It is every parent’s dream to hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. As parents, we all hope that our children will not lose at the starting line. For this reason, every parent will do their best to create conditions for their children so that their children can stand at a higher starting point as much as possible.

So how can we teach by words and deeds? 1. Words and Instructions - Language is a bridge of communication

In family education, the most basic thing is to teach through words and deeds, that is, through language, children can learn some principles and thinking methods so as to grow. Then this requires more communication between parents and children for education.

First of all, it is very important to create a good atmosphere. Today's parents are busy with work every day and can only spare very little time to communicate with their children. This is not conducive to the growth of children. Parents should spend more time with their children after get off work. They can turn off the TV, play more games with their children, or tell jokes and things that happened at school during the day. Listen to their children's wishes. After enough communication, they can talk again. Discuss your requirements and suggestions for your children, and your children will be more likely to accept them. Next, in communication, do not compare your child with other children. This will make the child move in the direction of being criticized. You must establish the belief that "I can do it" for your child, be patient in cultivating your child, and do not make too many requests at one time. . It is also very important to instill correct learning concepts into children. You can accompany your children to do more intelligence tests, brain teasers, and entertaining. You can experience the fun of learning with your children and develop your children's desire for learning. 2. Teach by example - lead by example and be a role model

In addition to words, what is more important in family education is teaching by example, that is, setting an example, setting a good example for your children, and letting them learn from you. What kind of person you want your children to become, you must first become what kind of person you are. Therefore, in daily life, parents should pay more attention to how to set an example for their children.

In real life, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children, always remember that they are their children's role models, and educate their children by example. For example: when you see an elderly person or a pregnant woman on a bus, you should take the initiative to give up your seat; when queuing up, you should be orderly and do not jump in line; when crossing the road, you should obey the traffic lights, so that the children will see it and feel that this is what their parents did. You will also learn to do it yourself, and your children will get better and better over time.

Finally, I hope that every parent of a student, in order to enable their children to grow stronger, must teach both by precept and example in daily family education, set a good example for their children, and let their children Develop good habits, establish correct values ????for your children, and make your children better and better!