1. Tolerance is like water. Tolerance means to forgive other people's faults, not to hold a grudge, not to compare every penny spent, to be kind and gentle, and to be a generous person. Tolerance and gentleness like water are often more effective than excessive revenge when encountering conflicts. It is like a clear spring, erasing each other's momentary hostility, making people calm and sober.
2. Dealing with others is easy if you can tolerate it. Tolerance is a state that originates from the kindness, love and compassion of people; tolerance is a kind of humility. People have different personalities and opinions, and everyone has different opinions. Tolerant people can learn from the strengths of others and do good; tolerance is to forgive others and allow others to make mistakes. ; It is virtue that touches people, and it is a kind of good force that shortens the distance between people and resolves conflicts between people. Those who respect others will respect others, and those who tolerate others will tolerate others.
3. Life may be like a highway, requiring obedience, tolerance, and rules. If you go beyond the rules of life, all that will be left is congestion, heart blockage, and destiny blockage.
4. Life comes and goes, and fate comes and goes. Cherish and tolerate the people who come into your life, embrace the beauty, and accept the imperfections. Life is not as good as expected, nor as bad as imagined. Right and wrong, grudges are just a touch of color in looking back, lighting up the ordinary past.
5. To love someone is to give without reason; to love someone is to be unconditionally tolerant. True love is a constant waiting; true love is an everlasting companionship. Be kind to each other's fate, respect each other's feelings, and exchange sincerity for true love. This is the most beautiful forever!
6. Tolerance not only resolves the unhappiness between people like a hot spring, but also cleanses people's hearts and allows us to grow happily.
7. When a person can tolerate your past, feel sorry for the pain you have paid for your relationship, silently bear your hostility to feelings, and encourage you to step out of the shadow of the past. Please be grateful and grateful. Only by loving someone deeply can a person who is selfish about love act like this. No one has the obligation to pay for the behavior of unrelated people in the past, and no one has the obligation to pay for the behavior of his or her previous relationship. Emotionally responsible.
8. Of course, tolerance should be "strict to oneself and lenient to others." To forgive yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Being tolerant to others" also depends on the target. Tolerating people who do not cherish tolerance is indiscriminate; tolerating people who are not worthy of tolerance is appeasement; being tolerant to people who are unforgivable is indulgence. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a science.
9. Forgiving the other person for hurting you once is tolerance, and forgiving the other person for the same hurt multiple times is connivance. No matter how much you love, you can't let go of your dignity and wisdom. You can be tolerant of your lover, but you can never condone them. People are mean-tempered, and the more you indulge them, the more deeply they will hurt you in return.
10. Tolerance means not caring about it, just letting it go. Everyone has mistakes. If you stick to your past mistakes, you will form ideological baggage, distrust, grudges, and inability to let go, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. Those who can withstand betrayal are the strongest people, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with their strong will. Their majesty can give people more confidence and motivation, and therefore they can better prevent or reduce betrayal.
11. Learning to be tolerant means growth. A beautiful tree can absorb more of the grace of the sun and the moon, and stretch out its strong and mature power.
12. Don’t dare to love, don’t dare to accept, don’t dare to face, so it only brings harm. Choose to endure, choose to tolerate, choose to face, but you can’t choose the reincarnation of the previous life.
13. Love is inclusive, love is given, love is mutual, love is giving, love what I love, love is unchanging.
14. Tolerance is the lubricant that eliminates friction between people, the sunshine that eliminates the snow of suspicion between people, and the bridge that communicates between each other's hearts.
15. The beauty of scenery lies in the heart of viewing the scenery, and the harmony of home lies in humility and tolerance. A home is like a peach blossom smiling at the spring breeze, the peach blossoms on a person's face reflect each other's red, and a Confucian scholar creates a home with foam. I can't forget the hardships just because of a little unhappiness. After all, it was the most beautiful beginning in our lives. After all these years, the people and the family are still the same, and they don't just stay in our memories, right?
