Motto 1～20

1. Everything in the world is perfect, and becoming a true moral perfection is the pinnacle of perfection in the universe

It is more difficult to create a sage in today's world than it was to create the Seven Sages of Greece in ancient Greece. In today's world, more energy and material resources are spent on dealing with one individual than in the past on dealing with an entire nation.

2. Character and intelligence are the two bases for the development of a person's natural resources

Anyone who wants to naturally develop his/her talents must rely on both his/her character and intelligence. If you rely on only one of them, you will only achieve half the success. You can't achieve great things by just being smart, you have to have a smart personality that suits you. The reason why a fool fails is that he does not take into account his specific conditions, status, origin and friends.

3. Don't make your actions public.

Unexpected success is often the most convincing thing for people. Anything too obvious is neither useful nor interesting. Being slow to take a stance can keep people guessing, especially if your position is important enough to arouse people's expectations. Mystery earns respect by its mystery. Even if you must tell the truth, it's best to avoid telling everything. Don't let everyone see you inside and out. Caution is maintained by careful silence. Once you reveal what you are determined to do, it is difficult to gain respect and often leads to criticism. If they end badly afterwards, you're doubly vulnerable to misfortune. If you really want to gain people's admiration and admiration, learn from the gods who act but do not speak.

4． Knowledge and courage are needed to achieve great things

Knowledge and courage are immortal, so they can make you immortal. What kind of knowledge you master is what kind of person you become. If you have real wisdom, you can do whatever you want. Ignorant people are completely different from being entrenched in a dark world. Strength and judgment are like hands and eyes. The wisdom of those who are knowledgeable but not courageous will bear no fruit.

5. Cultivate people's dependence on you

The reason why God becomes a God is not that people worship his statue, but that people sincerely worship him. A truly wise man would rather have people need him than have people thank him. Polite requests are more valuable than worldly thanks, because when you ask for something, you can remember it, and words of thanks only encourage people to forget. It is better for others to be dependent on you than for others to be polite to you. Those who drink enough water from a well often leave the well; oranges often turn from golden to mud after being squeezed with juice. Once you are no longer dependent on you, you will no longer be respectful to you. The most important lesson learned from experience is: maintain others' dependence on you and do not fully satisfy their needs. This method can even bring the king under your control. But when you practice this method, don't go too far. Don't lead others astray by just leading without triggering, and don't ignore the terminal illness of others just for your own benefit.

6. Perfection and perfection

No one is born perfect. You must practice both virtue and career every day, keep making progress, and eventually become a perfect person, so that your character will be perfect and your reputation will be prominent. A perfect person has the following characteristics: elegant taste, pure intelligence, clear will, and sophisticated judgment. Some people can never be perfect and always have some shortcomings. Others need a long time to practice before they can see initial results. Anyone who is good and beautiful always speaks wisely, acts cautiously, and is cautious. The upper class is always willing to make friends with them and enjoy their company.

7. Don't appear to be superior to your boss

Being compared to others is very annoying, so if your boss is surpassed by you, this is not only stupid for you, but may even have fatal consequences. Believing yourself to be superior is always disliked, and it is especially easy to attract the jealousy of your boss and others. Therefore, ordinary advantages can be carefully concealed. For example, if you are too good-looking, you may want to offset it with some flaws. Most people don't mind being surpassed in terms of luck, character and temperament, but no one (especially leaders) likes to be surpassed in intelligence. Because intelligence is the king of personality traits, offending it is tantamount to committing a heinous crime. A leader must always show himself to be superior to others in all important matters. The king likes to be assisted, but does not like to be surpassed.

If you want to give someone advice, you should make it appear as if you are reminding him of something that he already knows but has accidentally forgotten, rather than something that requires you to solve a puzzle to understand it. This can also be a mystery. From the situation of the stars in the sky, we can understand that although the stars are bright, they dare not be brighter than the sun.

8. The highest spiritual quality of a person is not to be at the mercy of impulsive emotions

Use your self-esteem to protect you from vulgar and fleeting impressions. There is no greater victory than the victory over oneself and one's own impulses: for it is a victory of the will. Even when passion affects you, don't let it affect your status, especially if your status is important to you. This is a smart way to avoid trouble and a quick way to gain the respect of others.

