Please allow yourself to mess up

If you mess around occasionally, you may be a lot happier

Yu Hua said: "I want to have a way to not be woken up by the alarm clock. life".

I often work overtime until early in the morning, and I feel breathless even with a sigh or a word. I know you are tired and mentally invisible, but you have done a great job.

Crash silently and recover silently. Some people say that the survival time of a circle of friends in the middle of the night is only a few hours. After the collapse, it is treated as if nothing happened. Delete the circle of friends and continue to face it with a smile. Life.

There is no such thing as easy in the adult world. On the Internet, the word "sloppy" is more used to describe young people's negative attitude towards life, an avoidance behavior of immersing themselves in their comfort zone.

But in my opinion, the messy life you want, the peaceful life you want, must be achieved through hard work. In other words, people who mess around are not If you really give up and take an occasional break on the way forward, you can better meet yourself.

Sharing a quote from Murakami Muraki as a reminder, "There is never a so-called escape in the world. Whatever you don't want to do or don't do today will come back in another way one day." "So the more you don't want to do it, the more you do it.

It’s like you don’t want to run today, so you have to run, you don’t want to work, so you have to work, working too hard means endless failure, and sometimes failure is also for better efforts.

Sanmao: "I want you to learn the emotion of waiting for the time to mature, and I also want you to keep the hard work and persistence besides waiting."

On the way forward, there may be The ground is full of thorns, but I hope we can all withstand the pressure and live a good life.

Also please allow yourself to occasionally slump, occasionally lie down, and then get up and work hard again.