16. The breadth of your mind determines the pattern of your destiny. You can have as much as you can tolerate. See things openly, think through them, take them up and let them go, learn to tolerate your temper, know how to restrain your desires, be rational when you retreat, and be generous when you are humble, and your world will be vast and vast; only by cultivating virtue and cultivating your character in advance You must control your anger, cut out the trivial details, get rid of distracting thoughts and selfishness, be more adaptable to the situation, and less care about comparisons, only then can your life be smooth and smooth, and become a great scenery.
17. A man who is knowledgeable and tolerant, although he often appears to be henpecked in front of outsiders. However, this kind of fear is not necessarily true fear, but more of a kind of love and a kind of wisdom. He knows his wife better than anyone else, and he can control his woman at the most critical moment better than anyone else. In fact, he and she are not at the same level or rank. He is like a father looking at his daughter's naughty and naughty ways.
18. In fact, having bad tempers between two people is also a trigger, which will be very tiring. Only then did the girl understand that love requires mutual understanding and tolerance, and patience to accompany the other half to change. Breaking bad habits is what love is, isn't it? When the other party cannot do this, they will definitely not be able to get together, let alone talk about it in the future.
19. Tolerance is a poem of life. Tolerance at the highest level is not just reflected in the handling of certain events in daily life, but is sublimated into a broad mind towards the universe and a poetic attitude toward life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the broad-mindedness and fraternity of the heart towards all life in the world. The horse in the fable cannot reach this state, but this state is so real and profound for humans.
20. Tolerance not only saves others, but also cultivates oneself. There is a saying in "Cai Gen Tan": "Don't blame others for their small faults, don't expose others' secrets, and don't think about people's old evils. The three can cultivate virtues, and they can also far away harm." It also goes: "A generous amount can bring a blessing, but a tool and a salary are small. "A kind and tolerant person will live longer because he is magnanimous, he will avoid harm because he does not care about things, and he will be admired because he leads people to do good."
21. A heart that is as calm as water does not mean a heart that is as cold as ashes, but one that has learned to be tolerant. Living in this imperfect world with the mentality of striving for perfection is the biggest mistake in life. People with calm hearts have not lost interest in anyone and anything, but have clearly understood that incompleteness is the normal state of life. Mood is an emotional state. When you have a good mood, you have confidence, and then you have youth and health.
22. Two people who love each other can go through life together. First of all, they have a "thumping" feeling for each other. Gradually, this "thumping" develops into love, and slowly this "love" "It turned into a family relationship. Because they are relatives, the two people will continue to go on. Although there will be bumps and tumbles, they tolerate each other.
23. Tolerance is a science. For small mistakes, small mistakes, you can happily forgive each other. But for big mistakes and big mistakes, we need to think carefully about them. Tolerance is not to shield or hide, but to help.
24. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a virtue. Tolerance is not timidity, but generosity that embraces all rivers. As a human being, you must learn to be tolerant.
25. Be more humble and tolerant towards others, don’t be arrogant, don’t rely on favors, sit quietly and think about your own faults, don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk, always reflect on your own shortcomings, instead of being arrogant and fussy about others’ faults.
26. Tolerance is a kind of love. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary raging of thunder and lightning storms can the wind and sunshine be beautiful; only when the vast sea tolerates the temporary raging of stormy waves can the water be boundless; The vast forest has endured the law of the weak and the strong for a while, so it can be lush and green; Mount Tai can reach its height without sparing any inch of land; rivers can reach its fire without choosing its own flow. Tolerance is the Mount Tai that stands in thousands of directions, and love is the ocean that accommodates hundreds of rivers.
27. Tolerance is a kind of beauty. When you do it, you are the embodiment of beauty. Whether a person can treat everything around him with a tolerant heart is a manifestation of quality and cultivation. Most people hope to gain tolerance and understanding from others, but they cannot do this because they always regard other people's shortcomings and mistakes as troubles and resentments. As the saying goes: "The broadest thing in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the human mind." If everyone has such a broad mind, human beings will have more understanding and more understanding. If you value goodness and beauty more, the ups and downs in life will turn into colorful music.
28. Tolerance is a state, tolerance is an attitude. Tolerance should be as natural as the fallen leaves in autumn and the new grass in spring, rather than using standards to force yourself to tolerate something. It is not a kind of tolerance. A painful process, but a state of understanding others.
