When I was watching a video recently, I found an advertisement about Deluxe, which was endorsed by Chen Daoming, and I was very touched.

The content of the first half of the advertisement is as follows: Some people say: No one can play this role better than you.

I asked him: What if I acted it again?

There are always people cheering: Good enough!

But there is a voice in front saying: It can be better! This voice comes from you who keeps moving forward and pursuing better things. Yes, better is different from good, and there is no limit to better.

People who are in constant conflict with themselves can be divided into two categories. The first is to never give up in times of adversity. There is no compromise, only fighting. The second is to pursue the ultimate in good times. There is no best, only better.

There was a contestant in "I Am a Speaker" that I liked very much, named Dang Haoyu. The theme of his speech when he first appeared was "Hit the wall and never looks back." He is an actor, but he has no house, no car, and no woman.

But he was not like this at the beginning. In 1996, he was recommended to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama, where he studied under Chang Li. He refused to play the leading role in the graduation drama.

The smooth sailing life changed on August 30, 2004. A car crashed in the early morning of that day. The accident was so serious that the car flew 360 degrees to the opposite side of the Second Ring Road, and only one wheel was left. But fortunately, no one died. But since then, any drama starring him will definitely not be broadcast. This phenomenon is called "the law of the old party". Dang Haoyu joked that he survived that accident, but at the cost of consuming his luck for the rest of his life.

But although the south wall was erected, he decided to fight against it. The less good there are to film, the more good films he picks. The more good films he chooses, the less good they are. The less good they are, the less money they have. There was a period of hunger, but he knew that his hunger could not be fed by material things. He told himself that if he could not sting the audience sharply with his performance, then he could only use this spiritual machete to hack at himself until he died.

In fact, there were times when he questioned whether there was any point in fighting like this, but what he saw along the way during the 24-day, 2,200-kilometer cycling trip to Lhasa, and the images in his mind when his father died, made him think again. He understood that "if you don't take detours, you can't see the scenery or the stars because it's not dark enough."

If you fight against yourself, you may not be able to achieve what you want in the end, but you will never be defeated by life. Because as long as you can continue to fight, you will not choose to fall. The hardest thing for them is to compromise with themselves.

A college friend of mine, let’s call him S, after watching Luo Yonghao’s video, he adopted “Life is endless, never stop tossing” as his motto, because he himself is also a person who pursues the ultimate in everything he does. People who love to torment and fight against themselves.

With the popularization of smart phones, people’s typing habits have also expanded from Jiugongge to more options, one of which is the full keyboard input method. S's typing speed is actually very fast. Even if you are chatting with several people at the same time, the reply speed will appear to others as if you are chatting one-on-one. But one day in class, S saw a classmate sitting next to him typing faster than he imagined. After S observed carefully, he found that the difference between them was that he used Jiugongge, while the other party used a full keyboard that could be operated with both hands. In addition, the letter positions of the full keyboard were exactly the same as those on the computer. The level of familiarity was far beyond that of Jiugongge. Comparable.

In fact, many people admired S for his Jiugongge typing speed. However, after seeing the efficiency of a full keyboard, he had to admit that his speed was not enough, and he should be able to go faster, so S began to interact with Kill yourself.

It was really painful in the beginning. It is not that easy to change a habit that I use all the time every day. The bigger problem is that after changing the input method, the efficiency of chatting with others is greatly reduced. Especially when communicating with different people on several important things, S thought about switching the input method to Jiugongge again.

But when I thought that no matter how fast Jiugongge is, it has its limit, just like a car is not as fast as a sports car when the driver and the external conditions are similar, the S continued to struggle.

Later, as S hoped, he became proficient in using the full keyboard of his mobile phone, and his typing speed reached a new level. Witnessing this whole process bit by bit, although it was a small thing, it had a big impact on me. How much of a person who pursues perfection and extremeness can he have such high demands on himself? What kind of foresight is needed to give up the heights you have reached because you can see the end point and choose a path that has greater possibilities but is not as good as before in a short period of time?

Maybe you can achieve your goal by fighting with yourself, maybe you won’t, but people who don’t fight with yourself won’t even have the slightest possibility. If you just want to be in the majority, you don’t have to be very strict with yourself, but if you want to stand out, fighting with yourself is the only way to get to the other side.

Steve Jobs has a classic saying, "Only the paranoid can survive." This spirit of fighting with himself has also created Apple's unsurpassed position today; Luo Pang publishes 60 articles in "Logical Thinking" every day In seconds, outsiders asked how he could persist in doing it for four years, and his answer was very humble. But we can imagine how many times we need to be honest with ourselves over and over again to make "Logical Thinking" a benchmark program.

Everything that seems to come naturally is the natural product of countless struggles. On every road full of thorns, you can always see some people who are difficult for you to get through. Fighting is not a pretentious self-impression, but a constant difference from one's own past, so that one can be treated gently by the world.

Yu Liming, a Taurus born in 1992. I just want to see the world around me with my own eyes. If my article can make you feel a little excited, that is the greatest feedback.