9． Avoid the defects of your native soil

The quality of the river water is always related to the quality of the riverbed soil; no matter where a person is born, he will inherit the high quality and bad quality of that place. Some people are more blessed by their hometowns and towns than others because they were born during the Qing Dynasty. No matter what country it is, even if it is very refined and civilized, there will always be some inherent flaw. It is these shortcomings that make its neighbors feel safe and masturbate. Whoever can overcome or at least conceal such national flaws will have won the battle. As long as you achieve this, you will be respected by your compatriots as an outstanding person, because unexpected success is the most respected. Other flaws arise from people's origins, conditions, occupations and times. If all these defects are reflected in a person and are not foreseen and corrected, this person will become a monster that cannot be tolerated in the world.

10. Fame and good luck

One is enduring, the other is unstable. The former often comes late, while the latter can help others enjoy their lives. Good luck must be guarded against the envy of others; fame must be guarded against obscurity. You can sincerely seek good luck, and sometimes you can work hard to achieve it; but all reputations are based on persistent hard work. The desire for fame is rooted in strength and energy. From ancient times to the present, fame has always been accompanied by giants, and it always tends to extremes: either a hero or a hero, or a hero; either a notorious person, or a person with great reputation.

11. Make friends with those you can teach.

Let making friends help you become more knowledgeable, and let conversations help teach each other. Make your friends your teachers, and let the usefulness of knowledge blend with the pleasure of conversation. Be willing to spend time with wise people. The words you speak must win the applause of those who hear you, and the words you hear must make you knowledgeable. Normally, it is our own interests that bring us close to others, so this interest is noble. Cautious people often hang out at the gates of heroes: this is a stage for heroism, not a palace for fame. Some people are famous for their knowledge and judgment: they lead by example, be kind to others, and are famous all over the world. Together with their like-minded people, they form an academic sect with superior intelligence and suave style.

12. Nature and artificiality, materials and processing

All beauty needs to be accompanied. Perfection becomes barbaric and vulgar if it is not refined by skilled craftsmen. Human power saves the evil and makes the good better. Heaven's work often disappoints us when we need it most, and we have to fall back on labor. Without artificial cultivation, the best temperament will appear vulgar. Perfection without cultural influence is only half-finished perfection. Without fake artificial modification, people will always look too crude and simple. Therefore, perfection requires artificial carving.

13. Predict other people's ulterior motives and then wait for the opportunity to act

Human life in this world is a war to eliminate evil and fight evil. The cunning man's weapons are nothing more than scheming, and his usual trick is to attack in the east and attack in the west. Pretending to aim at a target and making a serious feint attack, in fact, secretly looking at the target that others are not paying attention to, and then waiting for an opportunity to strike a fatal blow. Sometimes it seems to reveal its own thoughts inadvertently, but in fact it is trying to deceive others' attention and trust, aiming to suddenly and unexpectedly win at the right time. People who are discerning often intercept this kind of trick after silent observation and carefully ambush it; by looking at its superficial flamboyant meaning and counter-interpreting it, they can immediately see through its false deeds. Smart people often let go of the other party's first intention in order to elicit their second or even third intention. Once those who play tricks see that their plots are exposed, they will disguise themselves more skillfully and often reveal the truth to lure people into taking the bait. They changed their tactics, pretending to be honest and honest but actually selling their advantages.

Sometimes the honest attitude reaches the extreme, but there is still cunning hidden in the bones. However, an observant person can always see through all this and see the shadow under the bright appearance. He can decipher the other party's true feelings and know that the most innocent sound on the surface actually contains deep evil intentions. Such was the situation with which the basilisk Pishon grappled with the frank light of Apollo's insight.

① In ancient Greek mythology, the basilisk hatched from the mud of the Deucalion Flood and was later killed by the god Apollo at the foot of Mount Parnassus in Greece. -- Ze Zhe's Note

14. Reality and style

Just because you have the real thing in your belly doesn’t mean everything will be fine: you still have to be careful to match the environment. Poor manners will make Pepsi embarrassed, and even justice and justice will make it sour. If you have a pleasant demeanor, your beauty often covers up all your ugliness: even if you say the word "no" to reject people, it will make people feel grand; it can make the truth sweet and make the old face youthful. How you carry yourself is very important, and a pleasant demeanor can attract people. Wonderful grace is the treasure of life. Appropriate words and deeds enable people to stay safe in any adversity.

