Because you can't see, people are terrible.
Here are five words of advice directed at people's hearts:
Talk to everyone for three minutes. Don't talk to others all the time. Don't confide everything in your heart
There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. People who know enough is enough, can grasp the discretion at any time and leave themselves a way out.
There is no smooth road in life, and you can't do things by your own will. So, say three points and keep seven points, no matter how far things go, you will have enough space to control them.
Deliberately planting flowers, unintentionally planting flowers, fertilizing, irrigation, etc., but the flowers never bloom and finally wither; And a willow tree that was broken at will was inserted in the ground at will and never cared for, but it became a lush willow tree a few years later.
Things you work hard for often don't have good results, but an unintentional move can always bring unexpected surprises. Sometimes we treat people or things too deliberately, but we can't get the desired results. Let nature take its course, and we can achieve our goal.
It is difficult to draw tiger skin, but it is difficult to draw bones. It's easy to draw a tiger's bone when you know a person's face but don't know his heart. You can know a person by his appearance, behavior and words, but it is difficult to know his heart. The human heart is probably the most unpredictable, changeable, difficult to grasp and irregular thing in the world.
I understand the unpredictability of human heart, understand perfunctory disguise, stand ups and downs, let go of great sadness and joy, smile no matter how bitter, and sing no matter how bitter.
Human feelings are like a piece of tissue paper, and the world is like a chess game. The new world is changeable, just like playing chess, it is difficult to predict the outcome.
The feelings between people are as thin as paper. If you are not careful, you will puncture this paper. Therefore, when you get along with others, you should understand the bottom line of others and make a good balance. Once crossing the border, it may form a gap between the two that can never be repaired.
Nobody talks about anyone behind their back. It is normal for anyone not to talk about others until they are talked about. It is impossible for everyone to like himself. Don't care too much about the comments behind others' backs. After all, being too serious will upset you. In fact, we sometimes blame others ourselves.
A short motto and proverb can make us gain a lot. Their charm lies in their positive significance even though the times are different, and their contents are quite enlightening and appealing to both refined and popular tastes. You don't need to spend a lot of time, but what you often read is people's profound summary of life experience in long-term life practice. For people who are busy but need to summarize in time, it is perfect.
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