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In the name of people: In the world of "successful" men, why are there no women?
in the name of people has been on fire recently.

but in my opinion, this is a failed TV series.

Because it's not "in the name of people", it's actually "the name of a straight man". If the people include men and women, there are only successful men and no successful women in in the name of people.

I suggest that all girls who want to marry a successful man don't worry about being a "fan girl" and watch this drama, because this is the life you are likely to encounter in the future.

Many people compare in the name of people with House of Cards in the United States, but they really can't compare it, not to mention the size of the scale and the depth of human nature disclosure. From the perspective of women,

In the card room, there is a couple of stars shining, while in in the name of people, there are only a group of men who are intrigued, while women are far away from the background.

The cancer tendency of straight men in this drama is very obvious:

The first rule of successful straight men: women in the workplace are only for entertainment

First of all, from the workplace, Lu Yike and Lin Huahua, the only directors of the Anti-Corruption Bureau who mix in the workplace, basically play all kinds of silly and stupid harmonic roles in the drama. Lu Yike often uses the phrase: Yes, why didn't I think of that? That makes sense ... She often talks without thinking, which makes people unable to believe that this is a workaholic who has worked hard in the workplace for many years. As long as she is responsible for something, she will basically screw it up, and the arresting person will definitely not be able to catch it, and the trial will definitely not tell her why. In the end, the director will have to save the scene. Their appearance is to set off the brilliant SHEN WOO of Hou Liangping, director of the Anti-Corruption Bureau.

the second rule of successful straight men: the women at home basically do the decoration

The wives of the hero in the play are basically two appearances:

1. Dead and alive (neither dead nor alive, nor angry)

2. Resentful wife appearance

The typical example of dead and alive appearance is Qi Tongwei's wife, who was also a beautiful teacher of Handong University and was educated by the school.

Note: Qi Tongwei, director of the Public Security Department of Handong Province, and his wife Liang Lu

Another typical example is Wu Huifen, the wife of Gao Yuliang, secretary of the Political and Legal Committee. They are commensurate with each other as teachers, which sounds very uncomfortable, but in fact, they are divorced and stay at home. Gao Yuliang has a lover in Hong Kong, and they are both passers-by. It is really scary to show their love in front of outsiders.

where is our perfect hero Hou Liangping?

I'm good at my job, I can cook dishes, and I know how to give gifts to my wife. This should be regarded as a warm man.

But don't forget, it was only after his wife made sacrifices for him that his care was more displayed. In the TV series, the director would rather flirt with a pair of diaosi men and women, which has nothing to do with the plot. He even spent a lot of time describing Hou Liangping as a substitute father for his youngest son, and did not show how much he missed his wife and children.

Note: Hou Liang, director of the Anti-Corruption Bureau of the People's Procuratorate of Handong Province, and his wife Zhong Xiaoai

In American blockbusters, even if it is an action movie from beginning to end, the director must spare a lot of space to show how the hero misses his wife and children in other places: he will stare at the picture of his wife for a long time, video with the other party, and shed heroic tears when talking about his wife and children with others ...

What about Hou Liangping? Looks like a bachelor.

The director didn't realize that Hou Liangping was a married man at all, and he didn't expect to be responsible for his feelings. He was a case-handling machine and a wound-up prosecutor.

You should know that Ouyang Qing, Dakang Li's wife, also sacrificed for him for many years. At that time, they were a couple, just like Hou Liangping now.

but how can a woman always pay for you? Can you buy her a dress that she can't bear to buy?

The third rule of straight men's name: In a man's world, there are no women but himself

Now let's talk about the most popular uncle Dakang Li.

I don't know why he is so popular, but as a man, he is a disaster phenomenon.

In the workplace, the friend who gave him courage and took bullets for him is obviously a good cadre, but he just doesn't recommend it for his own career.

but who are the people he values? Ding Yizhen, the king of flattery, boasted everywhere that he was the "incarnation" of Dakang Li, but actually turned his most admired "Bright Peak Project" into "Dark Peak Project", and he was unaware of it.

