1. In life, you need courage to face yourself; to improve yourself, you need to listen to your heart; to manage yourself, you need to have a strong heart and cultivate self-confidence; in everything, as Bacon said: "Look deeply into yourself." heart, and then realize that all the miracles are within yourself." The more you experience, the more you like to be alone. When you are alone, you become more thoughtful, and you can understand and transcend yourself in silence. The road of life is simple but not simple!
2. Everyone may need two things in their heart: intimacy and distance. If you are too close, you will be bored; if you are far away, you will be lonely. The so-called close friends are those who come to chat with you when you need intimacy, and stay silent when you need distance. The so-called unfavorable friends are those who stay far away when you need close companionship, but talk endlessly when you need distance to be alone. Making friends is actually a matter of managing space.
3. It is as gentle as water, and the story is open to the heart, and the years are passing through the fingertips, and there is a sense of hazyness.
4. It is not good to deliberately guess what others think. If you do not have the wisdom and experience to make the right decision, you will usually make a mistake.
5. Buddha said: Human life span is even more precious because it is short. It's rare to come to the human world, so you should ask whether you have used your good abilities for the human world, instead of blindly seeking longevity.
6. Circle outside and square inside. Virtue carries things. Always keep good thoughts in your heart. Treat others with compassion. Act wisely. Never forget your merits but never your faults, never forget your grudges but never your gratitude. Great love speaks good words. Being able to give love is blessing, being able to eliminate worries is wisdom. Beauty on the outside must be beautiful on the inside. With cultivation, you will be pleasing to the eyes of others. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself. A person with a bad temper and a bad mouth is not a good person no matter how kind-hearted he is. The less you care about, the happier you will be.
7. In life, some people only have one self in mind and are unwilling to provide any help to other people, let alone give up their own interests for others. This is their selfish side. We cannot be too naive in the communication process. We should face all aspects of social interaction and face them with a correct and calm attitude.
8. Wear different clothes on different occasions so that you can maintain a good image in any occasion. Some people are very careless about dressing up and can make others feel uncomfortable on certain occasions. How can we have good interactions with others in this way? Therefore, establishing a good image must start with dressing up.
9. A person who speaks well does not necessarily have a noble character, so you should listen to his words and observe his actions. You cannot just listen to what he speaks well and think everything is good, and recommend him easily. In addition, even if a person has all kinds of bad things, or even is a devil, as long as what he says makes sense, he should accept it and should not categorically deny it by saying "a dog's mouth cannot spit out ivory".
10. If you want to fully understand a man, it is best not to be his lover, but to be his friend.
11. There is no eternal happiness and pain in life - happiness and pain are short-lived, so there is no need to be overjoyed when you are happy, because the happiness is not long-lasting; there is no need to be overjoyed when you are in pain, because the pain is Nor is it eternal. Facing the unpredictable joys and sorrows in life, if you can take it lightly, you will be able to live more easily.
12. Everyone hopes to be praised and praised by others even if they have only a few strengths. Everyone hopes that others can try their best to hide their shortcomings. However, the mouth is on other people's bodies, and it is not up to you to decide what others say. If you want others to always praise your strengths and talk less about your shortcomings, you can only look for more reasons from yourself and make yourself perfect, and you will have "more praise and less criticism".
13. "One tolerance can control hundreds of bravery, and one calmness can control hundreds of actions." If a person is broad-minded and can embrace everything and tolerate everything, then nothing can be accomplished and nothing can be accomplished. The work is done. Throughout history, successful people at home and abroad all have more cultivation than ordinary people, and they have the ability to endure everything and tolerate everything. This is the foundation of success. The so-called ability to bear humiliation and bear heavy burdens is not a sign of innate cowardice. On the contrary, it is the "muddleheaded" wisdom of a person who does great things.
14. When you want to talk to someone, you realize that some things cannot be told to others, some things do not need to be told to others, some things cannot be told to others at all, and some things even if you tell others , and you will regret it immediately.
Then the best way is to calm down. The only one who can truly calm yourself is yourself!
15. When I didn’t see it, when I imagined it, it was so beautiful, but when I saw it, I no longer felt it.
16. Beside the green grave, she drank to herself and said with a smile that she would not get drunk even if she drank a thousand cups. She muttered that she had drunk the years so that she could secretly change the age of her old friend.
17. If you are not forced to a corner by life, you will not grow up in the true sense. Without the heart to strive for everything, there is no maturity in the true sense. You have to fight for it yourself and learn to grow up. Maybe the road is long and the process is cruel. Maybe when you mature, you will feel sad for these pains. But don’t forget that it brings you despair and allows you to live again in this despair.
