Because I once fell into a dark valley in my life, I was desperate and thought that life would be like this from now on. But in the end, I came out! Looking back on that road, I finally understand a truth:

Nothing is impossible! You couldn't get through it then, and it will all pass eventually. You will finally see the light in out of the dark. -So, the following is not chicken soup for the soul, but a real life experience:

1, allow yourself to have depressed mood and mood.

It is irresponsible to ask you to be optimistic every day at this time. Allowing yourself to have some negative emotions is to give yourself a buffer space and not to forcibly confront your true feelings. In the face of the trough of life, it is understandable to be depressed, hesitant, distressed and depressed for a while. Without these emotions, you are abnormal.

Allow yourself to be lonely, but don't be isolated from the world.

Because when you are at the bottom of your life, many things in your heart are beyond others' understanding, so you should not ask for others' understanding or expect others' concern. Everyone has their own business, and no one is obliged to take care of you. You can't sigh that the world is indifferent or indifferent just because your relatives and friends don't care about you. This is the world. If you can see through this, you won't complain at the first time! This is very important.

3. Allow temporary escape.

You can indulge in your favorite hobbies or interests to divert your attention.

But you can't get into bad habits, and your life philosophy should be healthy. These are temporary channels for you to transfer or release negative emotions.

4. learn to be patient.

Tell yourself that there is nothing you can't pass. This is also very important. This is the basis of building confidence in life. I believe that no matter what difficulties, even despair, will pass one day! No matter what you meet, you must endure!

It is normal to have temporary despair. But don't let "despair" control you!

Try to get through it day by day! "Live to see the sun the day after tomorrow!"

When I got out of that predicament, I sighed in my heart: "It seemed that there was no end to the darkness before. When I came out, I realized that there was still sunshine as warm as when I first saw it. "

I wish you an early exit from the predicament. Please be sure to have such a day!

1, since we are under siege, let's cross the rubicon! Give him a Jedi counterattack. There is no despair in life. The premise is that you have to summon up courage to move forward. All the roads come out. As long as you go ahead, there will be a road.

2. Friends pay money and earn it. As long as they have hands and feet, they can conquer the world. Moving bricks can also move out of a real estate developer. Man has made all the impossible possible step by step. I can't change it to I work hard, and I won't change it to I can learn.

No matter what you do, it is impossible as long as you do it in a down-to-earth manner. I remember a story many years ago: I traded a paper clip for a villa. It was a story for a while. Did anyone think it was possible before doing this? But the fact is that it succeeded.

I feel impossible before doing anything. A real thing is that my brother came out to work and only took the travel expenses to find a job. He just stood on the street delivering beer to others. Although there is no achievement now, I still earn tens of thousands of dollars a month.

5. Be aggressive in doing things. Embattled today, people will be impressed ten years later. As long as you work hard, you will have a bright future.

6. The last difficulty is to be overcome, and the effort is just around the corner.

How to get out of the predicament under siege? First of all, we must analyze and understand the reasons why we are in trouble.

There are roughly two reasons for getting into trouble. First, because of their own problems. If you want to get out of the predicament, you must know yourself, change yourself and improve yourself. If you can't escape, you must face it bravely and get up when you fall; If you want to get out of the predicament, you must have a clear direction and set goals. You can't be too hasty, you can't be quick and quick. Failure is the mother of success. With a good attitude and patience, learn lessons, sum up experience, overcome difficulties and get out of the predicament.

Second, the reasons of environment and luck. There is a saying that you can't drink cold water when you are unlucky. I've also heard that you fart and hit your heels. This shows that people may get into trouble when they are unlucky. At this time, we must maintain a good attitude and face it correctly. If you have a high attitude and a high pattern, difficulties will become an adjustment of life and crises will turn into opportunities.

Life can't be smooth sailing, there is wind and rain, and there is pain and joy to call life. It is not terrible to encounter difficulties. Be positive and optimistic, strive to overcome difficulties and get out of the predicament. The famous saying goes well: adversity helps survival, crisis raises vigilance, and adversity stimulates thinking. After the storm is a rainbow!

