First, the acquisition of skills depends on oneself, not on innate inheritance. Never force another person to do something he cannot do.

The second is to handle things based on reality. Depending on the objects or the circumstances, the methods of handling problems must also change accordingly and vary from person to person.

Original text: When someone crosses the river, he tries to lure his baby into the river, but the baby cries. When people asked him why, he said, "His father is good at traveling." Although his father was good at traveling, how could his son be so good at traveling all of a sudden? If you do anything like this, you will definitely be disobedient.