I believe everyone has heard the classic saying of Mr. Qian Zhongshu that marriage is like a besieged city. People inside want to come out, and people outside want to go in. Don't be deceived by Mr. Qian Zhongshu. On the surface, he is saying that marriage is a besieged city. In fact, his marriage is extremely happy. The marriage between Qian Zhongshu and his wife Jiang Yang, from love at first sight to mutual admiration, is the most beautiful appearance of love.

First of all, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang have common interests. Jiang Yang once wrote in "The Three of us" that the greatest interest of her and Qian Zhongshu in life is reading. They don't have to say anything after dinner every night. A person sitting on one side of the table with a book, not disturbing each other. They all have their own quiet inner world, and they can also make different comments on the books they have read.

Second, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang are a match made in heaven. Both Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang were born in scholarly families. They met in Tsinghua University and appreciated each other the first time they met. When we met for the second time, Qian Zhongshu directly said that I was not engaged, while Jiang Yang said that I didn't have a boyfriend, so love began. They share a common romantic pursuit of love, and also have their own unique innocence and philosophy of life.

Third, they are all willing to pay for their marriage. After Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang got married, in order to be together, Jiang Yang gave up the bonus from American universities, accompanied Qian Zhongshu to Oxford University, and washed his hands and made soup for Qian Zhongshu and his wife. Although Qian Zhongshu can't do housework, he is still willing to clumsily prepare breakfast for his wife every day. Although life is dull, he is always happy. Besides, they also appreciate each other. Take Qian Zhongshu's famous sentence and say that Jiang Yang is? The most talented woman and the most virtuous wife? .