1, loneliness is the root of all anxiety. Fromm's The Art of Love

2. Love gained through hard work often makes people doubt. This kind of love often makes people feel painfully: I am loved because I make the other person happy, not out of my own will-in the final analysis, I am not loved, but needed. Fromm's The Art of Love

3. Modern people live in illusion. He thinks he knows what he wants, but what he wants is what others want him to want. Fromm's Escape from Freedom

What a person can and should do is not to feel safe, but to accept the unsafe reality.

Love is mainly about giving rather than receiving. Giving is happier than receiving, not because it is a deprivation, but because giving shows the existence of my life. It is in the process of giving that I experience my strength, wealth and ability. Fromm's The Art of Love

People often regard the intensity of this infatuation as evidence of strong love, but in fact it just shows how lonely, lonely and boring these men and women used to be. Fromm's The Art of Love

7. The most important thing is to learn to be alone, not to read, not to listen to the radio, not to smoke and not to drink. The ability of concentration lies in solitude, which is the condition of learning to love. Because we can't rely on ourselves, we can only connect ourselves with another person. This person may be the savior of my life, but this relationship has nothing to do with love. Fromm's The Art of Love

8. Love is not a relationship with a specific person at first; It is an attitude and a character. This attitude and disposition determine a person's relationship with the whole world, not with the same love object. If a person only loves one person and is indifferent to others, then his love is not love, but a natural attachment, or an enlarged egoism. Fromm's The Art of Love

9. Respect means paying attention to each other's growth and performance according to their own nature. Therefore, respect also means not to take advantage of each other. I hope that the loved ones will grow up and express themselves in their own way, instead of serving my purpose. I love him, so I feel integrated with him, but he is still himself. I don't want him to be what I want him to be, so that I can use him. Only when I gain my own independent status, stand independently without crutches, walk by myself, and don't want to dominate and use others, can I respect each other. Only on the basis of freedom can there be love. Fromm's The Art of Love

10, love has nothing to do with maturity. If you don't work hard to develop your whole personality, all your efforts to love will fail; If you don't have the ability to love others, if you can't really love others with humility, courage, sincerity and self-discipline, then people will never be satisfied in their love life. Fromm's The Art of Love

Peng Duanshu's famous words, Yu Youren's famous words, Jean rostain's famous words, Bacon's famous words.

Frebet Ken's famous saying

1, a healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the prison of the soul. Frebet Ken

2. Real agility is a very valuable thing. Because time is the standard to measure career, for example, money is the standard to measure goods. Frebet Ken

I think the definition of goodness is beneficial to human beings. Frebet Ken

4, can withstand the test of all kinds of temptations and troubles, to achieve the most perfect mental health. Frebet Ken

Reading makes a full person, conversation makes a quick person, and writing and taking notes make a precise person. History lessons make people wise, poems witty, mathematics subtle, natural history profound, ethics grave and logic rhetoric able to contend. Fu Peigen)

6. Collective habits are more powerful than individual habits. Therefore, if there is a social environment with a good moral atmosphere, it is most conducive to cultivating good social citizens. Frebet Ken

7. Live to learn, not to live. Frebet Ken

8. Money is like fertilizer. If it is not scattered in the fields, it is useless in itself. Frebet Ken

9. Wit in communication field can't be expressed too much and can't be ignored; Because this involves not only a decent issue, but also public services and the government. Frebet Ken

10, human wisdom is like a bumpy mirror. It mixes its own nature with the nature of things, so what it reflects is distorted. Frebet Ken

Paul graham, George Eliot, Charlie Kingsley and Charles Lamb.

Charles Lamb's famous saying

1, that little heaven is full of light, but the adult world is always tossing in the dark night of reason and material. Charles Lamb's Selected Works of Elias

2. Too much absorption of other people's original ideas limits the development of their critical thinking ability. Charles Lamb's Selected Works of Elias

Childhood friends, like childhood clothes, can't be worn when they grow up. Charles Lamb

4. Too much absorption of other people's original ideas limits the development of their critical thinking ability. Being lost in other people's thoughts is like getting lost in other gardens. Just like a tall servant walking with you. He has big steps, and you have small steps, which is very difficult. Charles Lamb

I don't want to lose everything because of old age, and I don't want to fall into the grave like a ripe fruit, as others say. Charles Lamb's Selected Works of Elias

6. I think a lawyer was once a child. Charles Lamb

Nothing in the world confuses me more than time and space. However, because I never think about time and space, they bring me less trouble than anything else. Charles Lamb

8. Sin has not polluted him, troubles have not urged him to get old, and death will come in time to take good care of him. Charles Lamb's Selected Works of Elias

9. Sometimes, I also wonder how I can spend half my life safely and never lose face with such a poor knowledge. It turns out that a person, despite his short knowledge, can still get along with all kinds of people without being regarded as defective, because everyone wants to show off his knowledge and is not in a hurry to ask others to tell his experience. Charles Lamb's paper on Ilya.

10, childhood friends are like childhood clothes, but they can't wear them when they grow up. Charles Lamb

Ikeda Dazu's Famous Words Blair's Famous Words Mo Luoya's Famous Words Pavlov's Famous Words Lamb's Famous Words.

Lamb's famous saying

1. If a person doesn't have a gram of stupidity, he must have a few pounds of something worse, mutton.

You can learn some ideas from others, but you must think in your own way and cast a sand mold of your own thoughts in your own mold. Little sheep/yeanling

3. A little sweetness can kill a lot of bitter mutton.

The world never gives in to anyone, lamb.

A real poet is awake even when he dreams. He is not possessed by his own poetic talent, but firmly controls it. He wandered in the sacred forest of Eden, as free as walking on the path of his hometown. He jumped above nine days, but he was not infatuated. Even in hell, when he stepped on the burning ashes, he never lost heart; Even through the chaotic world outside the ceiling and the ancient country of night, he still flies without difficulty. Even if he temporarily put himself in a serious state of insanity, he was willing to go crazy with King Lear or hate mankind with Timon (this is also a kind of madness). However, no matter whether he is crazy or hates human beings, he is not out of control and flooding at will. Although it seems that he completely lost the reins of reason, in fact, he did not get rid of his patron saint, whispering in his ear, and a kind servant Kent improved his sobriety. When he looks most inhuman, he embodies the true meaning of life. Little sheep/yeanling

Charles Lamb, Jane Howell, Ma Arnold.