Introduction: Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a virtue. Tolerance is not timidity, but generosity that embraces all rivers. As a human being, you must learn to be tolerant. Below are the composition materials I have collected for you. I hope it will be helpful to you.

Famous Quotes

1. A generous spirit is the greatest of all things. ?Owen

　2. Sometimes tolerance causes a stronger moral shock than punishment. ? Suhomlinsky

3. A great person has two hearts: one heart bleeds; the other heart is tolerant. ?Kahlil Gibran

4. Human hearts are conquered not by force, but by love, tolerance and generosity. ? Spino

5. Tolerance means respecting any belief of others. ?Einstein

6. Tolerance is like the drizzle from the sky that nourishes the earth. It blesses those who tolerate and those who are tolerated. We should learn to be tolerant to others. ?Shakespeare

Classic material

1. Tolerance: the lubricant of interpersonal relationships

1. The story of Liufeixiang

Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty During this period, Zhang Ying became an official in the capital. Zhang Ying's hometown is in Tongcheng, Anhui. The Zhang family re-expanded their mansion and built the courtyard wall to the boundary of their neighbor Ye's family. The Ye family knew that the Zhang family was bullying others, but they were unwilling to give in to the mansion passed down by their ancestors. The two sides were at a stalemate, and conflicts were inevitable. Zhang Ying's wife wrote to her husband at the urging of her tribe, hoping that Zhang Ying would intervene in the matter. After Zhang Ying received his wife's letter, he was very dissatisfied with his family's behavior, so he wrote a poem and brought it to his wife. The poem said: "Building books thousands of miles away is just a wall, so why not let it be three feet long? The Great Wall is still there today. , I can’t see Qin Shihuang back then.” After seeing the poem, Mrs. Zhang understood her husband's intention and asked the family to take the initiative to step back 3 feet to build the wall. After the Ye family learned about it, they were moved by Zhang Ying's generous and courteous behavior and took the initiative to move their house back 3 feet. A 6-foot-wide alley was formed between the Zhang and Ye families.

2. The safe of marriage

An old mother told the guests the secret of a happy marriage on the day of her 50th golden wedding anniversary. She said: "From the day I got married, I was ready to list 10 shortcomings of my husband. For the happiness of our marriage, I promised myself that whenever he made any of these 10 mistakes, I would Forgive him." Someone asked, what are the 10 shortcomings? She replied: "To tell you the truth, for 50 years, I have never listed these 10 shortcomings in detail. When I jumped with anger, I immediately reminded myself that he was lucky, he made one of the 10 mistakes that I can forgive."

Comments on tolerance to resolve conflicts, tolerance. Keep family harmony, tolerance makes interpersonal relationships harmonious. Therefore, in daily life, always have a tolerant heart, whether towards the elderly, your spouse, your children, your leaders, colleagues, students, or towards those who have hurt you, those who have betrayed you, or even your enemies. . Tolerance often reflects a person's art of treating others, experience in life, and good self-cultivation.

2. Tolerance: an essential quality for politicians

1. A fire of tolerance

At the end of the Western Han Dynasty, Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded In Handan, when checking the official documents of the previous dynasty, I found a large number of letters flattering the prince, insulting Liu Xiu, and even planning to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this. Regardless of the objections of all his ministers, he burned them all. He said: "If we pursue it, many people will panic and even become our mortal enemies. Regardless of past grudges, we can turn enemies into friends and strengthen our own strength." Liu Xiu's tolerance made him a popular person, and eventually Achieve the emperor's career.

2. Chrétien turned an enemy into a friend

Former Canadian Prime Minister Jean Chrétien, who was born into a civilian family, was plain-looking, deaf in one ear, and could not even speak English. Okay, but such a little person can rise rapidly in the political arena. He has ascended to the throne of Prime Minister three times and remains standing, becoming an "evergreen tree" in Canadian politics. In 1993, the Conservative Party suffered a disastrous defeat in the general election. Conservative Party Chairman Campbell, who lost his position as Prime Minister, was not to blame and was forced to resign as Party Chairman. Chretien, who won the victory, ignored the past grudges and arranged an office and a secretary for his former rival who had lost his roof, allowing him to organize documents calmly. A year later, Chrétien made the unemployed Campbell the consul general in Los Angeles, a job with an annual salary of 120,000 Canadian dollars and ministerial-level treatment.