15． Recruit wise men

A strong man is surrounded by counselors and counselors to make everything go smoothly; once a strong man is in a deadlock due to his own knowledge, these counselors will help him to avoid danger and do the hard work on his behalf. Liao Zhan. A person who is good at using wisdom is a rare virtue. This is much better than the barbaric taste of Tigranes: he always wanted to make the conquered monarchs of other countries his slaves. The new way to control others in the most important affairs of life is to cleverly make those who are uniquely capable Surrender to me. Life is short and knowledge is limitless; if knowledge is insufficient, life will be difficult. If you want to learn something without studying hard, you need extraordinary skills, that is, you can use the learning of others to broaden your knowledge, and finally achieve the ultimate goal of gathering what everyone has learned. To do this, you have to go out to the public and become their spokesperson. You must become the spokesperson for as many wise men and saints as possible; relying on the blood and sweat of others, you will gain a reputation. Choose a topic in advance, and then let the people around you show their talents and insights. If you have trouble making knowledge your slave, make it your friend.

①The king of Aguania in the 1st century BC, once conquered Parthia. He was very contemptuous and cruel to the captured monarchs, and often made them servants.

16. Learning to be rich and having sincerity will definitely make you successful. If a person's understanding and evil intentions form a relationship, not only is it not a good relationship, it is like barbaric rape. Malice usually poisons perfection. If knowledge is used to assist abuse, the harm will be even more serious. No matter what genius, if the intention is bad, he will be punished. Retribution for evil. Having knowledge but lacking discernment is like doubly madness.

17. Keep changing your style of doing things

Keep changing your methods, which will confuse people, especially your opponents, arouse their curiosity, and distract them attention. If you always act on your first thought, over time others will predict your actions and thwart them. It is easy to kill a bird that flies in a straight line, but it is difficult to kill a bird that changes its flight path. Don't always act on your second thought. If you do everything twice, others will see through it. People with bad intentions are always trying to plot against you, so you must be more thoughtful in order to stay ahead of the game. A person with excellent chess skills will never play a chess game that plays into the opponent's plan, nor will he let his opponent lead him by the nose.

18． Strength and practicality

To be famous, you must have both strength and practicality. With these two, a prominent reputation will be even more powerful. Mediocre people with a spirit of hard work are more successful than talented people without a spirit of hard work. Really achieve results. Those who are willing to exert great efforts will be famous. Some people are unwilling to do even the simplest things. Whether to do something or not is almost always related to a person's temperament. If the job is a small job, it's okay to be mediocre because you can defend yourself by saying that you have great talent but little use. But it makes no sense to be content with being mediocre in the most humble jobs rather than showing off your talents in the most noble jobs. Accomplishments and capital are both needed, but only with practical spiritual help can both be perfected.

19. Don't let people have high expectations when things start out

Things that are praised rarely live up to people's expectations. Reality is always difficult to synchronize with imagination.

It’s not hard to imagine perfection in something, it’s hard to actually achieve that perfection. Imagination and desire always go together, giving birth to something very different from the real thing. No matter how wonderful something is, it never satisfies our preconceptions, and our imaginations feel deceived. Therefore, wonderful things often cause more disappointment than admiration. Hope is a liar and must be controlled with discernment so that the actual happiness exceeds our original expectations. A decent start should mainly be to arouse curiosity, but It’s not about reinforcing people’s expectations. If reality exceeds our expectations, or something turns out to be better than we originally thought, then we feel happier. But this principle does not apply to bad things: when an evil is exaggerated in advance, and people later discover the truth, they will turn to appreciate it. So what was thought to be devastating now seems tolerable.

20. About those who are born at the right time

The truly outstanding figures depend on the times. Not all of them are born at the right time, or even though they are born at the right time, they cannot move according to the time. Some people deserve to be born in better times, because good and beautiful things don't always win. Everything happens at its time, and some outstanding people both have their time and miss it. But human wisdom has one advantage after all: it is eternal. Even if this is not her time of success, there will always be many other opportunities for her to show off her talents.

Motto 21～40

21. The Way to Success

Good luck has its own rules. For smart people, not everything depends on chance. Luck takes effect through hard work. Some people approach the door of destiny with full confidence and wait for good luck to come. Some people are more flexible, they step into the door of destiny cautiously and boldly. With the wings of virtue and courage, they have the courage to deal with luck, and they can finally seize the opportunity and get what they want. But the true philosopher has only one plan of action: rely on virtue and caution, because good and bad fortune often depend on whether we are cautious or reckless.

