This sentence comes from China writer Lu Xun's "Blessing", the original text is "May you have a love that will not be disappointed, and may you become the person you love. But if you can't have both, don't hesitate to choose the latter. There are stars and seas without being confined to love. " The meaning of this sentence is that love is important, but if love has hindered personal development and freedom, we must decisively choose our dreams and careers, have a broader development space, and don't be troubled by a single view of love. In other words, we should learn to make a proper choice between career and love, and don't let love become a shackle that binds and suppresses personal freedom.