Chen Yanshi, an old comrade, asked him: Why didn't you reply to me when I called you and wrote to reflect the situation? He said, I swear in the name of party spirit that I didn't receive any information from you.

Chen Rock said, "That means you are overhead."

Note: Dakang Li, secretary of the Jingzhou Municipal Party Committee

doesn't know what the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee is doing. It seems that he is living in another world. Until a mass incident broke out in Dafeng Factory, which became a national event, he actually wanted to demolish the building by force. If he did this, he would definitely get into greater trouble. If old comrade Chen Yan didn't block the car, his political life would definitely stop there.

Unfortunately, Ding Yizhen has not been a moth under his nose for the first time. He has almost ruined his political career because of crimes committed by his men.

How can such a person be regarded as a "creative talent" by the secretary of the provincial party committee?

He is clean, but corruption abounds around him. He is very party-oriented, but he can't even handle the relationship between husband and wife; His wife was corrupt under his nose, and he was unaware of it; What does he think all day? Power.

The expression "Don't bow your head, Secretary Kang Da will lose GDP"

This expression pack vividly illustrates the ecology of such a person. In order to achieve political achievements, he can do anything, break through all boundaries, sacrifice everything that can be sacrificed, live in a world of his own power, but ignore people around him.

He represents quite a number of so-called "successful men". They don't prostitute or gamble, but they are workaholics, and their world is only their own.

In the final divorce negotiation, Ouyang Qing said to him: You should have friendship.

His response is: We are not Liangshan heroes.

of course you don't have to be a Liangshan hero, but you are not a cold-blooded animal.

why is there only work but no life in your world? There are only things in your world, but there is no love? Why do others have to sacrifice for you, and what have you done for the world?

The fourth rule of the name of straight men: Everything is a performance

If Dakang Li can sell cute everywhere, it will arouse the maternal love of many women. Then Gao Yuliang is hard to inspire this kind of feeling. He is always gentle and elegant, leisurely, everything is under control, and he always does things impartially and without leakage. But what he lacks most is feelings.

Note: Gao Yuliang, deputy secretary of the provincial party committee

He is just a copy of Dakang Li. What Dakang Li is good at is playing an orphan. Many leaders would like to have a watchdog who works for himself, because he is not afraid of offending people, because he has many shortcomings, so he can do some bad things for himself without threatening himself.

Gao Yuliang is a wily type, and leaders with a little idea will not like such people, because such people with ideas are likely to threaten their power.

As Dakang Li's wife, you can still quarrel with him, because you know that he is only low in emotional intelligence, but you can't quarrel with someone like Gao Yuliang, because he is too shrewd. In other words, you have no idea what his heart looks like. If you talk to him a few words, you will be surrounded by him unconsciously.

such a person's life is a stagnant pool, all his passions are hidden in the depths, and this passion will always serve himself, everyone is materialized by him, and everyone is a pawn, including himself.

Dakang Li can have some conscience discoveries after communicating with his wife, but you can't expect this kind of thing to happen here in Gao Yuliang. People like him can basically give up treatment.

The only time he can be saved is when his painstaking chess game collapses completely. That's when he dies and when he changes his life style.

The fifth rule of straight man's name: My name is "no lower limit"

Compared with Lu Yi's upright face, Qi Tongwei has a kind of "evil" beauty.

Note: Qi Tongwei, director of the Public Security Department of Handong Province

His story can be summarized in three simple words: Phoenix Man. Poor enough to go to college, even the shoes have to rely on the second generation of students. His life creed is: I am too poor! Because you are too poor, even love is a luxury.

all his life, he struggled to get rid of spiritual poverty.

But this is a black hole. No matter how rich the material is, he can't stop "dancing shoes". He can never be satisfied, because he is more greedy than anyone else, so he can do things without a lower limit, and even perform a "crying grave" play that is laughed at by the whole officialdom.

why is he so greedy? Why can you do whatever it takes?

Because he has a crisis of "self-existence". He has always been ashamed of poverty, just like Michael Jackson wanted to whitewash his skin color. He couldn't accept the shame of being born in poverty, so he kept trying to create illusions and prove that he could be proud, but this shame was like a sore throat and a thorn in his eye, and he couldn't pull it out, because those wounds had never been repaired.

