Shakespeare's famous saying: "There will be a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand readers." You can say that her behavior is not that of relying on one's elders. You can also say that, in my opinion, there is indeed a suspicion of relying on one's elders.
"Fifty Kilometers Taohuawu" is one of the favorite variety shows among young friends. The second season has also started. Song Dandan is the oldest and most popular guest on the show. Recently, this Big celebrities have contributed "famous scenes" to netizens, and topics such as #松丹丹人狠# have become hot searches.
Netizens later took to Weibo to criticize her. Many netizens had strong opinions on Song Dandan and felt that her behavior was embarrassing and that she was a bit relying on her old age.
You may not remember the "famous scene" in the first season. Su Mang said that 650 a day for food was a bit low, and Zhang Han said that he did not have any masterpieces. Because of these two incidents, Dafa Song became a hot topic.
The second season has changed a bit this time, with more scenes of cooperation and division of labor.
In fact, the second season of "Fifty Kilometers to Taohuawu" is generally good. The show is still interesting and the atmosphere is quite harmonious. There are two "famous scenes" that make everyone feel very embarrassed, extremely embarrassing: The first one is the scene where she is quarreling with Li Xueqin, an old dock dweller. This old man is really sarcastic and he really wants to quarrel with her. The second one is when everyone is discussing about holding a party. After watching the scene, you will really feel suffocated.
Let’s talk about the first "famous scene" first. During the meeting in the evening, Li Xueqin had a suggestion. Everyone should determine the division of labor, so that there is no need to compete for work. This is fair and everyone thinks it’s good.
Let me talk about the original intention of this proposal, because the program has a gameplay in which the guests have to earn "contribution points" by working, which is, to put it bluntly, living expenses. Moreover, the contribution points are distributed uniformly, so even if you fish all day long, you will still get the contribution points in the end.
But the newcomer thinks that he must work more, otherwise you would be embarrassed to stay there and watch others work? This will definitely lead to a problem, that is, "grabbing for work." I was exhausted from grabbing a living, and I felt guilty every day that I didn't grab it.
So, Li Xueqin’s division of labor is indeed very reasonable and there is nothing wrong with it.
But Song Dandan asked: For example, where do you think we got a job today?
Li Xueqin was confused at the time. I don’t know if office workers have ever encountered such a situation. The boss asked you to give your opinions in a meeting, and you gave your opinions, but in the end you were criticized. That's what it feels like.
Li Xueqin went on to say that Wu Muye was very tired from farming and feeding horses. Song Dandan asked Wu Muye: Are you tired? Wu Muye smiled and replied: I'm okay.
This is not the end yet. Senior Song still wants to "add fuel to the flames" and directly asks: Raise your hand for those who are trying to survive today.
If it were you, would you raise your hand? Obviously not.
This is completely a "Chinese-style parental" style. You can express your opinions, but I will not refer to your opinions. It is meaningless.
Let’s look at the second “famous scene”. This scene is no less embarrassing than an adult peeing his pants on the street.
Everyone was discussing group activities, and Senior Song said they could have a bonfire party and perform performances. Wang Sulong and Li Xueqin found it very boring. It seems that team building is a repulsive existence in any field.
Everyone didn’t want the team building to be like an elderly tour group. Wu Dajing spoke to everyone’s heart and suggested that a sports meeting could be held and that all members could participate. Sure enough, it was unanimously approved.
Song Dandan is causing trouble again. I feel that the atmosphere is not right. How can you deny me? Asking for a re-vote, and using his eyes to hint to Yoko Lame and Li Xueqin not to raise their hands.
Everyone was forced to accept the bonfire party proposal.
But the matter is still not over. As expected, the elderly are different.
Let everyone perform a program that they are not good at, which will be more funny, and then start the "parental" arrangement.
Song Dandan should be filled with joy, but at this time Wang Chuanjun rejected the old man.
Song Dandan turned off the flames, and the audience outside the screen also expressed their satisfaction.
You can think about it. In fact, Song Dandan’s actions are not “bad”. She just hopes that this group can help each other. The reason for denying "snatching people" is because they don't want to distinguish them so clearly, as this would appear to be too arbitrary. As for the performances, it's also like everyone can become closer through cooperation.
But the division of responsibilities does not mean division of labor. If we don’t cooperate, can’t we communicate?
In fact, her reliance on her elders does not lie in her behavior, but in her attitude.
This is not just a performance unique to "Fifty Kilometers Peach Blossoms". In "Actors Please Take Your Place", he quarreled with Zhang Ziyi, and in "Qi Pa Shuo", he criticized his opinions and was illogical.
Song Dandan's attitude should come from her experience. She is very good in the entertainment industry. This cannot be denied. In her view, as long as you are in a high position, you are qualified to guide the younger generations. This attitude is understandable in performances, but in life, is it too picky?
Her performance in the show was more of an oppressive guidance, and she seemed not to pay attention to these juniors. If you have achieved something, you are certainly qualified to look up. But when talking to others, lower your head to show respect. Just like when someone is picking up food and you don't turn the plate, it's not because the person sitting opposite you is a dignitary, it's a matter of etiquette.
Actually, as I said above, Senior Song has been scolded N times for his behavior of "relying on his elders and betraying his elders".
Obviously, the program team has seen this and can create explosive moments, what do you think?