18. Only dreams held up by your own hands are worthy of sincere blessings.
19. If darkness and light let you choose, you'd better choose to believe in the light, because the light will let you see hope, and there will always be only despair in the darkness. Even if you have never seen the light, you must choose to believe that living in faith will not make your life just a pool of stagnant water.
20. If there is an afterlife, if you want to turn into a gust of wind, a moment can become eternity. No sentimental feelings, no passionate eyes. Half of them are free and easy in the rain, and half of them are traveling in the spring light; when they are lonely, they go on a long journey alone, taking away the faint thoughts, never missing or falling in love.
21. The best thing comes only once, the second time is a kind of betrayal.
22. I do my homework and eat alone. I do it all by myself. Why can’t I do it alone?
23. People disappear and things change. Whatever should be left behind will be left behind. Some people and some things will still be hidden deep in my heart and will not be erased by time.
24. The ancients have repeatedly said, "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." This sentence is indeed true. It's like living by a small river, hearing the white geese playing with the green waves in the water every day, and feeling happy inside, but you don't have to run to the door every minute to look at the river. Because the river is always there.
25. It’s good to have one bosom friend, not too many. If you really don't have it, you still have yourself. Treat yourself well, get along with yourself, and be a friend.
26. When you are quiet, your heart seems to be clean and clear. Silence is like a flower, blooming freely in the lake of heart. If you are still for a second, your heart will be happy for a second. Close your eyes lightly, and in your eyes, the memory is not locked into the heart window. The heart is never isolated from the world. The heart is closer to happiness, closer to the moonlight, and more familiar with affection.
27. The conflicts between people today mainly come from a group of people who are accustomed to measuring others by the standards of saints and demanding themselves by the standards of ordinary people.
28. If you should do something, be determined to do it; if you are determined to do it, you must do it.
29. Don’t think that as long as you do something with all your heart, it will be perfect. Understand what you really want, don't be harsh on yourself, and don't care too much about what others say.
30. Don’t be an unreasonable person. An unreasonable person is like boiling turbid water in a cauldron. Even if others are thirsty, they don’t want to take a sip.
31. Doing things but not doing them, doing good things but not living in them.
32. The reason why life is interesting is that although we lose a lot of things, we also gain a lot of things. There are moments of joy and joy, and there are also days of sadness.
33. If everything collapses in front of you without reservation.
34. Life is impermanent, live every day well, cherish everyone, there will be another tomorrow and the next life.
35. Regret is a kind of self-reproach for neglecting something useful, and that good thing must also be useful, and perfect people should pursue it. But no perfect person regrets rejecting the pleasures of the senses. Such happiness is neither good nor useful.
36. You can do technology, but you must not indulge in technology.
Never focus solely on technology! Put a lot of pressure on yourself. If you focus all your attention on this, you are destined to become a person like Kong Yiji! Enough is enough, because technology is only one of the pillars of your future future, and it is not the biggest pillar, unless you only want to be an engineer until you grow old!
37. If the result cannot be changed, then focus on the process. The sweat in the struggle will be a vital asset in your future life!
38. Love is like flying a kite. It is not something you can just hold on to make it fly higher and farther. Only by understanding true love can you get true happiness!
39. Do less things that make you suffer and regret, and your happiness will come sooner.
40. Human life is short and time is precious! Some people race against time, work hard, and forget about food and sleep in this short life! Make brilliant achievements in your short life.
41. You value yourself too much, and at the same time you value others’ evaluations of you too much. You are frightened by the strength of others’ bluffs, and you begin to doubt yourself. You do not express opinions, even if you have foresight. You will never dare to take the step of trying until your vision is proven. You have been hit by yourself step by step. From the day you started to find an excuse for your own shrinkage, you have slowly begun to become something you look down on.
42. Don’t come here to be famous at the peak, and don’t turn around and leave at the bottom.
43. We all have this feeling. We have just been together, but it seems like we have been together for a long, long time. We just got married but it seems like we have been married for a long, long time. Meeting you for the first time is like returning from an old friend. That's how it feels.
44. You think you are showing your heart and soul, but in fact others take it for granted. The workplace is a place where efforts are not necessarily rewarded, whether it is work or people's hearts.
45. I must keep this famous saying firmly in mind: Treat your comrades with the warmth of spring.
46. Sometimes, God doesn’t give you what you want, not because you don’t deserve it, but because you deserve better. Every new decision requires a strong heart. Every choice defines who you are. There are two main points in being a human being: not letting yourself down and not wronging others.
