Part 4 of the Eight Mindsets of Gratitude:
Everything in the world is grateful. The fallen leaves hover in the sky, composing a touching piece of music. It is the gratitude of the fallen leaves to the big tree that nourishes it. The white clouds float in the blue sky, depicting a touching picture. It is the gratitude of the white clouds to the blue sky that nourishes it. grateful. Some people say that gratitude is like shoes. Wearing them can help us walk quickly on the road of life. And I feel that gratitude is more like the flowers that never fade in life. Because of gratitude, our lives become colorful. The word "gratitude" is explained in the modern Chinese dictionary as "expressing gratitude for the help given by others." Gratitude is an important emotional behavior in human life. This emotion and behavior includes respecting teachers, caring for others, repaying the motherland, cherishing life, Pursue ethical values ??such as harmony. A grateful heart combines with society's conscience, kindness and love. Strengthening gratitude education is to strengthen and improve students' ideological and political education and cultivate healthy and noble people for society.
This month, the school held a gratitude education theme activity. After the class teacher meeting, I was filled with emotions when listening to the song "Grateful Heart". The heart is filled with gratitude. Yes, one cannot live without a grateful heart. In this world, everyone needs a grateful heart. The great poet Rabindranath Tagore has this passage. Famous saying: "The career of flowers is sweet, and the career of fruits is precious." And what our teachers do is the career of leaves. Every teacher is like a green leaf, carrying out photosynthesis under the sunshine of the Party, nurturing flowers. Nurturing fruits, nurturing thousands of peaches and plums in the land of China. Let us have a grateful heart and let parents leave their children to us with confidence! I will dedicate my love and my wisdom to the cause of education. . Let me briefly talk about this topic from two aspects
First, my feelings at work and future gratitude education
Think about my usual feelings about school, work and life. There are too many dissatisfactions and complaints, and I always feel that I get too little, suffer too much, and do not do what I want. Looking back now, I feel so ashamed that I should be grateful for life in the future. Life is not as wonderful as others'. Although my life is not as happy as others', I should still be grateful for everything around me and everything I encounter. I want to let myself be grateful and let the warmth of the world be. Fill your heart with happiness and let yourself realize that life is so beautiful and worth cherishing and owning. Today, when teachers are respected and education is valued, the party and the people's government care deeply about the people's teachers and call teachers "the soul of mankind." "Engineer", teachers are also respected by people in society, and receiving various honors makes every teacher feel the government's humanistic care for teachers, but at the same time they feel the heavy responsibility they bear. I want to devote more energy to education and teaching As a people's teacher who teaches and educates people, what kind of mentality should be used to treat the career he is engaged in? The more realistic and effective correct attitude should be "teaching with a grateful heart". In the whole process of teaching and educating people, The process runs through the soul of gratitude. Teaching with gratitude will make us more willing to teach and good at teaching. We should not only teach students scientific knowledge, but also teach students the methods of lifelong learning and the skills to repay the society. , Appreciating the progress and development of students.
Second, how to do a good job in educating students about gratitude
Gratitude education is a basic requirement for cultivating a healthy psychology. Gratitude is a person's happiness. A grateful person is often the happiest person. In an atmosphere of gratitude, people can be calm in the face of many things; in an environment of gratitude, people can start from the smallest things seriously and pragmatically; in an atmosphere of gratitude, people can spontaneously and truly be strict with others. The law has been lenient towards others; in an atmosphere of gratitude, we will not feel lonely... Strengthening gratitude education is to cultivate students so that they have a sunny heart, a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, and are grateful to society and their parents. , be grateful to teachers and classmates, and live in harmony with people and society.
Most of today’s children are only children. They grow up carefree under the care and attention of their parents. They received too much love, and gradually, even they themselves took it all for granted. They are used to asking for and "saying the same thing". Even if their parents are suffering and tired, they must meet their own requirements, but they never know what to do and share for their parents? Facing these is not " the reality of individual phenomena. As educators, we must remind them, guide them, and then arouse their good nature and gratitude that have been buried deep in their hearts. "Don't let China's current children become an indifferent generation that doesn't understand gratitude, doesn't want to be grateful, won't be moved, and only knows how to ask for things." This is the view of a member of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference at the two sessions. Each of us has received help and support from others, and we should always be grateful to those who have helped us. To grow as a person, we must thank our parents for their kindness and our teachers for their kindness. Without the upbringing of our parents and the teachings of our teachers, how could we? Can grow up healthily till now. Therefore, gratitude is not only a virtue, but also a responsibility! Facing the increasingly indifferent young generation, it is particularly important to strengthen gratitude education.
