Never chat with the opposite sex, whether on the phone, sending text messages, or using QQ or WeChat.

Never expose shortcomings. Whether it is exposing each other's shortcomings or exposing each other's shortcomings in front of each other's relatives and friends, it will only worsen the relationship.

Never blame each other, the fault is not one person’s. Even if it belongs to one person, then if you find this person who always does wrong things, you are wrong yourself.

Never talk about divorce. Normally, it's okay to joke and talk, but when the relationship is tense, once divorce is mentioned, it's easy to impulsively go to the Civil Affairs Bureau. . .

Don’t do anything. When a couple quarrels and hurts their feelings, if they have children, it will have a serious psychological impact on the children and even affect the children's future marriage and relationships.

Never play missing. The act of running away from home itself is a signal of refusal to communicate. If things continue like this, it will only become a vicious cycle.

Never ask for foreign aid. The matters between the two couples should be resolved behind closed doors. Others have not experienced the conflict between you and cannot truly solve the problem. Poor foreign aid will only intensify conflicts.

Never abuse or harm yourself. If you don't cherish yourself, how can the other person care about you?

Never be unreasonable and unforgiving. When one party gives a conciliatory attitude and goes down the stairs, the relationship will ease and return to normal. If you think that the other party really knows that he is wrong and accuses you, then there will be no next step.