"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "

From the lines of the above sentence, we can see that Fu Lei loves his son deeply-I hope that his grown-up son can thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let his children stay away from him. Parents always do. From conception to delivery in 10, they worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that they would be useful in the future and would not sleep on the street. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, there is a feeling of flesh and blood.

Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.

This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

Third, Fu Lei's charge.

Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves.

Fourth, mother's concern.

"I hope you put all your energy into the study of knowledge, with more reason and less emotion. Of course, you need to rely on your strong confidence to control all your troubles. This is not an easy task, but it must be overcome. I have never mixed any opinions about your emotional problems. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart man, you will realize it yourself. Since I am your mother and we are flesh and blood, we have to nag and persuade. "

Or the mother's prudence. The father has a good heart for his son's future, and the mother starts with the most delicate place-the son's emotional problem, and gives his son a clear road direction. Tell him how to deal with his feelings and career problems, so that his son can understand where the focus is.

V. Fu Lei loves his son.

On the occasion of parting, father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict with his son and being "cruel". It turned out to be my own fault. In fact, this is the love for my son! Young people don't work hard, but old people are sad! When his son was young, Mr. Fu Lei was strict and meticulous with his son, and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. Where would a father abuse his own flesh and blood? Mr. Fu Lei just wants to be a talent under strict father.

Extended data

Fu Lei said that his letter to his son has many functions:

First, discuss art;

Second, stimulate the feelings of young people;

Third, train Fu Cong and Fu Min in writing and thinking;

Fourth, be a faithful "mirror". The content of the letter is more about art and life than trivial matters, instilling the noble sentiments that an artist should have, letting his son know "the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art" and being an "artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality".

It is human nature to love his son, but Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong and Fu Min has not turned into ordinary tenderness. Instead, he always puts morality and art first, and puts the feeling of the calf second. Just like his strict discipline of Fu Cong and Fu Min's Children's Year, although it is not recognized by ordinary people, it really comes from his deeper love for his son.

Because this book is a family letter written by a father to his son, and it is a proverb written on paper. Therefore, it is as pure and simple as a clear spring in a mountain and white clouds in a blue sky.