Respect means courtesy; modesty means joy; caution means benefit; fighting anger means harm. ——Xun Kuang (a modest saying by Xunzi, a thinker at the end of the Warring States Period)

(① A wise person sees clearly, so he does not fight. ② An open-minded person thinks openly, so he does not fight. ③ A wise person knows God’s will, so he will not fight. Don't be in a hurry. ④ A person with great virtue is humble, so he doesn't make noises. ⑤ A person who is sensible is forgiving, so he is not crazy. ⑥ A confident person is willing to work hard, so he doesn't make mistakes. ⑧A passionate person is indifferent to fame and wealth, so he is not alone. ⑨A peaceful person is profound, so he is not broken. ⑩A contented person is always happy, so he is not old.

——Explanation by Zhou Libo, founder of Shanghai Pai Qingkou)