I think everyone has heard a wise saying of the most famous Feng Shui master in China: an optimistic person is like the sun, which brings light and warmth wherever he goes; Pessimists are like dark clouds. Wherever they drift, they are always cold and dark.

Master perfection has some experience in dealing with things and interpersonal communication to share with you.

The core idea of Zhouyi is "balance". If you often quarrel with others for trivial things in your life, it means that your heart has not found a balance. For example, in interpersonal communication, when someone throws cold water on your head, you will instantly put out your fighting spirit. I know such people are annoying, but don't lose your temper. Instead, you should put yourself in his shoes and thank him. He stopped you from getting hot and made you clear. Therefore, we should be good at finding a balance in the bumps and bumps everywhere in our lives, so as to adjust our mentality and strut between heaven and earth without any interference.

Please ask the former master to share his views with us with his personal experience. He treats people sincerely. The word "sincerity" is the secret of his success. He treats every helper sincerely, listens carefully to each other's difficulties, and uses a series of knowledge such as psychology to slowly spy out the crux of your heart. If Wang doesn't get the help he deserves or the former master can't make Wang suddenly enlightened, he won't charge a penny. He said that he acted according to his conscience and sincerely helped everyone who had difficulties and needed help.

Also, in interpersonal communication, a harmonious family will also have one or two mouse droppings, that is, villains. What should we do when we meet a villain and fight with him for his framing? No, it's stupid. Doing so will only make your quality lower than his. As stupid as fighting with a mental patient. The former master said: "You should learn to tolerate villains and make them smaller and smaller through tolerance;" For a gentleman, we must learn to be honest, and form honor through honesty, so that the energy of justice can be infinitely amplified. "This is a gentle and good method.

In fact, it is very simple to look at a person's essence. Careful observation of his daily life style and attitude will be manifested consciously or unconsciously in his daily life behavior. The ex-husband Confucius said, "He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise." Only by being a wise person can we be rational, and only by being selfless, kind and virtuous can we have a kind and pure heart. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good.

The former master treated every helper with the idea that "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish, and it is better to teach people to fish". He showed people the way in the fog, let the lost people get lost, and let the people who are about to fall off the cliff stop from the cliff. People must learn to be flexible, not stubborn and stubborn. Such people can't influence you even if they are immortals.

In the eyes of the former Lord, pain is not terrible, as long as you are comforted, you can get out of it; Difficulties are not terrible, as long as they are encouraged, they can create brilliance. If we want to absorb the essence, we can be like a duck to water in life, and we don't need to get angry or envy others for some small things.