It is important to be well-matched for the following reasons:
1. The gap between the rich and the poor
Everyone will naively think that love trumps everything, but love will eventually There is no escaping reality. In a family with the wrong family background and too obvious economic gap, two people will obviously not be very happy together. Just imagine, when you want to buy a favorite piece of clothing, the other person thinks it is too expensive. When you want to have a good meal, the other person thinks you are wasting it. It is difficult to be truly happy in such a relationship.
2. The gap in knowledge
The gap in knowledge between two people directly determines whether they can speak the same language. Two people from the wrong family and the wrong household. The gap in knowledge means that they cannot speak the same language. Being together will only be endless suffering. There is only silence between them. You don’t understand what he says, and he is not interested in what you say. , how can two people go on?
3. The gap in vision
A person with an open mind and broad vision may see, hear and come into contact with things that are beyond the reach of others. How important it is to be a good match can be seen from the gap in vision between two people. You can take a longer-term view of a matter with your partner, but the other person only focuses on the immediate petty gains. Conflicts and quarrels are obvious.
4. Differences in family environment
Family environment determines a person's growth, the development of a person's character, and the quality of his or her conduct are all closely related to the family environment. . A person who grew up in a loving and harmonious family relationship is definitely loving, helpful, optimistic and positive in character. If a person grows up in an environment that lacks family care and has a disharmonious family, and his character is withdrawn, negative and pessimistic, such two people will not be able to get together.
Extended information:
1. If a person’s friends are all high-level people, and they usually get together to enjoy wine, enjoy flowers, discuss financial investments, etc., The other half of the circle of friends are all fair-weather friends, who only know how to eat and drink, doing nothing every day, and have no sense of life. Then the two people's friends cannot get along, and the two people cannot integrate into each other's circle of friends.
2. Only two people who are well matched can the circle of friends be integrated. Everyone hopes that their relationship will be blessed, but two people with too different friend circles will not get the blessings of each other's friends no matter what.