The story of confidence 1
Li Yuanzhe is a famous scientist in Taiwan Province Province. He won the Nobel Prize in chemistry and was known as "Beethoven in physical chemistry".
Li Yuanzhe was born in Taiwan Province, and his good family environment gave him more opportunities to get in touch with all kinds of knowledge since he was a child. Under the impact of various thoughts, Li Yuanzhe developed his own inertia of thinking and drawing conclusions, and tried his best to find a solution to the problem.
In junior high school, in addition to mastering what the teacher said in class, Li Yuanzhe taught himself many more advanced courses. In an exam, he used at least three methods for each question, and all the blanks on the test paper were filled in densely.
The teacher was surprised when correcting the test paper. He knows that Li Yuanzhe has achieved good results, but many problem-solving methods used in this paper are the talents and knowledge of the university. After thinking about it, the teacher gave Li Yuanzhe a zero on purpose.
Sure enough, Li Yuanzhe ran to the office in a short time and said to the teacher unconvinced, "Teacher, I did the right thing. How can you give me zero?" ? You should give me a hundred points. "
The teacher looked at the confident Li Yuanzhe and said, "You did answer these questions correctly, but I did a test to see if everyone understood the knowledge in class. You answer this question, how do I know if you have mastered it? "
Li Yuanzhe said, "I know all the knowledge because I don't need it. I hope to solve the problem in a new way. "
The teacher said, "Then prepare yourself and tell us about your problem-solving ideas in the next class. If everyone agrees, I will give you a hundred points. "
At the beginning of the class, the students sat upright. Li Yuanzhe strode onto the platform and said, "Hello, classmates. Today I will tell you a few new ideas to solve the problem. " Then start writing on the blackboard and solve the problem.
The students opened their eyes and admired Li Yuanzhe very much: "Oh, this method is really simple!"
"Why didn't I think of that?"
"I also want to learn from him, learn more knowledge and think about several ways to solve problems!"
Looking at this scene, the teacher smiled with satisfaction, raised his pen and wrote a hundred points on Li Yuanzhe's paper.
The story of self-confidence 2
Among the huge group of lawyers in the United States, there is an ugly woman lawyer with an excellent reputation. Her name is Cole. In court, her twisted appearance often causes everyone's surprise and even fear. However, this ugly female lawyer, with profound knowledge, sharp eloquence and aggressive momentum, shocked four people and won lawsuits for countless parties.
Many people don't understand how such an ugly person became a lawyer.
Cole, 35, is the only girl in the family. In her childhood, she was not only beautiful but also smart, and she was the apple of her parents' eye since childhood.
One day after entering middle school, Cole had several small round white spots on his chin. She rubbed it with her fingers doubtfully, and there was nothing strange. A week later, the white spot not only did not fade, but even became fragments. Parents immediately took Cole to the hospital for a skin examination. The doctor's diagnosis concluded that Cole had a very common skin leukoplakia, which could be cured by applying some symptomatic ointment. However, a month later, the white spots have not been eliminated, and the area is getting bigger and bigger. Next, Cole's body kept showing strange symptoms: his long blond hair turned gray and kept falling off; The right eye inclines downward; Nose tilted to the right; The right corner of the mouth is upturned, and a beautiful face is completely deformed.
Anxious parents sent Cole to the hospital for an otolaryngology examination again. The conclusion this time is that Cole suffers from a rare progressive facial hemiatrophy. The disease will get worse with the patient's age, the patient's facial features will gradually shrink until they disappear completely, and even the whole face will shrink into a hole. The terrible thing is that there is no effective treatment for this disease on a global scale.
However, although this disease is terrible, it will not endanger the lives of patients. Strong cole rekindled the flame of hope in his heart. She thinks that since she enjoys the right to life like others, she must prove the value and significance of her life through hard work and struggle. From then on, Cole studied harder, and almost all subjects were the first in grade.
However, at school, there are often boys who suddenly block Cole's way and imitate her twisted face. Some students nicknamed her "crooked nose" and "Pulsatilla"; None of the students even wanted to sit at the same table with her. In this way, Cole was ruthlessly isolated from the crowd.
/kloc-One day when he was 0/7 years old, Cole was having a class at school. Suddenly, she felt her right eye darkened. Cole's heart sank, knowing that his right eye would be blind from now on, which was the result of his illness.
Later, Cole was admitted to the university with excellent results. Walking into the university campus, she is still a "monster" in the eyes of her classmates, and no one wants to approach her actively. Someone even posted her photo online. Some of netizens' messages are sympathy and encouragement to her, but more are cynicism, and some even curse her for posting her horror photos online to scare people. What surprised Cole even more was that netizens had a heated debate on whether famous universities should admit "ugly people". Many people think that Cole's ugly appearance will affect the image and reputation of the school and suggest that the school expel Cole. In the face of such great mental pressure, Cole is the only one who silently bears it.
One day, in a social psychology class, the teacher asked the students to discuss their ideals. The classroom suddenly exploded and the students discussed with great interest. Cole was the only one sitting in his seat silently. Then, the teacher asked the students to speak one by one. When it was Cole's turn, before she could speak, a boy shouted: "Plastic surgery, her ideal is only plastic surgery." Just as the voice fell, a burst of laughter broke out in the classroom.
Cole turned his head, looked at the boy with a serious expression and said, "You are wrong. My ideal is not plastic surgery. Plastic surgery can't change the disabilities and defects on my face. In fact, my ideal is to be a lawyer. "
The classroom burst into laughter again, and the students said slowly:
"Ugly lawyer ..."