As a class teacher, I know the importance of gratitude to students. First of all, we must guide students to learn to perceive the help of others to themselves. Balzac said: "A proud person is rarely grateful because he will never think that he has gotten everything he deserves." The self-centered consciousness of middle school students in the growing stage, especially some only children, makes it easy for them to form the thinking habit of "all success is due to me, and all failure is due to others". They always overestimate their own efforts and fail to see the consequences of their own efforts. to the contributions of others. Therefore, we must consciously and gradually guide students to use dialectical methods to analyze problems from multiple angles. While seeing their own efforts, they must also see the help of others to themselves, and develop a humble and enterprising mentality, thereby knowing and learning to be grateful. .
Secondly, we must cultivate students’ awareness of rights and responsibilities. As Rousseau said, "Once comfortable enjoyment becomes a habit, people almost feel no fun." When outside help and care become a habit, people tend to become indifferent. In daily life, teachers only fulfill their "responsibilities" more often than they realize the "rights" they should enjoy in the teacher-student relationship and the elder-child relationship, that is, they ignore the children's responsibilities and obligations. As a result, because children have no experience of giving, over time, the contributions of teachers and parents will become natural in the eyes of the children. If things go on like this, how can we talk about being considerate and grateful to teachers? Therefore, we must cultivate children's correct concept of rights and responsibilities. While teachers are making efforts, they should consciously let students see and feel it, so that they can understand the hardships and efforts of teachers, and then require them to fulfill corresponding responsibilities and obligations, so that they can gradually learn to repay while enjoying what they have. Develop a mindset and habit of gratitude. Strengthen and improve student gratitude education and improve its effectiveness. To make the consciousness of gratitude become a habit of students' thinking and an integral part of their moral character, it is undoubtedly necessary to find the correct way after a long period of guidance and edification. Thanks to the education experience, we must give full play to the role of the main channel, main position, and main classroom of political theory courses. Ideological and political courses are compulsory courses for students and are an important way to help students establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values. In classroom teaching, teachers must play a leading role and students must play a principal role, using examples around them. To educate students, we must touch their souls. It is necessary to prevent gratitude education from being insipid, ordinary and over-theoretical, which will not achieve practical results.
Finally, teachers should give full play to their role in teaching by words and deeds. The famous Russian educator Ushinsky once said, "The teacher's personality is everything in educational work." This is especially true for ideological and political education. The role of teachers as role models has long been recognized by people. To guide students to learn to be grateful, the teacher himself must be a person who knows how to be grateful. What is the experience of gratitude education? Thank you to students for their cooperation and help, to your parents for their upbringing, and to your neighbors for their mutual help and care. Students can best learn to be grateful and grateful from the words and deeds of teachers in their daily lives.
Gratitude is a required course in life. Let each of us learn to be grateful! If we learn to be grateful, we will be full of love and gratitude for this world, we will know how to respect others, respect every ordinary job and work, and we will feel the peace of mind and the brilliance of life. , life is so beautiful.
Part 5 of the Eight Mindsets of Gratitude:
Speaking of the word "gratitude", I believe everyone is familiar with it. We have received the education of gratitude since we were young. I remember when I was in elementary school, there was an article in the Chinese textbook called "Don't Forget the Well-Digger When You Drink Water", which talked about the principle of gratitude. The reporter recently participated in a unique "Learning to be grateful" event at Liede Primary School in Tianhe District, Guangzhou, and discovered that gratitude education is not only extremely important for students and teachers, but is also applicable to today's newcomers in the workplace. Today, with the rapid economic development, in addition to condemning social evils, should we also consider looking at our society with a grateful attitude and adjusting our own mentality?
