Mainly derived from Fu Lei’s family letters. Three major categories

1. Fu Lei’s love for his son

“Dear child, I wanted to write a letter the day after you left. I was afraid that you would find it annoying, so I just let it go. But I don’t miss you every day. I wake up at six or seven in the morning, tossing and turning, and I can’t explain why. It’s like Christophe’s mother is alone at home, thinking of scenes from her child’s childhood. You and your mother always think about your little stories from when you were two or three to six or seven years old."

The previous sentence is excerpted from "Fu Lei Family Letters", which was written by Mr. Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above sentence, we can see Fu Lei's deep love for his son between the lines. For my son who has grown up, I hope that he will thrive and develop outwards, but I cannot bear to let my child stay away from me. In fact, parents are like this. From pregnancy in eight months to delivery in October, parents work hard to nurture their children step by step, in the hope that their children will be useful and will not live on the streets in the future. However, when children become talented, it is also the time to leave the roof and fly alone. As a parent, I am both happy and sad for them. After all, it is a matter of flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the painstaking efforts of our parents, let them see what they want to see - our happy life, which can be regarded as repaying our parents for their hard work in raising us.

2. Fu Lei’s encouragement to his son

“As far as the performance is concerned, I think it is generally very good. It is done in one go, full of energy, and the delicate parts are very delicate. There are indeed many changes in tonecolour. We I was very happy and touched after hearing this. My dear boy, I should really praise you. Looking back on the time when I just returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April 1951, I hope you have risen from the bottom. Pay attention to your overall self-cultivation from now on, and you will definitely be able to climb to the top in the future."

This is what Teacher Fu Lei said to his son after listening to his son Fu Cong's recording. This includes Teacher Fu's detailed analysis and objective appreciation of his son's recording. And later he mentioned his hope for his son. This is the way parents educate their children. It should not only reflect your affirmation of your children, but also give them the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, they also put forward their own hopes and pointed out the way forward and the direction of development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experiences on the path guided by our parents, and learn from each other's strengths to develop our own new path.

3. Fu Lei’s instructions

“In public groups, it is inevitable to catch up with tasks and hinder normal learning. I have expected this. Everything is for your own use. Firm will and stand, and fight for it tactfully and forcefully. Otherwise, how much can you do to prepare for going abroad? - Especially in terms of music, I have been worried about everything from now on. Perseverance, faith and will - the will to practice."

Parents can’t rest after being told a thousand times. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the ever-changing society. Use your own experience to remind your son to take the road of resentment less and take more shortcuts. This is what parents all over the world think. Children are the continuation of parents’ lives and the hope that holds up the sun in their hearts. Parents take detours and do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes. They hope that they can "go to a higher level" than themselves. As adolescents, we should let go of our rebellious mentality, listen to our parents' lessons, and understand their painstaking efforts. In fact, this is also for our own good and for our future life to be easier and happier.

Reference material: Huilange Education