Four famous sayings, such as:

(1) Speak lightly and don't persuade others, and poor people don't enter the public. Out of kindness, many people like to be good teachers, and whenever they see Bieber making mistakes, they will sincerely want to help them out of trouble. In fact, sometimes our kindness will backfire. When we speak lightly, it is impossible for others to listen to our opinions, but they look stupid.

When we are poor, don't try to make friends with the rich and compare with our relatives. When we are down and out, most people are people who hit people when they are down. Simply associating with them will not help us, but will make us their jokes. As the saying goes: "No one asks if you are poor in downtown, but you have distant relatives if you are rich in the mountains." This is the truth.

(2) A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. As the saying goes: "Happiness lies in misfortune, and misfortune lies in happiness", which means that when we are frustrated in life for a while, we should not give up on ourselves and be self-indulgent. We must learn to be forbearing, understand the truth of "keeping a low profile and keeping a low profile" and secretly accumulate our own strength.

where there is a will, there is a way. If you cross the rubicon, you will eventually be in Chu. Hard-working people, the sky pays off, and they taste the courage. Three thousand more armor can swallow Wu. It is precisely because Gou Jian's country was defeated by Fu Cha, the king of Wu, that he learned to endure, and finally recovered his strength before he could avenge his national humiliation. We have to do the same. The temporary frustration in life means nothing, but it will stimulate your fighting spirit, and eventually you will get unexpected gains.

(3) The trees are beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy them. No matter in life or in the workplace, people who are too sharp-edged will often become "targets of public criticism", because most people are selfish in nature, and once they see that people around them are doing better than themselves in some aspects, they can't help but feel jealous.

in the book Tao Te Ching, Lao Tzu wrote, "It's better to keep the middle if you talk a lot and count the poor", which is to warn me that the wisdom of people is to see through what is broken and not to be too outstanding. This is the great wisdom of dealing with people in life.

(4) Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. There is an old saying: "It is better to read thousands of books than Wan Li Road, and it is better to read countless people than Wan Li Road, and it is better to read countless people than a famous teacher to guide the way", which means the necessity of communication and going out. If a person builds a car behind closed doors, he will only become arrogant and eventually be eliminated by society.

Life is very short, and it's a long life. Everything can't be perfect. Although disasters can make us stronger, occasionally listening to the teachings and life experiences of our ancestors may help us avoid many unnecessary troubles and frustrations.