29. To learn to tolerate others is to learn to be kind to yourself. Resentment can only keep our souls living in darkness forever; but tolerance can make our souls free and liberated.
30. Tolerate everything you can’t get in return. When you give, don't ask when you will get something in return; when you give, don't ask why it's unfair. Paying, being happy and forgetting is the best reward.
31. Life is like the sea, tolerance is the boat, and you can know the width of the sea by boating on the sea; life is like the mountain, tolerance is the path, and you can know the height of the mountain by following the path; life is like a song, tolerance is the music, and the harmony is with the music. Only by singing can you know how beautiful the song is.
32. How deep the love is, how deep the tolerance and understanding are. Only those who dare to love dare to tolerate and understand the people they love. Be a considerate person, give the other person more time and space, and be a wise and loving person.
33. You don’t know what I’m thinking, and I don’t know what you want. Sometimes love is actually very simple. If you know how to cherish, learn to understand, be considerate and tolerant, your love will last forever.
34. Tolerance is a kind of love. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary raging of thunder and lightning storms can the wind and sunshine be beautiful; only when the vast sea tolerates the temporary raging of stormy waves can the water be boundless; The vast forest has endured the law of the weak and the strong for a while, so it can be lush and green; Mount Tai can reach its height without sparing any inch of land; rivers can reach its fire without choosing its own flow. Tolerance is the Mount Tai that stands in thousands of directions, and love is the ocean that accommodates hundreds of rivers.
35. The world of life is so broad, there is no need for us to waste time and life in friction with each other.
The sky is big, but what is bigger than the sky is the human heart! If everyone is more tolerant and generous, our lives will be more exciting, harmonious and beautiful.
36. The greatest virtue in life is tolerance. Tolerance is not cowardice or tolerance, but rather observing others' difficulties, making up for others' shortcomings, promoting others' strengths, and forgiving others' faults, rather than being jealous of others' talents, despising others' abilities, ridiculing others' shortcomings, and blaming others for their mistakes. . Tolerance means affirming oneself and acknowledging others. It is a state of treating life and others well. Behind tolerance lies love and strength.
37. If you can cry at will, lose your temper at will, dress at will, speak at will, and vent your most vulnerable side at will under the tolerance of friendship, you know that he (She) will not look down upon you, will not scold you for being worthless, will not think you are incompetent, will not put pressure on you, will only look at you silently, listen, smile... How beautiful, how happy you should be .
38. What accompanies me throughout my life is a heart, a kind of distress, a tolerance, and an unwavering persistence.
39. The breadth of your mind determines the pattern of your destiny. You can have as much as you can tolerate.
40. When you love someone, you can tolerate everything about her, even give up everything for her. Therefore, when someone tells you that you can't be together for career, status, studies, etc., don't think that there is really a reason. The only reason is that he doesn't love you.
41. Living in a tolerant world, being open-minded and tolerant of others is not only a personal moral cultivation, it is also a belief in being a human being and a necessary belief. It is also a commitment to life and a belief in life.
42. No matter how good a person is, he has no tolerance and is a small-minded person. It is possible that he will fail, and he may fail in friendship, love, or career.
43. If tolerance is an evergreen tree, then it must be watered by the clear spring from the heart; if tolerance is an undefeated flower, then it must be illuminated by The sun rising from the heart, how much laughter is tolerance.
44. Every predecessor is a school, teaching us compromise, teaching us tolerance, teaching us to recognize impulse and courage, compromise and perseverance. Looking forward to the day when all the tears and resentments will dissipate, and when we meet by chance at the corner of the street, we can calmly say: "I'm so happy, we are all doing well!"
45. Success in life depends only on one's own hard work. The ability to work hard must also be open-minded, tolerant and tolerant. Two fists cannot beat four hands, and a tiger cannot fight against a pack of wolves. No matter how high your skills and abilities are, you are of no use if you are separated from the collective and others. Without mistakes, you are useless. Without innovation and progress, tolerating other people's faults is to gain life for yourself; beautiful jade has flaws, and saints have flaws, and tolerance will make you like a fish in water.
