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As the saying goes, nine times out of ten people living in the world are unhappy. Me, too. Although I have worked hard for 8 years after graduating from college, I still feel uneasy for many nights in the face of the great changes in the future world. 10 recommended by a friend, Fan Deng, a well-known host in China and the founder of the largest book club tea, will come to Xiamen in June to talk about how ordinary people should grow up for their lives in the era of knowledge explosion. If your time is up, I recommend you to listen to it.
At that moment, I immediately decided: OK,165438+1October 3rd, attend on time. Because kazuo inamori, a young man at that time, immediately came to mind to attend the speech of the famous entrepreneur Kōnosuke Matsushita. At that seminar, I came to kazuo inamori and learned that the reservoir type is management, which has made outstanding contributions to the vigorous development of Kyocera. I also believe that I will gain a lot.
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that you can choose to do what you want. In fact, after listening carefully to Fan Deng's sharing on this topic, I made the following summary and prospect for the future. I hope that the information conveyed by simple words can give you more calm and action power at the moment.
0 1: Why do people study?
Fan Deng, born in 1976, is 43 years old. He is slightly fat in appearance. According to his explanation, he can choose other ways to control his weight instead of running.
But this time I saw him, he actually lost weight. Because he didn't play table tennis when he started running five kilometers before, he just did three things right. Running 1 hour was effortless and not tired, and his mental state was great.
1) Before exercise, stretch your whole body until it hurts. 2) Run with a sports bracelet, and control the heart rate at 130- 150. 3) Before starting, move your body forward, then kick and start running.
These knowledge points come from the transformation of the brain by exercise.
Why do people study? Because reading is a very useful thing for yourself, the reason why you think reading is useless is because you don't read at all, because you think you know everything.
Because reading philosophy books, when you encounter misfortune in life, you can get through it safely.
Because you read poetry books and meet artists, you can pick up the topic and chat.
So, if you are willing to choose to start studying now, I believe your future life will be beautiful.
02: How do people grow up and succeed faster?
A member of the Reading Club was very excited to find Mr. Fan Deng. Please tell me: where did you study in elementary school, junior high school, university, and under what circumstances did you finally start your business? If my children can follow your growth path, they will succeed faster in the future.
Fan Deng answered all kinds of questions helplessly, and finally sent a sentence: a person's growth is a relatively complicated process, and everything follows the inherent routine. You never know if you will meet someone in his college and lead him astray.
So, if you want your children to grow up faster, you should try to do these three things.
00 1: There is love in my heart.
10 10 On 28th, there was an argument between the passenger and the driver, and the driver actually freed his hand to fight back at the passenger. Finally, the steering wheel of the car lost control and everyone in the car rushed into the Yangtze River from the bridge. 15 people died, 15 families, and the rest will live in painful memories forever.
We should think about what causes a driver to give up the responsibility for his own life and 14 people's safety because of external emergencies.
There is no love in my heart, no values of loving myself, and no values of loving others.
A person without love in his heart can't walk out of the unknown world.
002: Live with self-esteem.
Once, a child in Fan Deng was going on an outdoor trip. He snapped, Dad, let's go. We're going to be late. Fan Deng squatted down and said, Dudu, Dad especially appreciates your quality. Dudu said, Dad, what qualities do you admire about me? Fan Deng said: You are so pressed for time, lest you be late. Not being late means respecting others, and respecting others means respecting yourself. A self-respecting person is a very good quality.
From then on, Dudu went to school and went out, never late, because others would respect you in their hearts.
003: Growing for Life
Some time ago, China Employment Network made a statistic. At present, there are 40,000 young people in China, who are engaged in the express delivery industry and ride motorcycles around the streets every day.
They are doing the same thing every day, which is a fixed growth.
In his junior year, Fan Deng gave up taking part in a well-known debate competition in China, but Fan Deng felt that the competition was very helpful for personal growth, so he took the initiative to go to the office of the director of the student affairs office, persuaded the director in three minutes, and signed up five minutes before the deadline of the competition. Finally, surprisingly, I won the championship.
I believe everyone saw the soldier's assault. Wang belongs to a growing mentality in it, asking questions he doesn't understand every day, while the soldiers in the city never talk because they are afraid of making a fool of themselves. This is a fixed mentality.
In this world, there is absolutely no such thing as talent, but people are used to a strange phenomenon. It is much happier to be praised for talent than to work hard.
Therefore, in the process of growing up, we should have a positive growth mentality and go forward when things are not going well, instead of waiting quietly.
Finally; If you want to grow up quickly, you must have love in your heart, self-esteem in your life, and always have a positive attitude towards growth.
Although the process of a person's growth is complicated, it will increase your chances of success.
03: Methodology of how adults make money.
All adults are in high spirits when they talk about making money, because there is a cost to living.
The ancients said: The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. All the ways to make money are mentioned in many classic books, and they are very detailed. Like crazy stories or something. .....
04: About ordinary people, how to succeed in starting a business?
There are two options for starting a business. One is that the cost is limited and the income is unlimited. But the income is limited and the cost is unlimited.
For example, the Fan Deng Book Club has a fixed cost. With the increase of the number of people, the sales revenue doubles 1 1, and the income is unlimited, which is a good start-up. In a processing factory in Zhejiang or Fujian, Nike provides you with the number of shoes produced, and you can make money by making them. If Nike doesn't help you, your income is limited, and the daily staff costs/water, electricity, rent and other costs are unlimited. This is a miserable venture.
Find a way to choose, minimize your marginal cost and keep your income rising.
Recommended reading Anti-fragile lean entrepreneurship makes elephants fly. ......
05: About adults, how can they be happier if they have a sense of security and do something small?
If you were old and young at this moment, which one would you choose to get rid of?
Obviously, you won't remove anything, which means that you are the most important and best time at this moment.
The process of accompanying the elderly is a very painful thing, because as they get older, your heart will become more and more sad.
The process of taking care of children is a very happy thing, because as children grow up, your heart will become happier and happier.
Final summary:
Why do some people know a lot about life philosophy, but they still can't live a good life? That's because they just know and don't do it.
When many questions in my heart were opened, I began to practice hard.
For example, go to bed early and get up early, love yourself and love the people around you. Waiting for the elevator and helping others press the corridor button is to respect yourself, meet the work challenge, take the initiative to meet it, and face it with a proactive attitude.
Always firmly believe that with reading and not reading, with learning and not learning, the final gap in life will be opened.
I am Xiang Shuai, a professional manager who has been engaged in the retail industry for 8 years and a self-media person who has worked hard for 200+ days. If you think the content in my article is helpful to you, you are welcome to forward it to more people, so that everyone can light up their lives because of reading and grow up for life because of active learning.