The proportion of EQ interviews is gradually increasing by one. Mr. Li, the human resources director of a foreign-funded enterprise, told us that when recruiting new employees, many foreign enterprises and large companies no longer only look at the resumes and achievements of college students, but also gradually introduce a new popular interview method abroad - EQ examination. Some college contestants performed calmly on the show, and their language and way of thinking won the trust of companies. However, there were also many top students with excellent grades who failed in the EQ test. Relevant experts said that when companies recruit college graduates, what they value is not the scores on their transcripts, but the way they deal with problems and the speed of integrating into the company. In other words, whether they can go to work with a grateful heart. Be a person and do things.
"Some college graduates have high self-esteem and are unwilling to start from basic work. This is a lack of self-awareness in their emotional intelligence." Mao Mao, China Recruitment Manager of Otis (China) Elevator Investment Co., Ltd. Ping said deeply, "Every company attaches great importance to the work attitude of new employees." Mao Ping gave an example that for a student who has just stepped out of school, it is difficult for companies to see how much potential he has at the beginning. The company will let him start from the most basic work. If he completes it well and has his own ideas and skills, then the student's sense of responsibility and innovation can slowly be demonstrated.
But there are also some students who are very disgusted with some basic things handed over by companies. "So, attitude is the most important. If your mentality is correct, the way you do things will be better, and you will develop faster in the company in the future." "In addition, college graduates must also have the ability to withstand setbacks." Cadbury said Cao Yuanyong, director of human resources in China, said, "When companies recruit people, they will ask applicants to complete a job. Human resources managers will pay attention to whether the applicant has a clear purpose for doing things and whether he will persist when encountering difficulties. If the job is not good, If things go well, will they give themselves reasons or excuses?
Therefore, companies are very concerned about whether applicants have the ability to tolerate frustration. "Ignorance of gratitude directly affects workplace development," a survey said. College graduates in the workplace are not grateful, and this situation will directly affect their personal development. A grateful heart needs to be cultivated from an early age. Pan Guohong, the principal of Liede Primary School, told reporters that gratitude education should be a long-term and patient work, so that students can learn to be "thankful" and change the self-centered mentality of the only child in modern families, so that children can learn to enjoy what others have brought to themselves through their contributions. Happy life.
Chapter 6 of the Eight Mindsets of Gratitude:
What is gratitude? Gratitude is a philosophy of life and a great wisdom in life. Express gratitude for the favors bestowed upon others. Thank you for everything life has given us. British writer Thackeray said: "Life is a mirror. If you laugh, it will laugh too; if you cry, it will cry too." If you are grateful to life, life will give you brilliant sunshine. As tobacco people, we must be grateful and grateful. "Thank you to the system, thank you to the organization, thank you to your comrades."
"Thanksgiving system": It is to further develop the industry, serve tobacco farmers, retail customers and consumers well, do a good job in strict standardization, and consciously act in accordance with the monopoly system at all times, and strive to consolidate and safeguarding the tobacco monopoly system. The state implements a monopoly system for tobacco. The "Tobacco Monopoly Law of the People's Republic of China" gives the tobacco industry two crucial functions: on the one hand, it must ensure national fiscal revenue and safeguard national interests; on the other hand, it must resolutely defend the country. The tobacco monopoly system effectively protects the interests of consumers. The National Bureau Party Group put forward the industry-unified values ??of "national interests first, consumer interests first", which is of great significance to the stable development of the industry. To a large extent, it ensures the healthy and sustainable development of the tobacco industry.
Faced with the state’s care for the tobacco industry, we tobacco people must learn to be grateful: be grateful to the tobacco monopoly system, work hard to consolidate and maintain the monopoly system, and consciously act in accordance with the system and rules.
Faced with an uneasy external development environment such as the accelerating reform of the tobacco industry, the signing of the World Framework Convention on Tobacco Control, and the questioning and accountability of the industry system from all walks of life, we must protect tobacco if we are grateful to tobacco. Putting national interests and the interests of consumers first, and only by respecting and safeguarding consumers and the public, can the tobacco industry have a future.
"Thanksgiving system" means that we should cherish the industry, protect the industry, care about the industry and have the industry in mind, cherish the opportunity to work in the tobacco industry, always put the interests of the industry before personal interests, and put personal interests first. Growth and progress are integrated into the development of the industry. We do not say anything that is not conducive to the industry, do not do things that are not conducive to the industry, and strive to contribute more to the sustainable, healthy and scientific development of the industry.
