Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, it seems that parents can't catch the braid of the times. How do they provide children with a good way to stand on their feet? As a result, I fell into confusion and helplessness for a long time.
Cheeky is undoubtedly a derogatory term in ancient and modern vocabulary and in anyone's thinking consensus. As a famous child-rearing expert, why did Li Meijin "knowingly commit a crime" and suggest that children develop the habit of "cheekiness" from an early age?
A, strong anti-strike ability, not afraid of setbacks
Life is a long road, and setbacks follow. A thin-skinned child may be depressed and even have no love because of a small setback and a failed blow. What may be delayed is a lifetime.
As we all know, opportunities are hard to find, but many children can't accept the blow because they are thin-skinned, and directly want to give up the opportunity that they should enjoy forever.
Children with "thick skin" are usually more prone to failure and frustration, and failure means nothing. This spirit is especially needed for scientific exploration.
B, dare to face difficulties and meet challenges.
If children are thick-skinned, they won't care too much about other people's comments and eyes.
Such children often dare to think and do, and have strong execution, because they do not have any external ideological burden, and often take the initiative to attack, which may occupy a dominant position in daily social life and work. And a thin-skinned child can only become a vassal of others forever.
C, thick skin is easy to have good popularity.
Sooner or later, children will integrate into the group. In collective life, it is very important to have a good relationship. Thick-skinned children often have no scruples and dare to say and do, so they have no social fear and are easy to get along with groups.
The good popularity of children may not have any obvious effect at present, but it will be a great boost in the future or in the future, so it is very important to cultivate children's thick skin.
Encourage children to practice courage in public.
The most striking feature of thin-skinned children is that they dare not show themselves in public, which stems from their natural fear of life. But this can be overcome by training the day after tomorrow.
In the past, when parent-child programs such as "Where is Dad?". And "Mom is Superman?" After the fire, parents can find that the children of stars are shy at first, but elegant at the back, because courage can also be cultivated through exercise.
Now there are often some public welfare performances in the community or special social organizations. Parents can encourage their children to participate more and cultivate their calmness and calmness when facing the camera and the public.
B, with children's strong sense of story substitution
That's why a similar farce was exposed in the news. Children watch Journey to the West and jump down from the balcony on the second floor.
If parents want to cultivate their children's thick skin and let them face failure correctly, they can hand-draw a virtual short story and entertain and educate, which is better than parents' bitter words.
C, take more children to get along with others.
Children are thin-skinned, and the obvious feature is that they are afraid of strangers. This is the nature of children, and parents can't let themselves go without too much criticism.
When children are young, due to the imperfect development of various physical functions, parents usually leave their children at home, even if they take them out, they will not leave them. If children have no chance to contact strangers, they will have an unknown fear of strangers.
Parents should let their children have more contact and get along with strangers. When taking children out, parents should take the initiative to let their children interact with strangers in an appropriate way.
When children grow up with more people, they will really deal with strangers independently, which will reduce a lot of fear and discomfort.
Children develop the habit of "thick-skinned" from an early age, which is conducive to enhancing their courage to face setbacks in the future and laying a solid foundation for their foothold in society in the future.