22. Be well-informed

People who act thoughtfully are often full of knowledge and erudition: not just trivial talk in the market, but practical knowledge in the world. Once they speak, they are full of fun; once they act, they are heroic. Words, deeds, and actions must always be timely. To make advice effective, sometimes humorous jokes are more effective than serious teaching. For some people, the wisdom conveyed inadvertently in small talk is slightly better than the elegant Qi Yishang.

23. There is a way to cover up minor blemishes on a white wall

Everyone in the world has some kind of moral stain or character flaw. Although they could easily overcome it, they always let it go without changing it. Prudent people can't help but sigh when they see a rare talent in the world but often suffers from a small flaw: a cloud covers the entire sun. A flaw is like a mole on the face, and the malicious person is the best at noticing it. To turn this black mole into a beauty mark requires exquisite skills. For example, Caesar used a laurel wreath to cover up his flaws①.

①Caesar covered his baldness with a wreath of laurels.

24. Constrain your imagination

You must sometimes constrain your imagination and sometimes stimulate it. All happiness and joy depend on the imagination, so it should be governed very wisely. Sometimes, imagination is like a tyrant. It is not satisfied with contemplation, but bursts into action, dominating your life, making your life pleasant or unpleasant, making you melancholy or overly complacent. For some, imagination brings only sorrow, for it clings to the fool. For others, imagination promises happiness and adventure, joy and exhilaration that make them faint. If our imagination is not restrained by caution and common sense, it can do anything.

25. Knowing how to reason has its own way

Knowing how to reason was once regarded as the pinnacle of all skills. But now reasoning alone is not enough, we must also have the ability to predict the future, especially for things that we are easily deceived about. You can only become a smart person if you learn to observe the subtleties. Some people are very good at peering into other people's hearts and have a clear idea of ??other people's intentions. The prudent man, although he knows very well the most important things about us, always says half and leaves half. Therefore, if something seems to be beneficial to you, you would rather believe that it does not exist; if something that seems to be detrimental to you, you would rather believe that it exists.

26. Looking for other people's weaknesses to use as leverage

If you want to seduce others, you have to have your own skills. Determination alone will not work. So you have to know how to look into other people's minds. Everyone will have their own special favorites based on their own tastes. Everyone has an idol they worship. Some people value fame, some value profit, and most people like to have fun. The trick here is to figure out which kind of idol can attract which kind of people. This is equivalent to getting the key to the door of other people's desires. It's this "motive force" that you're looking for, and it's not necessarily always something noble or important. Rather: it is usually something mean, for there are always more disobedient people in the world than conformists. You need to first weigh his character traits and then test his weaknesses. As long as you tempt him with something he likes the most, he will definitely take the bait.

27. Rather than being broad, it is better to be precise

Perfection depends on quality rather than quantity. The good things in the world are often small and hard to find, and too much will lead to no reputation. The same goes for people: great people are often dwarfs. Some people praise some books just because these books are huge works, as if they were written not to exercise our intelligence but to exercise our arm strength. If you only rely on broad knowledge, you will inevitably become a mediocre person. There are so-called generalists who always want to be good at everything in their studies, but the result is that they are often plagued by everything. If you specialize in studies, you will bear fruit; if you engage in important affairs, you will gain a good reputation.

28. Everything must be refined

Of course taste must be refined. People who don't want to be vulgar are very wise. Careful people are never easily captured by worldly applause. Some people are so vain that they are like chameleons who rely on others to breathe. They are willing to swallow the turbid air exhaled by others, but are unwilling to patronize Apollo's gentle breeze. Don’t have a herd mentality when it comes to knowledge. There is no need to talk about the miracles created by the common people: they are just third-rate things. Most of the things that the mediocre people worship are popular and stupid things, and they don't pay attention to the sight of sublime knowledge.

29. Be upright and upright

Be firm and consistent with reason, and never be led astray by emotion or intimidation. But where can we find such an upright Phoenix-like figure? There are few things above uncompromising integrity. Everyone praises this virtue, but few practice it. Even if some people put it into practice, they will retreat when danger arises. In times of crisis, hypocrites abandon it and politicians cunningly change it. Integrity is not afraid of losing friendship, power or even its own interests, so many people would rather not have this quality. The so-called smart people talk plausibly and confuse people, talking about "thinking about the overall situation", "thinking about safety", etc., but the truly honest people always regard deception as a kind of betrayal and are willing to do it. The upright and upright people do not want to be so-called smart people, so they always stand with the truth. If he disagrees with others, it is not because he is fickle, but because others have abandoned the truth.

