Life is between heaven and earth, just like a little white horse running in front of a tiny gap, but it is only a moment. I realized that people always have to grow up, whether you like it or not, time is really chasing us step by step! Say goodbye to the time you can't go back, and please be happy in the future.
2. The friendship between gentlemen is indifferent, but the friendship between villains is sincere. A gentleman is indifferent to his relatives, a villain is willing to give up, and people who are together for no reason are separated for no reason. -"Zhuangzi Mark"
The friendship between gentlemen is clear, plain but intimate; Communication between villains is like sweet wine. Although close, it is easy to break off diplomatic relations because of interests. Feeling pure friendship is as clear and transparent as water, without any utilitarian color. Sincere friendship does not lie in adding oil to honey, but in being clear and light for the longest time.
3. Those who have a good reputation will be destroyed by their backs. -"Zhuangzi miscellaneous articles, stealing feet"
Those who like to flatter in person are bound to like to slander behind their backs. I feel that there is such a person in life, "there is fire in the open and a knife in the dark." They always pick up the nicest words in front of people and make the listeners feel high. But when I turned around, it was another face. The person who praises you the most is probably the person who hurts you the most behind your back.
4. Simplicity and the world can't compare with beauty. -"Zhuangzi Waipian Heaven"
If he keeps his honest and simple nature, nothing in the world can match him. Feeling simple is single-minded, and simplicity is pure. If a person can keep a simple heart after vicissitudes of life, it will be a great beauty of people. Avenue to Jane, big sound and happy sound. The simplest, the most essential and the most lasting.
5, be happy but not happy, and have no reputation. -"Zhuangzi, the joy of foreign articles"
The highest state of happiness in life is no happiness, and the greatest honor in life is not the pursuit of honor. I think if we can let go of external money and rights, we may be able to realize the true happiness of life. Not greedy for worldly happiness, there is real happiness. Don't enjoy worldly honor, but have real honor.
6, the world and reputation are not persuaded, and the world is not in love with it. -"Zhuangzi's inner chapter, carefree travel"
Translation: the world praises him, and he will not be encouraged by it; The whole world is slandering him. He is not depressed. I feel that everyone has their own mission in life, so don't compare with others, live yourself well. Things are like falling flowers, and the mood is empty. What can really crush you is never criticism from others, but your doubt about yourself. Live in life, not in evaluation.
7, husband and benefit, forcing the poor and evil to abandon each other. People who belong to heaven are forced to be extremely vicious. -"Zhuangzi Mark"
Because the interests are combined, people will abandon each other when they encounter difficulties, disasters, troubles and injuries; In our nature, when encountering difficulties, disasters, troubles and injuries, will tolerate each other. I feel that true friendship comes from like-minded people. Good friends are not earned by hard work, but met while running on their own roads.
8, white jade is not destroyed, its appearance is not good. -"Zhuangzi Waipian Horseshoe"
If white jade is not cut open and carefully carved, how can it become valuable jade? I feel that no matter how talented people are, no matter how talented people are, they always have to be honed to show their talents! As the saying goes, the jade is not cut and the instrument is not cut. This is the truth of the world.
9. Those who are satisfied are not tired of profit, those who are complacent are not afraid of loss, and practitioners are not worried. -"Zhuangzi Qin Wang"
A contented person will not run around and work hard for the benefit; People who know how to enjoy themselves will not worry about losing anything; People who pay attention to inner moral cultivation are not ashamed of being an official and being light. Contented people are always happy! As long as people can know themselves correctly, whatever they like at any time and place can be detached from vulgarity. Life needs to be satisfied to be happy.
10, people who can't tolerate others have no relatives, and those who don't have relatives do their best. -"Zhuangzi Zapian Geng Sangchu" translation: People who can't tolerate others don't kiss, and those who don't kiss are rejected. Realize that when you abandon others, others are abandoning you.