each other, even the best feelings will fade.
There is a saying that is right:
Once, you never talked about being good friends, but in the end you drifted apart because you gradually became unable to understand each other.
Xiao Xiang and Foer were close friends in college, but they parted ways after graduation.
During the period when they just graduated, they still called or chatted on WeChat every day, chatted with their families, spoke their minds and contacted their feelings.
Later, Xiaoxiang entered a public institution and worked stably and leisurely;
Fuer went to a foreign company and was busy at work. Overtime is the norm.
Gradually, they have less and less time to communicate, and there are few topics to talk about together, and sometimes they are only embarrassed.
Even if there is no contradiction, disagreement and betrayal, the once intimate relationship between two people has also produced cracks in the torrent of years.
Their life experiences are different, the distance is getting farther and farther, and they can't talk about going together anymore.
Spirited Away has a saying that is both true and beautiful:
"Life is a train to the grave. There will be many intersections on the road. No one can accompany you from beginning to end. You will see people coming and going, up and down. "
If you are lucky, someone will accompany you for a while. When this person wants to get off the bus, he should be grateful even if he doesn't give up, and then wave goodbye.
Because, maybe at the next stop, there will be another person to accompany you further.
Lovers talk more than half a sentence. Since some people have become familiar strangers and can't go back, that's all right.
Some feelings are gone as soon as they leave, so let it be.
Life is full of many unknown things, good or bad. Since it can't be changed, let's face it frankly.
Road, impassability, flexible choice.
You don't have to worry about how much time and energy you have paid, you can change your direction decisively and get better results;
Heart, when unhappy, choose to bow.
Don't be too obsessed with gains and losses, relax your heart, learn to bow your head and live happily every day;
Love, when drifting away, chooses fate.
You don't have to worry about how unforgettable your feelings are. Let nature take its course and live in peace is the best choice.