30. Don't do things that harm your reputation

Don't do things that harm your reputation, let alone those illusory things that can only bring contempt but not reputation. There are many manifestations of willfulness, none of which should be present in a sane person. Some people have tastes for all kinds of things and are open to anything that a wise person would reject. They take pleasure in any kind of eccentricity, and although this makes them known, it is more likely to be the butt of jokes than praise. Even in the pursuit of wisdom, careful people should avoid affectation and publicity, especially in situations where they tend to appear comical. There is no need to enumerate such examples one by one. The many common examples of ridicule so far are enough to illustrate the problem.

31. It is easier to make friends with those who are lucky than to be friends with those who are unlucky.

"Misfortune is usually caused by stupidity. For those who are unlucky, it is particularly easy to have a chain reaction. So even for small people Evil can't open the door, because there are more great evils lurking outside. The trick here is to know what cards to throw away. The cards are much more important. If in doubt, it is best to associate with those who are smart and cautious. Sooner or later, these people will get lucky.

32. Let others know you are considerate

This is especially important if you are someone else's boss. With it, the monarch can easily win the favor of everyone. One advantage of being a master is that you can do good more easily than anyone else. The so-called friends are nothing more than those who can help you do things. Some people just deliberately don't want to please others, not because it's troublesome to please others, but because such people have a perverse temper and are stubborn. In everything, they contradict the norms of communication observed by humans and gods.

33. Know When to Say No to Something

One of the greatest lessons in life is knowing how to say no, and the most important of these is saying no to yourself or to someone else. Some activities are not very important and waste precious time. The worse thing is to be busy with trivial things, which is worse than doing nothing at all. To be truly cautious, it is not enough just to not meddle in other people's business. You must also prevent others from meddling in your own business. Don't have too strong a sense of belonging to others, otherwise you will no longer belong to yourself. You don't abuse friendship and don't ask your friends for things they don't want to give. Anything more than enough is harmful, especially when dealing with others. As long as you can achieve moderation and moderation, you will always gain the favor and respect of others. Being able to be reasonable and reasonable is very valuable and will benefit you forever. You must have full freedom to care passionately about perfection, and never spoil your own refined tastes.

34. Understand your strengths

Understand your strengths and talents, cultivate them and develop other strengths. If all people knew what they were good at, they would all excel at something. First figure out what kind of talent you have, and then do your best to develop it. Some people are wise and judgmental, and some people are courageous. Most people use their talents blindly and end up accomplishing nothing. They were blinded and flattered by their own enthusiasm, and when the truth came out in the future, it was already too late.

35. Things must be carefully weighed and considered

Important matters must be considered carefully. The reason why fools fail is because they lack thinking. Their thinking about things is always half-baked, and they can neither see the advantages nor disadvantages, so they are always unwilling to work hard to do it. Some people put the cart before the horse when they think about it, being indifferent to important matters that should be taken seriously, and being indifferent to trivial matters that should not be taken seriously. There are many people who will never lose their minds because they have no brains to lose their minds in the first place. There are things we need to consider carefully and keep in mind. A wise person will scrutinize every detail, and consider particularly profound or suspicious matters in detail. Sometimes, he can see through the phenomena to reveal their essence. Their thinking is more demanding than ordinary thinking.

36. Be aware of your own destiny

In order to take action and devote yourself to it, you must be aware of your own destiny. This is more important than figuring out your temper and understanding your physical characteristics. It is really foolish for a man to ask for health from the medical saint Hippocrates when he reaches forty; it is even more foolish for him to ask for wisdom from Seneca. It takes great skill to control fortune. Although you will never understand her erratic behavior, you can wait patiently for fortune to turn around, because sometimes fortune likes to drag its feet; you can also take advantage of her, because sometimes fortune is also right. You are quite friendly. If she has a soft spot for you, you have to go forward boldly, because she often likes bold people; she sometimes likes young people like a gorgeous woman. If you're unlucky, hold off. Retreat and reflect on yourself to avoid being overtaken by others behind you. If you've got her under control, you've won your first big victory.

37. Being good at listening to the undertones and using them wisely

This is the most important thing in dealing with people. This technique can be used to test other people's wits and pry into other people's thoughts. There is a tone of insinuation that is vicious, hasty, and jealous, and contains the poison of passion, an invisible thunderbolt that can ruin your reputation. Some people are destroyed simply because of a vicious insinuation. People who are good at using power have no fear of the conspiracy of many or the malice of one person. Another kind of favorable innuendo has the opposite effect and increases our reputation.

