I am not as good as you. I didn't finish the first grade. Are you better than me?
I have suffered more setbacks than you, just like you. I also let my relatives down and my friends look down on me. To be exact, I didn't have any friends at that time, which was just so-so. I could count them with my fingers. .......
Without education and skills, I worked as a bricklayer in a brick factory, worked as a coolie in a construction team, and then went to Guangdong to work as an employee, security guard, quality inspection and sales, almost all of them. ...........
Now let's talk about it. I am 30 years old and now I earn about 2 weeks a month. I have a car and a house, a happy family, lovely children, many friends, including those who looked down on me before, and now my parents are proud of me!
Why is this happening?
Because I have never given up on myself, I believe that my ability, although not shown for the time being, is not valued by others!
When I was in sales, the first contract took three months. In fact, I dare not enter other people's companies for more than ten days. I am afraid of failure. I always walk around outside, plucking up courage again and again and giving up again and again. Because of inferiority, I have no self-confidence. I'm afraid of rejection and humiliation. At night, I report the phone number copied from someone else's company signboard during the day! Later, an old salesman told me, don't be afraid, success or failure is not that important. As long as you do it, you are half successful. If you don't do it, you are doomed to failure! I do as he says, get up in the mirror every morning and tell myself that I am the best and I can do it! Even so, I failed again and again, but it doesn't matter. The important thing is that I walked into the client's office. Although it failed again and again, isn't it also a success?
Let's talk about how to be a man first. It's actually quite simple. Let go, don't be too restrained, and don't be afraid of offending people. You can't keep up with so many people. Why care about offending someone once in a while? Be sincere to people, don't haggle over the present, look far away, no matter who they are, as long as they are not particularly annoying, treat them as friends! As long as you treat others sincerely, naturally someone will treat you sincerely, and those who respect others will respect you!
When you say that you are all thumbs, you are actually afraid of doing something wrong and putting too much pressure on yourself. As the saying goes, the more nervous, the more likely you are to make mistakes. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. If you make a mistake, find the reason. For example, you said you gave me the wrong change? Then you should exercise more yourself. In fact, cashier is the easiest. /kloc-you can add or subtract within 0/00, can't you? Even if you are slow, well, rote learning! 100-1= 99,100-2 = 98 ... I am familiar with it! When there are many people, take a deep breath first, calm down, don't panic, it's easy to overcome! In fact, it is a normal heart. It is ok to keep a normal mind. Don't give yourself too much pressure!
Finally, I remind you, don't be suicidal, don't be silly, you are only 18 years old! You still have great youth and a bright future. This is just the beginning of your beautiful life, and a little setback can knock you down? If so, don't talk about others, brother, I BS you!
Well, having said so much, I finally send you a sentence: Suffering when you are young is your greatest wealth!
By the way, I don't want integral brother! I don't come very often either. It's no use coming! I just feel that you are too preoccupied and don't know how to enlighten you. Let's just say so much. I hope I can help you!