46. Tolerance is the same as "discipline yourself." There is no contradiction in "treating others with kindness". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but a coward. "Treat others with kindness" also has to look at the target first. People who are tolerant and do not cherish tolerance are sentimental; people who are tolerant are not worthy of tolerance. , is tolerance; tolerance of unforgivable people is indulgence. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a knowledge of life.
47. People should learn to be more tolerant. The separation of souls; more tolerance means more understanding, more trust, and more friendship.
48. Tolerance is actually everywhere in our lives, as long as you learn to understand. Learn to be tolerant of others, and the world will become more peaceful and beautiful!
49. Only when the heart is tolerant and dependable can we not leave; because of love and irreplaceable love, we will not leave. The happiest people do not get the best things in the world, but cherish the people they already have. Love and being loved are not necessarily directly proportional. The more you want to hold on, the easier it is to lose. The world of love is multiplication. If one of them is zero, the result will always be zero.
50. If you are planning to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying: You must be patient and tolerant of each other's shortcomings. There is no absolute happiness in the world. A happy marriage only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect. 51. There is no absolute fairness in life, but relative fairness. The more you get, the more you must bear. , every seemingly low starting point is the only way to a better life. Make yourself more peaceful, more open-minded, indifferent to the mistakes around you, and make yourself more tolerant, optimistic, and happy. It’s not about getting more, but asking for less and caring less.
52. You can do as many things as you can in your heart; you can manage as many people as you can tolerate in your heart.
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53. Water contains all things, nourishes green, and is the origin of life; no matter when and where it is, it always changes its shape and constantly looks for a way out; it does not reject any joining sand, stones and material barriers, but instead Move forward, strengthen your strength, and move forward bravely; whenever you encounter obstacles, you will always slowly accumulate strength and finally break through them; you will never change your essence despite thousands of miles and thousands of dangers.
54 , I am angry because I care about you. I am silent because I tolerate you. I am angry because I want you to be better. I'm angry because I don't want to lose you.
I ignore you because I want you to take the initiative. If I didn't care, I would be indifferent. If I didn't care, I would be indifferent. If you don't love me, I won't feel heartache or shed tears.
55. Be more humble and tolerant towards others, don’t be arrogant, don’t rely on favors, sit quietly and think about your own faults, don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk, always reflect on your own shortcomings, instead of being arrogant and fussy about other people’s faults. Constrain yourself with a heart that says, "I would rather others bear me down than I will bear down on others. I should blame myself with the same mind that takes responsibility for others, and forgive others with the same mind that forgives myself." If you can treat everything in life with a tolerant and considerate heart, you will definitely have a broad road in front of you.
56. Life is often complicated, and classic sentences are often dull. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that the complex becomes pure after being filtered; it is precisely because tolerance is like fire that the ordinary becomes increasingly clear through burning; and because of this poetic tolerance, life is given art and life is eternal.
57. The greatest virtue in life is tolerance. It is neither cowardice nor tolerance, but rather observing others' difficulties, making up for their shortcomings, promoting others' strengths, and forgiving others' faults, without being jealous of others' talents, despising others' abilities, ridiculing others' shortcomings, and blaming others. error. Tolerance means affirming oneself and acknowledging others. It is a state of being kind to life and treating others well. Behind tolerance, there is love and strength, a straight spine, and a broad mind.
58. Long-term waiting comes from tolerance; silent touching comes from sincerity. Some tolerance does not mean bowing your head and admitting defeat, being reluctant to let go of years of emotions; some compromise does not mean being humble and cheap, not letting go of the past cares.
59. What is tolerance? Tolerance is a lamp that illuminates the path of the soul. Tolerance is a hot spring that dissolves the ice between people. It is a bridge to communicate between people. I hope there will be more tolerance between people.
60. If you can cry at will, lose your temper at will, dress at will, speak at will, and vent your most vulnerable side at will under the tolerance of friendship, you know that he (She won’t look down on you, won’t scold you for being worthless, won’t think you’re incompetent, won’t put pressure on you, she will just look at you silently, listen, smile...how beautiful, how happy you should be.