"Grateful to the organization": It means being loyal and honest to the organization, doing your job responsibly, working hard to complete the tasks assigned by the organization, working hard in your respective positions to do something promising, and using excellent performance Return the organization's training and trust.
Zhuge Liang said in "Shishi Biao": "On the day when I was ordered, I couldn't sleep well, and I couldn't eat well. I worried all night long, fearing that my entrustment would not be effective and harm the late emperor's wisdom." Zhuge Liang was still able to receive Liu Bei's personal entrustment. Be loyal to people, dedicate yourself to the cause, and die till death.
As a tobacco person, we should treat our organization with a grateful attitude. The key to the growth and progress of each comrade lies in the care and training of the organization. He should be grateful to the organization, obey the organization's arrangements sincerely, work hard and complete the tasks assigned by the organization, and repay the organization's care and training with excellent work performance.
Look down on the world and see it go away like smoke, but remember that kindness remains like blood. Each of us Tobacco people must have this kind of mutual dependence and integration of gratitude towards the organization. Only with this simplest gratitude can we be passionate in work and life, and consciously put our own Transform potential into concrete actions, and do our work diligently and responsibly. We are members of the organization, so let us always think of and be grateful to the organization, and let us repay the organization with selfless dedication!
The organization gives us positions and provides us with a stage to display our talents and realize our personal values. We must cherish our posts, love our posts, faithfully perform our responsibilities, and be "fine in a small world." Tobacco gives us a generous salary, and we must cherish the treatment, be content with what we have, regard the treatment as a responsibility and a motivation, and encourage ourselves to do our best, conscientiously, and conscientiously to do things well, regardless of gains and losses.
"Thank you comrades": It means cherishing the fate of working together, having more respect and sincere feelings for each other, less being harsh and fussy, and using a broad mind and correct attitude towards each other. We should handle various relationships such as work and interests well, truly care for each other, promote each other, complement each other, and jointly create a good situation of harmonious coexistence, harmony and economy.
In actual work, on the one hand, we will always encounter some difficult problems. When we are deeply troubled by these problems, the help and support of our colleagues will be like a drop of nectar sprinkled into our hearts, cheering us up and bravely facing difficult challenges. On the other hand, being able to achieve some results at work is inseparable from the mutual support and cooperation of comrades. We must sincerely thank our comrades for their efforts, know how to treat others and ourselves well, and strive to complement each other at work. , encourage each other and complement each other. Therefore, we should be grateful and grateful to our colleagues for their support and help.
It is conceivable that without the trust and support of colleagues, we will be isolated in the company, making it difficult for us to move forward and do nothing. And when we work with our colleagues with a grateful heart, the atmosphere will be much more harmonious and we will get more happiness from it. You know, being able to work in the same unit as your colleagues is also a kind of fate. 24 hours a day, excluding sleep, most of our lives are spent with colleagues. Therefore, we should know how to cherish the friendship between colleagues and care for each other.
To this end, each of our employees should learn to be grateful to their colleagues. At work, we must establish a sense of collaboration, communicate more with colleagues, have a positive and optimistic attitude, treat every colleague equally and kindly, and learn to accept their criticism. At the same time, we should also explore our own potential and make ourselves an excellent partner. In this way, in addition to our existing partners, there will be more people willing to be our partners. As long as we work hard and open our sincere minds to our colleagues, we believe that our colleagues will respond to us with the same enthusiasm. If everyone works together, we will surely enjoy the fruits of the harvest.
As a tobacco worker with 20 years of tobacco service experience, I am bathed in the blessings of a warm family in the tobacco industry and experience the ups and downs of life. I am happy and happy. I have a grateful heart and am grateful to my parents. , they gave us life and skin; I am grateful to teachers and friends, they gave us knowledge and friendship; I am grateful to tobacco and colleagues, it gave us the blue sky to fly and the food and clothing of our life. Because of gratitude, we can be calm about many things; because of gratitude, we can start from the smallest thing seriously and pragmatically;
Because of gratitude, we can spontaneously and truly be strict with ourselves. Be lenient to others; because we are grateful, we face our mistakes and help each other; because we are grateful, our hearts will always be full of hope... We should be grateful to Tobacco, to the organization, to our colleagues, to burn our youth for Tobacco and to dedicate our love.
