1. If a person wants to be happy, he cannot be too smart or too stupid. This state between smart and stupid is called wisdom.

Enlightenment: People are too smart to be guarded against, and people are too stupid to be manipulated, and there is no way to gain sincerity. It’s so rare to be confused!

2. How to employ people: Use saints first, gentlemen second, and rather use mediocre people than villains.

Enlightenment: That’s right, people often say that real bad people are not scary, but fake good people (villains) are scary.

3. Let go if you don’t want to love, shut up if you don’t want to talk, and let go if you don’t want to hate.

Enlightenment: Everything will pass, don’t be too persistent about everything.

4. Humans are contradictory animals. When they have nothing, they think everything is good. But when they have bear paws, they think fish is better.

Enlightenment: People can’t be too greedy, and they can’t get everything they want. I have seen such a passage: "The poor want to be rich, the rich want to live forever, and the immortals are endlessly troubled. When will these days end..." Cherishing what you have is the key! ! !

5. All negative emotions and mentality will not have any effect on the people and things you are dissatisfied with, but will have a big effect on yourself and your relatives and friends!

Enlightenment: People should be optimistic. Life is short, and sometimes it ends when you turn around.

6. Love without feeling pain is not real love. Marriage without happiness is not real marriage.

Enlightenment: Love is sometimes a joke that can be laughed off, but marriage is a long novel, and happiness is a kind of understanding.

7. Don’t keep staring at other people’s pot lids in marriage. You know, the bottom of every pot is black.

Enlightenment: “Every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite!” This is indeed the case.

8. The advantage of telling the truth is that you don’t have to remember what you said.

Enlightenment: Usually one lie requires ten or more lies to explain that people should not live so hard.

9. An eternal oath is a heavyweight commitment that often embarrasses mountains and oceans.

Enlightenment: Don’t easily believe that one sentence of “take it” is better than ten sentences of “I will give it to you”

10. Time is a terrible thing. As it goes by, there are always some truths that are forever covered up, and there are always some truths that are slowly revealed. Sometimes, inadvertently, some truths come to you...

Enlightenment: Speechless...Don't always take chances in anything you do, "If you don't want others to know, you have to do nothing yourself." It's also the truth.

11. The bitterness and sweetness of coffee does not depend on how to stir it, but whether to add sugar; the pain of a period of time does not depend on how to forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.

Enlightenment: The real pain is that no one can share the pain for you, so you have to rely on yourself to get out of the shadows.

12. Only 5% of a person’s life is wonderful, only 5% is painful, and the remaining 90% is dull. People are often tempted by 5% of the excitement, endure 5% of the pain, and then spend their lives in 90% of the mediocrity.

Enlightenment: Does one’s life really have to be controlled by 10%? Think more openly, be more open-minded, life itself is the ordinary.

13. True love is not about being together knowing how good the other person is, but being reluctant to leave even though you know how bad the other person is.

Inspiration: To love someone is not just about loving the other person. You have to accept the other person's shortcomings as well as their advantages. No one is perfect and never leaving is the highest state of love!

14. Two people have been together for a long time, just like the left hand and the right hand. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to stay together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up the relationship for so many years. Maybe someone you love will appear in your life, but in the end that person is just a passer-by, and you will still hold your left or right hand and keep walking...

Enlightenment: "Hold your hand and grow old together with your child." . At first it was an oath, then it became a responsibility, and then it became a habit.