61. The sign of a person’s maturity is tolerance and forgiveness.
62. Life is a strange journey, and everyone you meet is a beautiful accident. There will be fate, but if you don't want to, even if you are destined, fate will pass by. No matter how deep or shallow the fate is, whether it is long or short, life is short and fate is not easy to come by. , we should cherish it and treat everyone and everything in life with tolerance and openness.
63. When it has become a habit, I feel empty when I lose it! My habit is also his habit! People who truly know how to be tolerant can make people happy.
64. Care because of love; anger because of caring; silence because of tolerance; irritability because of hope for you. Good; sad because you are afraid of being alone; angry because you don’t want to lose; if you don’t care, you will be indifferent; if you don’t care, you will be indifferent.
65. Love requires mutual tolerance, not mutual opposition. Love will last forever.
66. There is no absolute perfection in life. Let us make up for the shortcomings with a tolerant heart and make life as complete as possible. When love comes. When love is gone, two people must open their hearts at the same time; when love is far away, they must also let go together and let love go away. They must be able to listen to their inner voices and understand each other's feelings. The so-called rhythm of love depends on both parties moving together. Only by adjusting can we master each other.
67. Don’t be sad about small grievances. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he will suffer. If you want to achieve maximum value and brilliance in your life, you should not care too much about grievances, and you should not let them grip your heart and disrupt your life. You must learn to laugh at them and treat them with aloofness, and a wise man must learn to tolerate them. Forgive those around you and let us grow in tolerance.
68. With a broad heart, you will be healthy for a lifetime. With a tolerant heart, you will be happy for a lifetime. With a kind heart, You will have no regrets for the rest of your life, you will have a compassionate heart, you will be safe for a lifetime, you will have a childhood heart, and you will be young for a lifetime.
69. A tolerant person can be found no matter where he is. With various opportunities, their lives are perfect, and what they bring to life are more smiles than tears; people who are tolerant do not care about trivial things. They are based on kindness, people-oriented, consider all things in their hearts, and smile. In the face of the world's sorrows; people who are tolerant are content with what they have, keep a normal heart, don't force themselves, don't have delusions, and are always working hard to make progress.
70. Tolerance is not weakness. The reason for not fussing over things and not getting into the details with others is not because you are afraid of him, but because you don’t want to fuss with him, intensify the conflict, or make both sides suffer. Tolerance is to have a cool head when facing problems and to avoid the worst consequences in the best way. Tolerance is not a passive admission of defeat, but an active giving up. When you give up those fierce words, impulsive behavior and desire for revenge, you are a tolerant person.
71. When two people are together, it is more about accepting each other than changing each other. This is tolerance.
If you just think about changing the other person, that's not life, that's **.
72. Tolerance is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, you create new wounds. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuses against you, time is a good analgesic. Only when you learn to forget can there be sunshine and joy in life.
73. Every raindrop is remarkable, every leaf is tolerant and open-minded, and the raindrops turn thousands of times on the leaf tips. The entanglement between them is a love that goes from acceptance to love to passionate love. The leaves are like a man's shoulders, and the raindrops are like the tender eyes of a lover.
74. Like is caring about the advantages, love is tolerant of flaws; like is commonplace, love is rare; like is electric discharge back and forth, love is catching the right and cheating; like is looming, love is confused; If you like her, you should break it off, but love has become a habit; if you like her, you spend money for her, and love means handing over your financial rights; if you like her, you will have sex with her for half a year, but if you love her, she will take a peek at you; if she likes you, she will make a vow, but if you love her, she will remain silent; Love is lingering in the rain, love is always sunny.
75. If you can be tolerant, you can win people. In addition to love and trust, husband and wife must also have tolerance. If they always worry about trivial matters, they cannot grow old together. Without tolerance among friends, there will be no friendship, because tolerance is the essence of friendship. If leaders are tolerant, then they can Make those who are near welcome those who are far away, and the world will return to its heart.
76. Tolerance is a beautiful emotion, tolerance is a good mentality, and tolerance is a noble state. People who can tolerate others have their minds as broad and transparent as the sky, and as broad and deep as the sea. To be tolerant of those who have deeply hurt you and to retaliate with kindness is the highest state of tolerance and the most beautiful poem in human nature.
