The first time I heard about Chen Guo and came into contact with this book was when I was listening to it. I deeply agree with many of her views, or in other words, I didn't understand her in some aspects at first, but after reading it, I felt that she was "similar to my heart".

We talk about "love" all day long, but it does not mean that we truly understand its true meaning. Only when we truly understand what "good love" is, can we be nourished by it and rejuvenate our lives.

1. Only when an emotion is higher than the value of our own lives, it is love.

2. Love is stable, long-lasting, tough, and heavy. It is the root of a person's settlement and a spiritual home that cannot be stayed away from for a moment.

3. Love is the intimate embrace of a group of spirits and a group of spirits. It is the mutual birth and mutual existence of one soul and another soul.

4. Once shot by Cupid’s golden arrow, the timid will become extremely brave, the careless will become delicate and sensitive, and the poor tongue will be able to recite moving poems, and despair Those who will never give up.

5. Love is the most basic need of life and the most luxurious enjoyment of life.

6. True love is not only "I love you", but also what we often say "I admire you". Compared with "love", "admiration" has an extra layer of admiration, an extra layer of hopeless heartbeat, and an extra layer of "a destiny that cannot be violated" that is almost worshipful.

7. The three words "I love you" are not easy, because they are a mortal's plea to God, a small person's devotion to the perfect, and a pedestrian in the dark to the sun. The longing is a kind of surrender and an unreserved trust.

8. What most of us are more concerned about in our hearts may be: How to make him love me more, care about me more, and treat me better? How can I make him love me so much that he can't help himself? How can I make him need me, be inseparable from me, and think of me all the time?

9. When we unknowingly transform the problem of love into the problem of "being loved", when our love is no longer "I love you", but "you love me", Then the "I love you" we keep saying will become a trick. We are using the bait of "I love you" to deceive the other person's love for us. This has deviated from the original meaning of "love" and is not the real "I". "Love you", but I conquered you, dominated you, and possessed you.

10. When "I love you", I am a source that never fails, but when "you love me", I am a parasite that gets something for nothing.

11. A person who can focus on "I love you" without caring about "you love me" has extremely powerful spiritual power.

12. Only when I carry noble and beautiful love in my chest, can I share its nobility and beauty; only when I am enveloped by the soft brilliance and invisible mystery of love, can I become It has to exude the same mysterious sparkle as it does.

13. In fact, "I love you" is no worse than "You love me", and what we get from "I love you" is no better than what we get from "You love me" few. In fact, the reason why love can refresh us who are deeply involved in it and make us full of peach blossoms is not because we are missed, cared for, and loved; on the contrary, it is because we are missed, cared for, and loved.

14. The basis of "love" is true respect and care. Respect him as you respect yourself, and care for him as you care for yourself.

15. The three elements of love - passion, understanding and practice. A complete love, a beautiful love, must have these three elements, none of them can be missing.

16. True love must come from true understanding. The depth of your understanding of a person determines the depth of your love for him.

17. As you understand him better and better, there is actually another thing happening - you will understand yourself better and better.

18. In fact, apart from the intimacy of mutual spiritual understanding, where is the true intimacy? After all, physical intimacy cannot eliminate the wall between the two spiritual worlds, but understanding is the only bridge between souls, which can communicate two originally unrelated existences.

19. If a person has empty love and love, but never practices it and has no actual actions of love, then it is not true love.

20. Love is wholehearted, passionate, understanding, and practice - "Passion" means I fall in love with you, "Understanding" means I understand you, and "Practice" means I I am willing to accompany you all the way and never leave. Only when these three elements are combined can it be called wholeheartedness. Only when these three elements exist can there be "I love you".