"Who has the courage to ask such a lawyer to appear in court ..."
"It's time to test the courage of judges ..."
Cole, on the other hand, said firmly with a serious expression: "I want to be a lawyer to help those poor victims and those unfortunate disabled people who are discriminated against by others." The classroom suddenly quieted down and everyone was lost in thought. Four years later, he graduated from Cole University and obtained the professional lawyer qualification certificate through unremitting efforts.
Now, female lawyer Cole often appears in court, and her special appearance will still attract ridicule or even contempt from a few people. Moreover, her condition is still deteriorating, and the doctor asserts that her right cheek is about to shrink and disappear.
Cole said: "One day my face may disappear, but as long as my life is still there, I will continue to prove that the beauty of appearance is not important, but the confidence and strength in your life."
The story of self-confidence 3
A man didn't go to college, and his parents found him a wife and got married. After marriage, he taught in the primary school in the village. Due to lack of experience, he was kicked off the stage by students in less than a week. When he got home, his wife wiped his tears and comforted him, saying that some people can empty their stomachs, while others can't. There's no need to feel bad about it. Maybe there is something more suitable for you to do.
Later, he went out to work and was bounced back by his boss because he was too slow. At this time, his wife told him that his hands and feet were always fast and slow. Others have been working for many years, and you have been studying. How can I get it quickly?
He did a lot of work again, but without exception, he gave up halfway. However, every time he comes back depressed, his wife always comforts him and never complains.
In his thirties, with a little language talent, he became a counselor in a school for the deaf. Later, he opened a school for the disabled. Later, he opened chain stores for the disabled in many cities. He is already a boss with tens of millions of assets.
One day, when he succeeded, he asked his wife, what made you so confident in me when he felt the future was bleak?
His wife's answer is simple and clear. She said that a piece of land is not suitable for growing wheat, so you can try to grow beans; If beans don't grow well, you can grow melons and fruits; Melon and fruit are not good. Sprinkle some buckwheat seeds, and it will surely blossom. Because of a piece of land, there are always seeds suitable for it, and there will always be gains that belong to it.
After listening to his wife, he cried! "My wife's persistent faith and love are like a tough seed; His miracle is the miracle of this seed's unremitting growth! 」
The story of self-confidence 4
A girl, after graduating from the School of Architecture of Tsinghua University, successfully got the admission notice from the Graduate School of Harvard University. However, I didn't expect that everything was ready, but I was rejected twice in a row when I applied for a visa at the American Embassy. The girl is very sad, hiding in the dormitory and crying.
A good classmate advised her why she didn't ask a consulting company for help, which was very clever. It is said that a senior was refused a visa three times four years ago, and then she went to sign it four years later, but she hasn't done it yet. Later, she found a consulting company and stayed there for half a month, which passed smoothly.
The girl was tempted and found a consulting company called "Confidence". There are only three people in the company, the boss and two assistants. The boss looked at the visa materials brought by the girl and said, your materials are all right. Ask the girls to introduce two rejections in detail. The girl spoke in a low voice, her eyes lowered and her head lowered, and she didn't dare to look at her boss. The boss listened and interrupted the girl: Stop it, that's your problem.
It turns out that girls are introverted, are not good at communicating with strangers, blush when they talk, and always lower their eyebrows, giving people a feeling of unconfidence. The boss said to the girl with great experience: You mainly train three things in our company: look up, look straight and speak loudly. So, for two weeks, the two assistants did nothing, so they tried their best to make the girl get into the habit of looking up at others and train her to speak loudly.
The third visa, half is habit, half is deliberate, the girl has been holding her head high, her eyes staring straight at the visa officer, and Kan Kan talked about it. She was very calm and unhurried. The visa officer looked suspiciously at the previous two refusal records and muttered, "I'm not confident, hesitant and afraid to look up", as if it didn't mean the girl at all. Finally, he smiled: "You are excellent. I don't see any reason to refuse you. The United States welcomes you. " The whole process only takes 5 minutes.
The story of self-confidence 5
A poor young man wandered to Paris. He hopes his father's friend Uncle Charles can help him find a job to make a living. "Are you proficient in mathematics?" Charles asked. The young man shook his head shyly. "What about historical geography?" The youth still shook his head embarrassedly. "What about the law?" The young man bowed his head in embarrassment. Charles kept asking questions, and the young man could only shake his head and tell the other person that he didn't seem to have any strengths, even the smallest strengths. "Then write down your address first. I have to help you find a job. " Charles finally said. The young man shyly wrote down his name and address and turned to leave, but Charles stopped him: "Your name is beautifully written, which is your advantage." "Writing a name is an advantage? Young people see affirmative answers in each other's eyes. I can write my name in praise, and then I can write it beautifully, I can write it beautifully, I can write it beautifully ... The encouraged young people enlarge their advantages little by little, and their steps will suddenly relax. A few years later, young people really wrote world-famous classics. This young man is/kloc-Dumas, a famous French writer in the 8th century.
Inspirational insight of life philosophy: everyone's growth has a long-term process and needs constant encouragement and self-motivation. Exploring an advantage potential can greatly stimulate our self-confidence and self-esteem. Many people in life have some small advantages such as "being able to write their names well", but they are often overlooked. This is the famous saying, "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" Li Bai in ancient inspirational poems.