Chinese-style filial piety is not a kind of moral kidnapping. We should recognize the essence of Chu's filial piety. Filial piety means that our parents bring us up as adults when we are young, and then take care of our parents with their own abilities when we are old. This is a proper filial piety.

all the virtues's filial piety comes first, which is a traditional famous saying in China. Although it is a little exaggerated, it is true that filial piety is something that every Chinese should do, because when we were young, our parents never rejected some things, and we didn't understand some things. We only learned these things after taking pains to teach us. Because we know these things, we can survive and learn more and more knowledge in this world, and constantly improve our ability. We gradually become a young man from a child, then gradually get in touch with the society to find a job, and then set up our own family. Then, as our ability becomes stronger, our parents gradually get older.

filial piety is something we should do, but it should not be a kidnapping behavior. We are filial to our parents by providing them with good living conditions within our ability, and basically ensuring that their parents have a place to live, food and clothing, and can eat and wear warm clothes. This is our most basic responsibility, but it is said that we kidnap our soldiers through filial intention and make our children listen to their parents. This is not filial piety. Although you can make the old people happier by listening to their words, sometimes there will be some communication gap due to age, and the old people can't understand what we are in this era.

Take care of your parents and make them happy when you are filial, but this is based on the premise that it will not affect the future life of us and our children. We have the obligation to take care of our parents, but we are not obliged to listen to them absolutely. We can also have our own life.