Once a woman falls in love with a man, it is difficult to escape. A person must respect himself first, and then others will respect you. He must love himself first, and then others will love you.

This article comes from "The Book of Songs·Guo Feng·Wei Feng". The original text is: Before the mulberry leaves fall, their leaves are like silk. The doves are sighing, and there are no mulberries to eat. When I come to complain about my daughter, I have no time to spend time with scholars. If a scholar is delayed, he can still get rid of it. A woman's lingering condition cannot be taken off. The vernacular interpretation of this sentence is: before the leaves of the mulberry tree fall, its leaves are fresh and moist. Alas, turtledove, don’t be greedy for mulberries. Oh, girl, don’t indulge in a man’s love. A man can escape from being addicted to love. When a girl is addicted to love, she cannot get rid of it.