1, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.

If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because in your heart, you can't let go.

4. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.

You should always thank those who give you adversity.

6. You should always forgive others, no matter how bad they are, or even hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

7. The world is inherently painful, without exception.

8. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.

9. Don't waste your life where you will regret it.

10, put it down and there will be no trouble.

1 1. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

12, it is not pitiful when you know that you are confused, and it is most pitiful when you don't know that you are confused.

13, arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't be saved.

14, don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you can only suffer yourself.

15, you should tolerate people who have different opinions with you, so that life is easier. It will be painful for you if you keep trying to change him. You should learn how to tolerate him, how to tolerate him.

16. Admitting your greatness means admitting your ignorance.

17. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

18, it only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person, so please be merciful.

19, when you give advice to others, no matter how good it is, if you don't care about others' self-esteem.

Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

2 1, there is no need to look back and see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you want to get down and bite it?

22. Being jealous of others won't add any benefits to yourself. Envy of others does not reduce their achievements.

Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.

24. When many people want to leave this world, they will say the same thing: This world is really helpless and desolate!

25, love is not charity, you can't give it casually. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still insisting and pursuing until they die.

26. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

27. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.

28. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.

29, don't be too sure of your opinion, so there will be less regret.

When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.

3 1, it is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.

32. A person who is full of jealousy, dishonest and incorrect in speech cannot be regarded as a person with correct facial features.

Tell more jokes and handle things with humor, and life will be easier.

Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

35. To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere.

36. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.

37. People who don't take a bath won't smell sweet if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant.

38. It is better to accept it than to reject it as a fact.

39. Adversity is a necessary process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.

40. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.

4 1. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

42. If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, your life will be extraordinary.

43. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.

44. Time will pass. Let time take away your troubles!

45. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be miserable.

46. People who always distort the goodwill of others are hopeless.

47. People are not bad, just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a good heart, forgive him if he can, and don't treat him as a bad person.

48. Why tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it?

49. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.

50. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.

5 1. Those who praise and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and guide us are good teachers, and we will make progress with them.

What you have now will become someone else with your death, so why not give it to someone who really needs it now?

53. Silence is the best answer to slander.

54. To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself.

If you have a selfless love, you have everything.

56. Better accept than complain. There is no better way for you to accept the unchangeable fact.

57. Don't get yourself into trouble because of others' ignorance. Don't make yourself miserable because of others' ignorance.

58. Others say that we are not good, so don't be angry or sad; You don't have to be happy to say we are good. There are good and bad in it, depending on whether you can use it.

Don't lose your temper when your mistake is exposed. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.

60. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people suffering in the world than we are.