The waves created by the three urban women this summer are like an ukiyo-e that reflects all living beings. It seems that everyone can see their own shadow in them, but this does not mean that all women... …

The essence of life is that there will always be difficulties ahead.

There are always people who care about age. Of course, this is not just a symbol. Behind the ever-growing number is also the expectation of oneself and the eyes of the entire society.

Life is not a parabola. Who says that people cannot grow after the age of thirty? Sometimes, the most anxious age is often a turning point in life.

No matter when, should we maintain the tranquility of the first bloom?

Bei Dao's "Five Colored Flowers" | Tong Yao

On the edge of the abyss, < /p>

You protect every lonely dream of mine

- The sound of the wind blowing the grass blades.

The sun is burning in vain in the distance,

You cast your own shadow next to the puddle

The microwaves sway, settling yesterday's time.

If one day you also die,

I have only a simple hope:

To maintain the peace and tranquility of the first release.

Everyone is guarding the secret dream in their hearts, and they are all using their own way to become what an adult should be before "thirty".

There are always friends around who are admired by everyone, and their perfect life seems to be their ideal. However, who knows the reality floating under the iceberg?

Just like the perfect character Gu Jia, he can't help but sigh like this - "After becoming a mother, your biggest feeling is aggrieved, aggrieved by the title of mother... ..On the first day of confinement, I suddenly felt that Gu Jia was dead, and the one who survived was Xu Ziyan’s mother.”

After becoming a mother, many women’s “self-interests” began to change. Immediately he walked off the altar. Rather than living a stable life, they have to experience the ups and downs and challenges of life.

Our best is still burning and shining?

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Luo Yihe's "Birthday" (Excerpt) | Jiang Shuying

Although we also have misfortune

Our best

is still burning

is still shining

Let’s raise a glass

This is a birthday

On this day there are dragonflies flying in the sea

Each one has green wings

Each one Just a dragonfly

They keep moving forward

They don’t retreat in the airflow

Sing

This is a birthday

will never endure suffering again

Those who sing today

have a voice like the grass

As her birthday approached, Wang Manni left Shanghai and returned to her parents and the town she knew so well. I used to be full of passion for big cities, but when I turned thirty, those longings became a reality before my eyes.

At the age of thirty, she was tempted, but fortunately she cut her losses in time and was not greedy; she also wavered, but in the end she kept the bottom line.

As many people have said, it is not difficult to find a job to support yourself in first-tier cities. But if you want to take root here in a prosperous and worry-free way on your own, there are layers of strict social barriers.

Uncle Yu from the small town said earnestly to Manni - "All those who choose to be beautiful must know the moment they walk out of the house that from now on, you will be your own home. Oh my god, if you don’t even have this courage, don’t go out as soon as possible.”

I will think of you when the wind blows across the water

Lin Huiyin’s “Memory” |? Mao Xiaotong

Intermittent music, the most beautiful or gentle

The night carries the stars of the day.

Who doesn’t have memories?

Two or three pingtings, flowers covered with emotions

Unknown unfolding

The fragrance of wild lotus,

the moonlight in the stillness of each petal.

The wind blows on the lake, and the hair is messed up, or

the water surface is wrinkled like fish scales.

The vastness on all sides is like a dream

The wandering past in the center is rippling

Without any trace, everyone can recognize the picture.

The reflection of the memory sinking under the water!

Once you lose love, countless memories come flooding back. The memories sunk under the water, those intersecting reflections spread out with the ripples, and each circle of memories is full of misunderstandings and misplacements.

The scraps and scraps in life are really like a piece of rubber, will they wear away all the brilliance in the marriage picture?

On her thirtieth birthday, Zhong Xiaoqin chose to divorce. “It is easy to separate but difficult to separate.

"The most torturous thing in love is not separation and missing, but the lingering touches and details...

In fact, the love that girls yearn for is not a tangled rope, it is more like It's the vibration of a pair of tuning forks. They need to support each other in their stumbling growth.

Thirty-year-old women, they are both ordinary and dazzling. What matters is not what they have, but their attitude towards things and the direction they face.

Some people are not confused at their twenties, some are only thirty, some only have a little joy at forty... and some people. Swinging between the nodes of various ages - endless confusion.

No matter what, what can give meaning to age is not the numerical code, but the way we live our lives, even if it is full of wind and rain. , and also hold your own umbrella steady.

Excerpted from Reading Poems for You