The mother wants to tell her children to stand up and be strong when they fall. Although the starting point is good, he ignores that the child is still too young. He wants to check whether the child is broken, and then let the child grow up by himself. He should also consider the child's ability and give appropriate help.
Although the mother may let the child stand up by herself, it may make the child stronger. However, if the child is too young, the image of parents worshiping God in his heart will be greatly reduced, and the child may never tell his parents if he has doubts in his heart. Isn't that sad? Communication can promote healthy growth. Parents are the only people that children can trust. Don't destroy the pure land in their hearts.
If the child doesn't understand the mother's intention, it will be self-defeating. The child has a shadow in his heart. After all, at the age of three, he will be 80. If children hate their mothers from an early age, it will not be conducive to their growth, so that children will not feel maternal love and may embark on the road of crime.
Indifference is also love, but at the same time, we should pay attention to the child's expression, whether it is just for comfort or really painful. Medicine shows that children aged 0~3 years have incomplete bone development. Parents should protect their children from harm. When he is old and falls, he should be allowed to get up by himself.
If mothers let young children get up by themselves, they will feel that there is no so-called care in the world at an early age. In the long run, children will become isolated, and in severe cases, they will suffer from autism. You can't open your heart to gain friendship, and you can't be as innocent as a normal child; It is also a pity that children mature prematurely and do not enjoy the fun of childhood and parents' coquetry.
There are many ways to educate and love children. To some extent, it can be explained that the mother is encouraging her children, and she wants them to be strong and independent. But if the child is too young, he must need his mother to reach out and help him. He may not understand his mother's good intentions, so from the child's point of view, he may think that his mother doesn't love him.
Although the mother may let the child stand up by herself, it may make the child stronger. However, if the child is too young, the image of parents worshiping God in his heart will be greatly reduced, and the child may never tell his parents if he has doubts in his heart. Isn't that sad? Communication can promote healthy growth. Parents are the only people that children can trust. Don't destroy the pure land in their hearts. After all, children are still young and need the care of adults. An encouragement from an adult may be of great help to a child, so it may be well-intentioned but it should be very traumatic to the child's psychology. In another sense, it is indifference.
The child is still too young ... If the mother doesn't help the child when he is so young ... what impression will she leave on the child's weak heart ... The world is too cold to help him even when he is in trouble ... This is cruel to him ... Even if the mother is kind, she should warn the child when he grows up a little ... and understand that human feelings are warm and cold ... instead of giving him a confused future now. ...
Parental support is very important for a child. Whether parents do it for their children is sincere and out of concern. However, such a move will make the child sad. Over time, they will think that their parents are indifferent to them and may not understand them, resulting in rebellious and autistic psychology. For children, more should be encouragement, and sometimes reach out and give him a hand to let him know how to care about others. Let children know how to care about others. The child is still so young, is it necessary to make the child suffer like that? You see, the child cried for his mother and asked her to hug him, indicating that he fell and hurt himself, but her mother was still indifferent. This is not indifference. What is this?
Mother should help the child when he falls. The child is so small. She should make children feel warm, not make them feel that the world is indifferent. Even the person she loved didn't help her after she fell, but looked at herself helplessly and stood up. Although his mother told him to stand up and exercise him, the child might think that his mother didn't love him.
Opponents: I don't agree with you. This is a kind of indifferent love. Only in this way can children learn to deal with problems by themselves, learn to survive and be independent, and make them independent of others. In fact, the mother is not indifferent. She will definitely feel distressed when the child falls, but she has to do so for the future of the child. This is a sign that she doesn't spoil her children.