When a person's heart can really settle down and become quiet, he will feel that the sky is extraordinarily blue and the sun is extraordinarily bright; he will realize the beauty and joy of having life; he will realize that tomorrow and the future will be bright and brilliant. ; You will have a kind and healthy mind! When a person can abandon the temptation of external objects, return to the emptiness and silence of the self, and realize the existence of beauty and goodness in the world, the feeling of joy and happiness will come quietly and linger in the heart!
Life is a process full of regrets. If you speak rudely and hurt your relatives and friends, you will have regrets; if you dream of something but do not get it, you will have regrets; if you do not plan well and all your efforts are wasted, you will have regrets. Regrets in life occur all the time and everywhere. It doesn't matter if you have regrets. The important thing is not to complain or regret, but to resolve the regrets and delete them. Only by learning to put regrets behind you and grasp the present moment can you grasp the future life.
If your requirements are too high and your desires are too many, the world will isolate you because you are too individual and too different. If you want to be happy, if you want to be happy, if you want to be safe, if you want to be happy, the first condition is to integrate into the masses, to be separated from the masses, and from this society, you will achieve nothing.
Life requires tempering, and life requires insight. Zhilan grows in a deep valley, and does not work because no one cares about it; plum blossoms bloom in the corner of the wall, and do not lose their fragrance because the sun does not shine; water flows around the rocks, and does not cause disputes because of the obstacles of mountains and rocks. This is a kind of calm tranquility. . The high mountains are speechless, the deep water has no waves, and it is extremely gorgeous and returns to a pure, simple, peaceful and deep state.
When you are proud, you must learn to remind yourself and don’t be dazzled by victory; when you are frustrated, you must learn to regulate yourself and don’t let decadence kill your ambition; when you are rich, you must learn to be yourself To protect, don't let wealth become a burden; when you are poor, you must learn to be strong and don't let the end become a dead end; when you are in pain, you must learn to comfort yourself and don't let sadness destroy your body and mind.
Meeting in the world is a kind of fate. Care more about each other, love more, greet each other more, cherish more. It would be great to smile when we meet. Life with thorns is a kind of mutual harm. Why bother? What? As the saying goes, if you have seen many things in the world, you will have a broad mind, and if you have read all the people, your horizons will be broad.
Many people think that going against fate is bad, but through studying Buddhism we will know that going against fate is not entirely a bad thing. Although it has a negative impact on our lives and practice, it can help us realize many truths and recognize this evil world of five turbidities, which can lead to our aversion and renunciation. As Buddhists, we must learn to understand the impermanence of the world from adverse circumstances, and then seek ways to relieve our troubles. Therefore, adverse conditions are also supporting conditions for our practice.
Every step we take is a new starting point, and these starting points are connected to the trajectory of our lives. Don't be afraid of the beginning. Only by going through the difficulties at the beginning can you achieve a leap forward. Don't be afraid of the end. All endings are a new beginning. In the end, we will find that life is like a circle, and the end is also the starting point. Don't expect too much, because what you gain will eventually be lost; don't be too awe-inspiring, the one who can dominate you is always yourself.
Wealth is a kind of deposit, you cannot take it away; honor is a light, you cannot keep it; success is a fruit, you cannot taste it in all seasons; life is a process, you cannot Stop it. Everyone has life, but not everyone can understand life; everyone has a mind, but not everyone uses their mind well. Only those who love life, are good at using their brains, and do good deeds can truly have life.
Being able to discover your own mistakes is wisdom; being able to correct your mistakes is ability. We need to examine our own shortcomings more so that we can constantly correct our mistakes; we need to discover more of the advantages of others so that we can integrate them into one. Don't be too demanding on yourself. There is no perfection in the world. As long as you think openly, everything will be perfect. Learn to be kind to others' shortcomings. Your kindness and tolerance are also part of your perfection in the eyes of others.