When he was ashamed, no one was with him to spend those painful years, so he could only block those pains with anesthetics, and the marginal effect of these anesthetics would make him need more illusions to "relieve pain".

gradually, he became an addict. One of his famous sayings is: How heartless people should be if they can quit smoking.

once he gets rid of "power addiction", he will face a great sense of shame inside himself, but he doesn't believe that once he has no power, he can still be accepted by the world.

I wonder if such a man's world and woman's existence are just drugs. Once it fails, he will abandon it mercilessly.

what did we see in this play?

A group of men who are crazy about power, and a group of women who are emotionally frustrated.

Even the relationship between Zheng Gan and his girlfriend, which is used by the director to drag on the plot, is full of all kinds of mutual utilization.

is this world really so cruel: people die for money (power) and birds die for food?

Maybe this movie can explain "Where's Dad?". Men have been lured away by power and money, giving their hearts to the devil, becoming their vassals and puppets, and becoming the "love rat" of fickleness and disloyalty.

and women? Besides becoming a social butterfly like Gao Xiaoqin, there is still some release of human nature. What is the way out?

we can't see any hope in this play.

Because the screenwriter and director of straight male cancer are designed as "men serve power and women serve men".

men are asking for power, when can I be promoted? Women ask men hard: When will you give me love?

Without power, men will wait around; Without love, a woman would rather be separated, divorced and not left home, or endure her husband's mistress.

If you can't bear it, be a social butterfly-a woman who doesn't mind her reputation. Otherwise, a woman's name is called "sacrifice"?

bullshit.

this drama only proves one truth: if a woman places her happiness in life on a man, it is a dead end. If there is only power in a man's world, then even if he succeeds, it is also a "pathological" success, and such success is his greatest failure in life.

What China needs to reflect on most now is: Do men and women succeed at the expense of "humanity"?

Do men want to succeed at the expense of their lives?

do women want to succeed at the expense of work?

One of the cores of our culture for thousands of years is the "sacrificial" perspective of mother and baby. The earliest workaholic Dayu saved water, but he didn't enter the house for three times. There is also an early legend of "Xiang Fei Zhu": E Huang and Nv Ying's concubines waited for Shun Di but didn't return, and their tears kept flowing for a long time, so now there is a kind of bamboo with many spots. The legend is that their tears are soaked.

I was a little surprised until I heard that the president of the United States had a vacation. In my impression, all successful men should be workaholics.

I remember that the first lesson in junior high school textbooks was to describe the lights in the Prime Minister's office, which didn't go out until four or five in the morning. In the end, the beloved Premier Zhou was exhausted alive, including Comrade Jiao Yulu, who insisted on working with a chair against his liver when he was suffering from cancer. These legends are all praising the so-called successful man and the woman who was thrown behind the background.

Dad didn't disappear just now. If you look at A Dream of Red Mansions, Water Margin, Romance of the Three Kingdoms and The Journey to the West, have women ever appeared in a man's world? A woman is nothing more than two roles. If she has a little humanity, she is a slut. If you suppress some self, it is a victim.

Now we have to decide one thing: Do we still accept this social culture, and do we still have our own choices?

Do we still aim to marry such a pathologically successful man?

a man who has been alienated by "power" and "money", do we still have to pester them to the end?

In fact, all the women in this drama are not ordinary women without knowledge, culture and ability. The only thing they lack is self-discovery and self-liberation.

They unconsciously recognized the identities of E Huang and Nv Ying thousands of years ago, recognized the identity of women as the "second sex" and gave up their self, so they could only have a life of the affiliated class.

At present, China is in a transitional period, and the issue of marriage is becoming a social issue. This in itself shows that women's self-awareness is on the rise, while men need to reflect: When I have more and more resources, can I control them or can they control me?

is there anything in this world that can't be sacrificed?

And what we need most is the inspiration from an old guy like Chen Yan: they live very comfortably, and their husband and wife are ok because they have faith.

We don't necessarily have the same beliefs as them, but we must know this:

Is there anything in life that we can't lose?

what's the point of my living like this?