77. What is the happiness we have been looking for? It is not only romance, a rich life, and sweet words, but knowing your shortcomings and being able to tolerate you when your face is full of wrinkles or you are seriously ill. I still love you and will never leave you. The person who can lean on each other, respect each other, and support each other in these miserable years.
78. Tolerance is a new green plant, filled with kindness. Life and hope make people feel their existence in the spirit of spring.
79. The heart cannot leave because it is tolerant and dependable; the love is irreplaceable because of love and care, so it cannot leave. The happiest people are not those who get the best things in the world, but those who cherish what they already have.
80. In one sentence: Tolerance is love; to learn tolerance is to have this love: to have this love is to give this love to more people; to give this love to others is to let others More people understand and have love; they will give this love to others... In this cycle, the world will be full of love!
81. Burying myself in the dark night is the safest relief for me; tears do not have to be shed, and suffering does not have to be in secret; there is no need for too many reasons and excuses... Yes A partner's understanding is enough.
82. Learning to be tolerant is to respect one's own life. It is a kind of profound cultivation, a state of being kind to life and treating others. It is a magic weapon to resolve conflicts and a good medicine to eliminate barriers. It can bring more peace and quiet to yourself and others. Tolerance is the generosity of embracing all rivers, the cheerfulness and cheerfulness of smiling at the wind and clouds. Tolerance not only gives others a broad world, but also gives oneself a boundless sky. There is no harm in a tolerant life.
83. At that time, he was rebellious and uninhibited, and he liked thin girls with cold personalities, not her kind. At that time, she was particularly picky about boys, requiring them to be good-looking, punctual, and trustworthy. They are the most intolerant of men being late, and never give them any chance to defend themselves... They are just like this, because they are picky and not tolerant enough, and they miss love again and again in their youngest years.
84. Tolerance means not to force yourself when others disagree with you. From a psychological perspective, every idea has its origin. Every motivation has certain inducements. By understanding the root of the other party's ideas and finding the basis for their opinions, you will be able to put yourself in their shoes, and the proposed plan will be more in line with the other party's psychology and be accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontations is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We must respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence of each other, and make good efforts to discard them.
85. Because of tolerance, the complicated life becomes pure; because of tolerance, the monotonous life appears bright. What a beautiful color tolerance gives to life!
86. When getting along with others, we must have a compatible, tolerant and tolerant mentality. In every character, there are some parts that are difficult to accept. You must learn to treat it dialectically. As long as it does not touch your dignity and bottom line, there is no need to be too serious. Just like appreciating a rose, who will judge the thorns? ? There is no need to be too demanding about other people's flaws and faults. If you are strict with others, you should be strict with yourself, and you should be forgiving with others, the road to life will be broad.
87. Tolerance, please forgive me for ignoring you and losing you because of my wrong choices. Now I want to protect you well. I will not lose you again. I want to be with you. Together, you kick away the nasty monster of selfishness and kick it far away. The world will be a better place because of you.
In my world, everything seems so beautiful because of tolerance!
88. Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things. Live a life. Smile a little. Be a better person in the eyes of others than others think. Do you understand?
89. Maybe there will be a miracle, give life a chance to start over, learn to tolerate, tolerate other people's shortcomings, tolerate other people's mistakes, tolerate other people's impulses! When you can do this, your life will be colorful, your happiness will be improved, and your life will not be easily distressed and irritable!
90. Tolerance is to allow a person to give a sincere smile to the person he hates; tolerance is to treat people who have done bad things to him as a friend; tolerance is to give someone who is disliked Your person is an encouragement and a help.
91. Marriage is not a commodity. Once lost, it can never be found again. Missing out on an otherwise wonderful marriage will really make you regret it for the rest of your life. Since entering into a marriage, one must sincerely love each other, and the two hearts should fight together, support together, and face various difficulties in life. Entering into a marriage means that two people are willing to go hand in hand through a long road of life. When we are destined to come together, we must understand, respect and tolerate each other.
92. Tolerance makes friendship close; tolerance makes family ties deep; tolerance makes society harmonious and beautiful. Tolerance brings infinite charm.