Comments on Liu Xiu, who turned enemies into friends regardless of past grudges, used tolerance to strengthen his own power, and finally became an emperor; Chretien used his extraordinary tolerance to quantify old enemies as friends, and became a member of the political arena "Evergreen", his success lies in not making enemies, being willing to help others, and being broad-minded. For politicians, with more tolerance, open opponents may become potential friends. In politics and the military, tolerance is sometimes a purposeful and planned concession. Sometimes tolerance can hold the initiative more firmly in one's own hands. Tolerance is softness with strength, not weakness; tolerance is retreat to advance, not retreat.

3. Tolerance: a dialectic

1. Potatoes in the bag

One day, the teacher asked each student to bring a big bag to school. He also asked everyone to go to the grocery store and buy a bag of potatoes. During class, the teacher asked everyone to choose a potato for the person they are unwilling to forgive, write the person's name and the date they offended them on it, and then throw the potato into the bag? This is our homework for this week. The first day was fun, and by the time school was over, I already had nine potatoes in my bag: Jane said my new haircut was ugly, Bobby hit me on the head, and Jimmy wouldn't let me copy his homework? Everything made me happily throw a potato into the bag, and I vowed never to forgive those who had wronged me. After class, the teacher said that during the week, I had to carry this bag no matter whether I went to or after school. After a week, the bag of potatoes became a very heavy load. I had already packed almost fifty potatoes in it! It really bothered me. Overwhelmed, I hope this assignment is over soon. A week later, the teacher asked: "Do you know the consequences of not forgiving others?" We nodded, and the teacher then asked: "What should we do about this burden?" She paused for a few minutes to let us think about it, and then she answered herself. : "Just let it go." (from "The Skill of Forgiveness")

2. Leave the resentment behind Imprisoned due to the segregation policy, the white rulers imprisoned him on a desolate island for 27 years. During this period, there were three guards responsible for guarding him, and these three guards were extremely unfriendly to him. During these 27 years of prison life, Mandela suffered pain and torture that ordinary people could not bear. However, what is incomprehensible is that after Mandela was released from prison and elected as president in 1991, at the inauguration ceremony, he introduced three special guests to people? The three guards during his imprisonment. Later, Mandela talked about this incident. He explained that when he was young, he was very impatient and had a bad temper. It was in the prison environment that he learned to control his emotions and was able to survive. When he talked about his mood on the day he was released from prison, he said: "When I walked out of the cell and stepped through the prison door leading to freedom, I already knew that if I couldn't leave my grief and resentment behind, then I would still be in prison. ".

How well it is said to leave resentment behind. When facing a collision, the two choices of whether to be arrogant or to treat each other with courtesy not only reflect the different cultivation and tolerance of the parties involved, but will also lead to completely different results. If the parties involved understand each other, give in, and tolerate each other, they can turn hostility into friendship, eliminate worries and troubles, and ultimately achieve a "win-win".

4. Tolerance: a driving force

1. Cultural tolerance promotes social prosperity

"A hundred schools of thought contend" is the academic prosperity of the Warring States; "Depose a hundred schools of thought" ", only respecting Confucianism" reflects the cultural decline after Liu Han. During the Eastern Jin and Southern and Northern Dynasties, the fusion of Confucianism, Buddhism, metaphysics and other academic schools resulted in another great collision of ideas and the birth of a large number of artistic masterpieces. The Tang Dynasty's eclectic integration of foreign cultures led to the prosperity of the Tang civilization that will shine through the ages; the Manchu Qing's seclusion in front of foreign civilizations ultimately led to China's poverty and weakness in modern times. Peking University’s lofty status in the history of modern academic culture is based on President Cai Yuanpei’s “all-inclusive” thinking.

2. Tolerance creates miracles

When the famous British medical scientist MacLeod was in primary school, one day he had a sudden idea to see with his own eyes what a dog’s internal organs looked like. So, he and his classmates secretly trapped a dog, slaughtered it, and dissected and observed the internal organs one by one. Unexpectedly, this dog turned out to be the principal's beloved dog. The principal was very angry when he found out, but after some thinking, he decided to tolerate McLeod; at the same time, in order to make him realize his mistakes, the principal punished McLeod to draw a diagram of the human skeleton and a diagram of blood circulation. De happily accepted. MacLeod later became a famous anatomist, participated in the development of insulin to treat diabetes, and won the 1923 Nobel Prize in Medicine.

Comment From a historical perspective, “tolerance” is mostly associated with prosperity and progress, while arbitrariness and autocracy are more often associated with wars and disasters. From a personal point of view, the principal saw positive factors in MacLeod's inappropriate behavior. He knew that curiosity was the driving force for exploring the unknown world, so he tolerated him, which helped MacLeod develop his interest and focus on research. device.