Letters from Fu Lei is an excerpt from the letters written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and Fu Min. From 1954 to1June 966.
This is the best reading for art apprentices and a textbook full of fatherly love. Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are models of China's parents. Their two children, Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher, are the successful embodiment of their educational philosophy of being a man first, then getting married, thinking independently and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. What is printed in this little book is not an ordinary letter from home. In his letter to Fu Cong, Fu Lei said: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging or inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it is not only your writing but also your thoughts that exercise you through communication; Fourth, I will always be your warning and be a' faithful mirror' everywhere, no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality." Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and deep affection between the lines have touched parents and children all over the world.
Letters from Fu Lei and Fu Cong inspired me a lot. Many of our parents have neglected the friendship with their children, and have raised them for more than ten years, but they have never really enjoyed the fun of being parents. Because they are eager to make their children succeed, their attitude towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of encouraging measures have come out. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "showing filial sons under the stick", but have they ever thought that they have the quality that Fu Lei's example is more important than words and deeds? Can optical Frey's word "hit" produce good results? So the child tasted abuse and fists, as well as the pain of studying under pressure and fear, and his golden childhood was eclipsed. Fu Lei realized that although he suffered from political movements in his later years, he was happy at this point because he and his son became the closest friends.
Now, many parents are also scrambling to imitate Fu Lei's way of educating their children. Therefore, this has become a mode of parenting education.
After reading Fu Lei's letter 2
When I want to go back and write my thoughts, I find it difficult. Because these letters from home included in the book are wonderful and meticulous, taking notes or any summary may damage this classic. So, here I just record some important impressions after reading this book and the important thoughts expressed by the author I understand.
First of all, in terms of form, Letter from Home has taught me what is meticulous, meticulous and serious ... I believe all readers who have read Letter from Home are deeply touched by these characteristics. According to my own experience, I think this is largely due to the way of expression, communication or writing. Only in this way can we have such a wide range of works, which is naturally comfortable. He not only talks about art study, but also about life, love, being a man and self-cultivation. Even if the son writes a typo, the father will "seriously" point it out and patiently analyze and correct it. It is this way rather than other ways (such as thesis and translation) that enables us to directly and clearly feel the meticulous and serious attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a famous literary critic and literary translator. If Letters from Fu Lei is a "best reading for art apprentices" or a classic "teaching article", then I think this attitude and style should be the first and most meaningful. But it is by no means limited to this. Moreover, because of his knowledge and thoughts, Mr. Fu Lei can explain profound but never difficult truths about any major and minor issues, thus giving people inspiration. Of course, I don't think this is just "the best reading for art apprentices" or "teaching articles". For readers like me who are not an art apprentice (in a narrow sense), these letters are still great. The book shines with wisdom everywhere, giving people profound enlightenment from time to time. Throughout it, I think the most important point is that the relationship among life, practice and study is actually an integrated thought. In my opinion, this is the importance of attaching importance to and emphasizing "universal support". In other letters, this idea appeared, such as suggestions about going to museums and forests, hoping to improve general cultivation through these methods, rather than blindly practicing the piano and engaging in music. What inspires me is that reading is just one of the ways to cultivate one's self-cultivation, and there should be others. Even if you study, don't limit yourself to a certain subject. The establishment and improvement of general education requires reading literature, art, science, philosophy, sociology, economics and history. Because, life or life is by no means as standardized and neat as the classification of university disciplines. All fields are just one aspect of the world we live in. In order to understand the world we live in and ourselves, extensive reading is beneficial. In fact, I was influenced by Mao Zedong for a long time and asked so much of myself. In addition, others, such as the relationship between emotion (passion) and reason, should control emotions with reason; I often look at everything in life from the perspective of stars or the universe, so I understand the limitations of people, and so on. These are all insightful and shine with rational light! These are some thoughts after reading Fu Lei's letter. As the saying goes, "the book is not full of words, and the words are not full of meaning." After reading, I can only record part of my gains, but I can't write more. I have to integrate into my body. Originally, reading notes and feeling after reading are just means, and understanding and practicing the truth is the ultimate goal.