Show happiness and satisfy vanity. Everyone has vanity, and people's desire for vanity has never given up since ancient times. As life becomes more and more materialistic, many people doubt the truth of love, which leads to the growing desire for happy love in today's society. Therefore, the word "happiness" has become a luxury carelessly. Some people who care too much about others' evaluation have a strong desire for self-expression or a strong jealousy, and want to show off after having happiness, causing the attention and envy of people around them.
In addition, inferiority, narcissism, emptiness and insecurity will also make people happy. There is a law that says: the more you show off, the more you lack, or you hide something in a high-profile way. Some people who lack happiness in their hearts show happiness because they want the other half to see it and be better to themselves. For those who are uncertain, Xiu Ai En just makes your love the focus of friends circle. The existence of "love" seems to be more to "please" the public. When this self-happiness is betrayed by the heart and more controlled by others, the death of love is not far away.
Showing your happiness needs the approval of others, and you can be sure that you are happy through approval. But a word of caution, while basking in happiness, we should always pay attention to the mood and dynamics of the other half, and remember not to make the other half feel too tired. Because, when TA is tired, she wants to escape, and your love will die because of your show.
High-profile cover up unhappiness
Some people who show happiness actually feel that their happiness is being lost, or there is no happiness at all, so they rely on external happiness to strengthen their beliefs and cover up the unhappy truth. Many couples who have been married for many years obviously don't love each other so much, and only family ties are left to maintain their marriage. However, sometimes in order to save face, put on a show in front of outsiders, or want to maintain the appearance of marriage, I always tell everyone the other half, just to hide my unhappiness.
So it's not because happiness died after the screening. But because the original happiness has begun to retreat, we "disguise" happiness and show it. Such scenes are never rare in all kinds of films. Will Xiu En 'ai really die soon? Many times, showing happiness does not mean that two people are really in a very happy state, so their love is easy to die. Why do you say that Xiu died happily? Because when others show happiness, it will attract our attention, and when there is no happy ending, it will cause the psychological gap and original expectation of the onlookers, so it is said that showing happiness will die quickly. And those who have been happy for a long time have not attracted our attention.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with being happy. The key lies in the mentality of people. Have a calm attitude towards happiness, treat love rationally, and long-term love needs responsibility, tolerance, understanding and so on. If you have true love, then your love can't just show off and die. However, you should pay attention to the feelings of people around you, especially those with more single men and women. Be careful that your happiness will burn others. To borrow a classic saying: "A fairy couple should live in seclusion in Zhong Nanshan or go boating in Taihu Lake. Don't be sweet, don't show happiness. Because physical common sense tells us that the sun is easy to lose water, and refrigeration is the best way to keep fresh. "