47. Every lonely night, I feel like this is a lonely world. Those abandoned memories seem to hurt my heart. I strongly encourage myself that the past will always pass, even though it is very difficult. Obsession, why should we give up for persistence? I have always been immersed in dreams. It is really depressing. I have gradually learned not to sigh. I have to fight for the future by myself. How can I miss such a beautiful season?
48. Hold on, happiness will always come. Never envy someone else's life, even if that person seems happy and prosperous. Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold. You are not me, how can you know the path I have walked, the joy and pain in my heart.
49. I didn’t know you existed in this world before. Later, I looked for you in this world. Now, I have decided to love you only for the rest of my life. It turns out that if a person lives alone for a long time, she will really become more and more withdrawn, and she will feel that nothing in this world is important to her, and one day she will really have nothing!
50. Can you hear clearly the brightest star in the night sky, the loneliness and sigh in the heart of those who look at it from afar?
51. If the world is an ocean, we are all fishermen, catching our own prey in the vastness of life. Everyone longs to go out to sea under a bright sun, return to a fishing boat and sing late at night, making the peaceful days more freehand and turbulent. Don't be too envious of other people's hunting and fishing areas. No matter how rich other people's catch is, it has nothing to do with you. Wherever you cast your net, your harvest will be there. Know how to wait and persevere. As long as you are focused on nothing, you will eventually catch the big fish of destiny.
52. There are too many passengers on this train of life. It is not easy to meet, know, stay and accompany you. It would be a pity if we did not reach the final destination holding hands.
53. It is not good to punish yourself for the mistakes of villains, and it is not good to torture and waste your precious moments on these trivial things.
54. Never interpret the good intentions of others as "natural and justified". You must know how to be grateful and know how to repay.
55. Working hard and making progress is not to show off to others, but to make this life worthwhile.
With this belief, you will not be arrogant and complacent when you are proud; you will learn to be flexible and introspective when you are unhappy. You must have this kind of height in life to be able to face the impermanence of circumstances; after all, good luck will not always be by your side. I know my destiny to the best of my ability, and I just want to live the best version of myself. I live not to compare myself with anyone.
56. Nothing is free in this world. If you think it is free, you just don’t understand the cost.
57. You only see the flashing light on the firefly, but you don’t see the wings flapping desperately behind it.
58. Learn to free yourself, because only in this way can you transcend yourself. Learn to advance despite difficulties, because this can hone your will. Learn to look at things in two, because everything is not based on your own goals. Learn to think quietly alone, because only in this way can you wake up and understand.
59. The pursuit of love and beauty is a spiritual struggle and a journey of the soul.
60. Sometimes the sunshine is very good, sometimes the sunshine is very dark. This is life. True love must be cherished: no one is destined to be with anyone else. Life is actually not long. How lucky it is to meet the one you love. Why don't you hold his hand. There is no shame in loving only one person for the rest of your life. He knew clearly in his heart that there would be better people besides him, but a person couldn't be so greedy.
61. Life is a process of finding a way and walking. When it reaches the end, this life is over. Before reaching the end, everything is a process of finding the way. There are muddy swamps, thorny grass, beautiful winding paths, and flat avenues ahead. No matter what the road conditions are in front of you, the only thing you have to do is step on it.
62. My existence is a permanent surprise, and this is life.
63. Retire after success, this is the experience that many people have summarized for us through bloody lessons. You must not be obsessed with fame and fortune or be burdened by it. Only by retreating when it is time to retreat can you preserve yourself and prepare yourself for a new path in life.
64. I feel that I am very lucky, because there has never been any sense of security for me, so I can only be forced to move forward, and I must do this. There's no turning back, and once I realized that I was like, okay, I'm going to work as hard as I can and see what happens.
65. What was the same yesterday is completely different today. Youth ends in a hurry, and you have to pay for the absurdity of the past. ——An Yiru, "If Life Is Only Like the First Meeting"
66. "Don't rely on guesswork, but based on facts."
67. If you haven't acted well before, Bad decisions are valuable experiences for you.
68. Loneliness is the only way to success. Only by being able to endure a moment of loneliness can you maintain a lifetime of happiness. Every flower will undergo a period of silent watching when it blooms; every fruit will mature when it undergoes a period of green waiting. Every successful person has gone through a period of loneliness, a period that makes even him or her sad and shed tears when he thinks about it. Lonely days are actually a kind of savings in life.
69. I want to work hard to make money, not because I love money, but in this life, I don’t want to be with anyone because of money, and I don’t want to leave anyone because of money! If you ask me what I would choose between love and bread, I will say "I give you love and bread" - to all my friends who work hard!