But since these flying spears have bad intentions when flying toward us, we must of course have the skills to deal with them carefully: when the darts come, we must be careful to deal with them, and when there are no darts, we must be patient and guard against them. To be well prepared, you must know yourself and your enemy. If we are on guard against others first, then when the blow comes, we will be able to resolve it at any time.

38. Retreat when you're done and quit when you're done

All good gamblers do this. The retreat is as good as the advance. Once you have enough success - even if there is more - you have to stop. Good luck is always suspect. A safer situation is that good luck and bad luck come together, which can also make people enjoy the joy of bitterness and sweetness. When luck strikes too hard, too fast, it's likely to fall over and knock everything to pieces. Lady Luck sometimes compensates us by exchanging continuity for our tension. She would get tired if she had to carry someone on her back for long periods of time.

39. Know when things have reached their peak development or maturity, and know how to use them

Everything in nature will develop to the point of perfection. As long as they have not reached the state of perfection, they will continue to be replenished; but once they have reached the state of perfection, they will gradually decline. As for the work of man, there is absolutely no one who can achieve perfection. People with good taste know how to appreciate perfection in everything. Not everyone can appreciate it; even if it is slightly understood, not everyone can understand its samadhi. Even the fruits of understanding have this highest degree of maturity, but you have to seize the moment to value and use it.

40. Be ethical in your dealings with others

Gaining universal respect is a great thing, but gaining kindness is even more important. To achieve these goals, one must rely on luck, but more importantly, one must rely on hard work. The beginning of your career may depend on luck, but if you want to succeed, you must rely on hard work. People often think that as long as they have a reputation, it is easy to win people's favor, but in fact, talent alone is not enough. Whether you have a kind heart or not depends on whether you have good deeds. Do all good deeds: good words and good deeds. If you want others to love you, you must first love others. One way great people attract crowds is through etiquette. Actions come before words. Disarm first, then write, because literati also care about morality, and this kind of morality is eternal.

Maxims 41～60

41. Don’t exaggerate

It is unwise to abuse exaggerated words. This kind of language betrays the truth and makes people doubt your judgment. Talking in exaggerated terms is like throwing complimentary words everywhere, which reveals your lack of knowledge and poor taste. Praise attracts curiosity, and curiosity creates desire. When people later find out that you exaggerated, they often feel that their original expectations have been fooled, and they develop a revengeful mentality, trampling down both the praiser and the person being praised. Therefore a prudent man knows moderation, and it is better to understate than to overstate the truth. True excellence is rare, so you shouldn't use too many compliments. Exaggerating is actually a form of lying, and may damage other people's impression of your good taste, or even damage your reputation as an intelligent person.

42. Born to be a king

Being born with the art of governing people is a kind of transcendent mysterious power. This power does not come from the painstaking efforts of humans, but from the nature of being born to be a king. For such a person, everyone will inexplicably surrender to him and acknowledge his mysterious power and natural authority. This kind of person has a noble spirit, his talent and virtue can make him a king, and his destiny can make him a lion king. They are awe-inspiring and inspiring. If they have other talents, they are born to be political figures. They often only need to make an understatement to solve problems that others need to use long speeches to solve.

43. Follow the elites with your heart, and follow the masses with your mouth

It is difficult to find the truth when you go against the trend, and you are surrounded by dangers. Only Socrates dared to take such a risk. Thinking you have a different opinion is insulting because it means you are declaring that their opinion is wrong. When someone is criticized, or when someone praises someone, many people are unhappy about it. The truth belongs to the few. Fraud is despicable but common. It's hard to tell whether someone is a wise person based on what they say in public.

They often do not tell the truth, but are just vulgar and stupid, but privately they are deeply disgusted with this kind of duplicity. A wise person avoids both being contradicted and contradicting others. He may have been quick to criticize, but he was not prone to doing so in public. People's emotions are free and cannot and should not be violated. They sit quietly in the heart, and will never be exposed unless they meet a reasonable person.

44. Connect with great people

Heroes have a gift, which is the ability to get along with other heroes. This kind of hero's ability to cherish heroes can be said to be a great wonder in the world, because it is both mysterious and beneficial. There are similar and connected minds and temperaments in the world, and the effect of the heart-to-heart connection is almost the same as the effect of the panacea in the minds of the worldly and knowledgeable people. This kind of sympathetic sympathy not only makes us famous, but also makes others fall in love with us, so that we quickly win their goodwill. This ability is beyond words