It is unfortunate that a person can face the dilemma of being besieged on all sides. This is enough to show that this person has too many shortcomings. Trying to go out may be more than just learning to communicate. First, you must have a relatively stable job and skills. Without income, you can't do anything, you don't want to do anything, and no one will support you for nothing. Second, be kind to your family and make more friends. Family and friends are the source of happiness. Third, we should learn to be kind to others and be cautious in words and deeds, so as to gain the respect of others. Fourth, study more and read more. Reading makes people grow wise. Everyone likes smart people. Who likes fools? Fifth, we should learn to let go and be content. Being insatiable will make people avoid it. Sixth, consciously abide by the law, do not do illegal things, and be law-abiding citizens. I believe that if you can do the above, the besieged things will not find you.

Whether you work hard or not depends on your desire for the future. Sometimes longing for this kind of thing is terrible, and unexpected power will erupt. There may be no pie in the world, but behind this luck, you need to work harder yourself.

How to get out of the life dilemma under siege?

I want to talk about it from the point of view of mentality and action.

First of all, from a psychological point of view. To get out of the predicament of life, we must first face it bravely. People come into this world with tears and leave with tears. In this process, no one will be smooth sailing. Career, family and love will never be perfect. It is important to keep a good attitude in the face of difficulties. There is a good saying: When you have no capital to speak in Kan Kan, please smile.

Since you feel embattled, you should stick to your beliefs and keep an optimistic attitude. Don't break down because you think you can't get out of this hurdle. Only you are your best mentor.

There is a famous actor, whose name I forget, but in an interview program, he said: When he was not famous, there were cynicism everywhere. After he became famous, there were good people with smiling faces everywhere! "

Therefore, the predicament is temporary, and whoever is desperate will not be cold or sad.

In action, don't feel sorry for yourself in the face of difficulties, but actively seek solutions. There are too many cases of despair rebirth. Even write out the solutions and analyze them one by one. It is meaningless to stay at home and meditate actively. Go out and bask in the sun, and your road will be more sunny.

In addition, in addition to multi-angle analysis, we must find the reasons from ourselves.

Embattled, it seems to be a desperate situation-at this time, the inner sense of powerlessness, helplessness and confusion about life have reached the maximum.

Fortunately, there is no absolute despair in modern society-as long as we are still alive!

Turn your eyes and attention from the outside to the inside-see what advantages and specialties you have to carry forward; Who are the relatives and friends around us who can help us out of trouble? How can we be inspired? ,,,,

Sometimes we feel that we are under siege. If we try to change the angle, we may get unexpected gains ~

Easier said than done, it takes a lot of courage.

Blessing ~

No one is perfect. You must admit your weakness and be willing to accept suggestions, help and advice from others. As long as you dare to admit that you need help, success is inevitable.

Learn from setbacks and failures and continue to work hard.

Life must be honest and full of justice in order to attract people with the same personality charm to help you. From the point of view of psychologists, good people are always happy.

Enthusiastic to help others, be a respected person and have a harmonious relationship with others.

To be nice to you, be nice to others first. When you are treated unfairly, you must forgive and sympathize.

You should stick to your beliefs and keep happiness in your heart forever.

When you are really besieged, there must be unknown sadness and experience. You must not regret it. You have tried your best to prove the value you are pursuing. Life may always encounter some bumps and setbacks, but please don't stop tomorrow. When we come to the crossroads, we must listen to the bravest voice inside. When fate requires us to fly against the wind, we can't go with the wind.

I don't know. My present situation is not as much as you described. I'm trying to break this situation. The only thing I can do now is to seek what I want to do after solving the problems in life. With something that suits me, I have motivation, motivation and enthusiasm, and I can change my living environment. With the change of living environment, I can have higher spiritual pursuit and material pursuit. With these backing, everything can be opened and everything is available.