I remember this passage in Lei Feng's diary: "If you are a drop of water, have you moistened an inch of the land? If you are a ray of sunshine, have you illuminated an inch of darkness? If you were a A grain of grain, have you nurtured a useful life? If you were the smallest screw, have you always stuck to your position in life?" This passage tells us that no matter what position you are in, no matter what kind of work you are doing , we all need to be dedicated and dedicated.
Loving one's job means treating one's work with a serious, serious and responsible attitude, being diligent, loyal to one's duties and fulfilling one's duties. Loving one's job means being dedicated to one's job, and one must "do one thing, love one thing, and be good at one thing." Confucius called it "deacon respect", and Zhu Xi explained it as "concentrating on one's career." I think the position is the responsibility. If we want to complete our work with high standards and quality, we must have a strong sense of responsibility and a serious and responsible attitude. We are based on our positions and shoulder heavy workloads. We must always maintain a sense of urgency, regard the bureau as our home, be smart and eager to learn, and be dedicated to our jobs. Only then can we be worthy of our jobs and keep our jobs!
"Spring silkworms will not run out of silk until they die, and candles will dry up when they turn to ashes." This is the best explanation of dedication. Dedication is selfless giving. A drop of water will not dry up until it merges into the sea. Only when a person combines his personal value with the interests of the unit can his intelligence be fully exerted and the value of life be perfectly displayed. Therefore, being generous and dedicated should be the spiritual pursuit of all of us!
As a tobacco person with more than 20 years of service, I have truly found my own gap through work, study and practice. In this era of rapidly changing knowledge, only by continuously strengthening the learning of business knowledge and the training of work abilities can we adapt to the rapid development of society. How to closely integrate with my own position, how to truly exert the effectiveness of my position, and do a good job in two-way communication between the company and customers is a severe test for me. I must continue to recharge, study harder, enrich myself, and have the courage to contribute. Only in this way can we reflect the characteristics of the times, grasp the regularity, be creative, always keep up with the development of the times, and better adapt to the needs of the development of the situation.
I will work hard to practice the "three pursuits" (pursuing faith, pursuing hard work, and pursuing performance).
First, we must firmly establish a sense of faith, identify our ideals and beliefs, consciously connect our ideals and beliefs with our work, and strive for our ideals and beliefs in a down-to-earth manner. Second, we must do more practical work, talk less empty talk, be less impetuous, and be less frivolous, improve our work style, and do our jobs conscientiously and responsibly. The third requirement is performance. Use your energy and talents to the maximum extent in starting a business, comparing work, performance, and contribution, and strive to win praise based on performance, establish an image based on performance, and realize value based on performance.
I must work hard to practice the "three mentions" (improving my own quality, improving my work level, and improving my spiritual interest). First, we must improve our own quality, including: ideological and political quality, moral cultivation, knowledge level and professional skills level, etc. It is necessary to firmly establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, outlook on power, and outlook on career, and also pay more attention to improving professional quality and enhancing the ability to do a good job. Second, we must improve the level of work, enhance the sense of responsibility and urgency of "work to a higher level and improve quality", start from ourselves, start from every job, and use the "spirit and spirit" of being advanced and striving for first to improve the quality of work. Benchmarking, pressure-driven, striving for first-class excellence, and striving to do a better job. Third, we must improve our spiritual taste, be self-respecting, self-reflective, self-disciplined, and self-motivated, consciously pursue a healthy and beneficial lifestyle and entertainment style, and not be burdened by fame, gain, or emotion.
Only fire can ignite fire, and only heart can shape heart. I am proud and proud to be in such an excellent team in a tobacco company.
Inspired by this team spirit, I will keep my commitment to the industry, advocate hard work, overcome difficulties, compare work, performance, and contribution, and achieve "work" with a more energetic and promising attitude and a more high-spirited outlook. "Moving up the level and improving the quality", and contribute your own light and heat to the healthy development of Xiuyan!